Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono's rank in the Indonesian Army was General. He had four stars. LHL was a lowly Brigadier-General with only one star. That means he is outranked by Yudhoyono by three ranks. SBY looks down on LHL the same way a Major or LTC looks down on a 2LT!!
In order to prevent himself from being bullied anymore, he should toughen himself up and change his image.
Promote himself to four-star general and wear his military uniform wherever he goes (like those African dictators) instead of his fucking pink shirts and batik shirts. Insist that people address him as "General". Award himself numerous medals, especially one for displaying exceptional courage in the Sentosa Cable Car rescue where he single-handedly planned, co-ordinated, executed and conducted the entire rescue op and saved hundreds of innocent lives.
In addition to that go and get a bunch of bad-ass tattoos. Start wearing sunglasses everywhere and always be seen smoking a cigar, just like those South American military dictators.
Then he will be embraced by his fellow crackpot dictators and will never be looked down upon again. He will be offered admission into their club!
If that fails, go hide behind LKY and let the old man deal with the Indons.