Single Mother

[blackmondy]

I seldom mince my words. I say what I believe. I reckon that's what makes me nonpareil. The truth hurts, so be it.

Burger King thrives on convincing you that their menu is healthier. The same is for a single mother, attempting to legitimise that single mothers are par for the course, in our modern times.

Any men who are cajoled and convinced by such "propaganda" are absolute fools. They are gaslighted by a stream of persistent social conditioning posts, by a certain person in this forum, whom I shall not named, for the sake of civility.

Instead of looking for "sympathy" here (or maybe she is desperately looking for a gullible male loser forummer, which I am sure is aplenty), she should just look for the word "sympathy" in the