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Single Mother

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Lucy liu a very famous single mother and she is proud of it!
 
Claire said:
I seldom mince my words. I say what I believe. I reckon that's what makes me nonpareil. The truth hurts, so be it.

Burger King thrives on convincing you that their menu is healthier. The same is for a single mother, attempting to legitimise that single mothers are par for the course, in our modern times.

Any men who are cajoled and convinced by such "propaganda" are absolute fools. They are gaslighted by a stream of persistent social conditioning posts, by a certain person in this forum, whom I shall not named, for the sake of civility.

Instead of looking for "sympathy" here (or maybe she is desperately looking for a gullible male loser forummer, which I am sure is aplenty), she should just look for the word "sympathy" in the dictionary. Well, "sympathy" is a word between shit and syphilis. Suffice to say, her threads and posts are a muddy flow of gabble and balderdash.

I have a couple of intimate partners in the course of my life. I am definitely not a slut, but surely, even if I am one, I am in a much better position than a single mother. I have slept with a couple of men before, but at least I am smart enough not to have a kid, given how much time I spend around prostatic fluid.

The single mother has announced that she is divorced, possibly due to abuse or otherwise. Well, it proves my point that single mothers are bad judges of a man's character. A single mother is prone to making bad decisions, not that I don't make bad decisions, but at the very least, I know when to "jump ship", instead of getting myself saddled with a daughter.

And to date, amongst my long list of single mother acquaintances, I haven't met a single mother who isn't manipulative. Once a single mother has a child, she realises the immense difficulties of raising her child alone. From there, she evolves into a hypersonic manipulative bitch.

If a man (whom she reckons is "a good fit" comes along, even a vegan) gives her an opportunity, her armoury of tricks will come into play. For instance, she would suggest a "double date" with her and her daughter for an outing. She will stage "accidents" like getting her daughter to call you "daddy" by "accident".

Though I am manipulative with the men I crave and desire for a relationship, but at least, I don't get an innocent child involved, in my (sometimes immoderate) consumption of passion.

Putting up randomly copied posters in a thread, consisting of so-called words of "wisdom", seeking sympathy from dull-witted forum male plodders, is surely an unequivocal sign, of a "serial gaslighter" single mother.
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First, I don't sleep around. I wouldn't say your lifestyle is wrong because it's your way of living your own life and I have no right to intervene. But I also hope you ask yourself a simple question. Do you steal bananas from NTUC? I am sure you don't. But why do you sleep with married men as you said in your posts? It's also theft and you find it ok?

Second, I do not pretend that I am strong. I am the weakest when I am alone, especially like now, after a busy working day and sending my daughter to bed after her dinner and homework. I do not share my weaknesses of being physically, mentally or emotionally drained to others, even to my closest real life friends. I don't want any sympathy. I don't require any. I know very clearly I have chosen a path that is challenging the day I fought and won custody. I am prepared to bring my daughter up as a good and considerate girl who will hopefully not walk the same challenging path as me. However, if she grows up and chooses a lifestyle like you, I rather she choose the same challenging path as me. A banana thief doesn't have good karma or ending. You may say I watch too many TV or movies, but at least I do have a conscience. Do you?

Third, I admit I had a failed marriage, but that doesn't mean I am looking for another man in my life. I participate here in this forum for the very reason that I can be anonymous. I do not need or want even my closest friends to know what I feel, how i feel, what I think or do. I hate to be the subject of their gossips in real life. I know even the closest friends of mine gossip about each other. We are all women. At least over here in this forum, no one knows who I am in real life and I can ask questions, learn from logical comments and somehow be myself. If I do give the impression that I am targeting anonymous men's sympathy here, I am sorry to all the anonymous people here.

Last but not least, though I am not as educated and successful like you, but I hope you heard this saying before. Sorry, it's again a poster from the internet.

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Good night.
 
cloudy said:
First, I don't sleep around. I wouldn't say your lifestyle is wrong because it's your way of living your own life and I have no right to intervene. But I also hope you ask yourself a simple question. Do you steal bananas from NTUC? I am sure you don't. But why do you sleep with married men as you said in your posts? It's also theft and you find it ok?

Second, I do not pretend that I am strong. I am the weakest when I am alone, especially like now, after a busy working day and sending my daughter to bed after her dinner and homework. I do not share my weaknesses of being physically, mentally or emotionally drained to others, even to my closest real life friends. I don't want any sympathy. I don't require any. I know very clearly I have chosen a path that is challenging the day I fought and won custody. I am prepared to bring my daughter up as a good and considerate girl who will hopefully not walk the same challenging path as me. However, if she grows up and chooses a lifestyle like you, I rather she choose the same challenging path as me. A banana thief doesn't have good karma or ending. You may say I watch too many TV or movies, but at least I do have a conscience. Do you?

Third, I admit I had a failed marriage, but that doesn't mean I am looking for another man in my life. I participate here in this forum for the very reason that I can be anonymous. I do not need or want even my closest friends to know what I feel, how i feel, what I think or do. I hate to be the subject of their gossips in real life. I know even the closest friends of mine gossip about each other. We are all women. At least over here in this forum, no one knows who I am in real life and I can ask questions, learn from logical comments and somehow be myself. If I do give the impression that I am targeting anonymous men's sympathy here, I am sorry to all the anonymous people here.

Last but not least, though I am not as educated and successful like you, but I hope you heard this saying before. Sorry, it's again a poster from the internet.

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Good night.
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We have something else in common, besides having the same fridge and a failed marriage or two, or three. We both don't sleep around! Hey, you and I don't need to be anonymous with each other, we can always meet up for a drink or a meal. You are in safe hands, my intentions are honorable.

And it's ok, you can target me for sympathy anytime. Although you mentioned it is not your intention. :biggrin:
 
A celebrity death-match between Claire and Cloudy is in order. There will be hair-pulling, arm-scratching and gnashing of teeth.
 
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nightsafari said:
I honestly think you made the assumption about needing men all by yourself. I think no such thing nor do I even see how to derive that from "earnestly out to have a better life." Have a better life is literally what it says. It is a statement that they will live their own lives to whatever they wish to without a fig about a man, woman, LGBTQ or otherwise. In short a denial of TS' original assertion. ok?
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I didn't assume, i read your statement. Honestly, it is not easy for me to read what you had written. Your sentence structure is all messed up. I need to read a few times in order for me to (maybe) understand 70% of it.

nightsafari said:
The main difference I've noticed has been how they became single mothers in the 1st place. Some were just plain too horny and fell for a guy, but are earnestly out to have a better life. This category has my respect. Others decided to have a child to manipulate a man in the 1st place. As a leopard is unwilling to give up its spots, these creatures stick to their modus operandi.
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"earnestly out to have a better life" comes after " some were just plain too horny and fell for a guy"..
It tells me that she earnestly out to have a better life because she fell for a guy. So isn't this her happiness and better life involves a guy??? This is what you wrote. So isn't that means her better life depend on her having a guy? If not , why have a baby with a guy in the first place.
 
cloudy said:
Do you steal bananas from NTUC? I am sure you don't. But why do you sleep with married men as you said in your posts? It's also theft and you find it ok?
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cloudy said:
A banana thief doesn't have good karma or ending. You may say I watch too many TV or movies, but at least I do have a conscience. Do you?
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what a super kick on ts face
banana thief stealing bananas in ntuc
haaaa
so funny
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tobelightlight said:
I didn't assume, i read your statement. Honestly, it is not easy for me to read what you had written. Your sentence structure is all messed up. I need to read a few times in order for me to (maybe) understand 70% of it.
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There's nothing there. How can it be complicated if your issue is with the 1 line you quote?

"earnestly out to have a better life" comes after " some were just plain too horny and fell for a guy"..
It tells me that she earnestly out to have a better life because she fell for a guy. So isn't this her happiness and better life involves a guy??? This is what you wrote. So isn't that means her better life depend on her having a guy? If not , why have a baby with a guy in the first place.
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it says single mother. How do you become a mother without involving a male at some point?? It means that it was an ACCIDENT not that she was out to be manipulative. You do know how women have become mothers right? Sometimes it is an accident. Ever heard of that before? Or are in your world are babies born to perfect schedules and perfect planning? I fail to see your logic of why her life depends on her having a guy. That's entirely your statement.

Are you someone with a sexist agenda? If so, go right ahead. I will address it accordingly, but please don't insist I'm talking about Winnie the Pooh everytime I mention a Panda.
 
lightbulb said:
I agree with what you said. Some mothers become single mothers because their husbands pass on very early. Not all single mothers are manipulative as TS stated. There would be some, but definitely not all. I personally know a single mom whose husband died in a traffic accident at age of 34. What else can the wife do. The son is already in her tummy. Abort? Of course not. It's the deceased husband's blood. So, purely by circumstances, through no fault of hers, she became a single mother. It isn't right to lump all single mother into the same category.
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exactly. Single mothers in a sense have the toughest jobs in the world. They already deserve our support and definitely not our judgment. Not to say that all are angels, but don't be so quick to judge based on a few bits of data.

I wish your friend all the best with raising her child. :thumbsup:
 
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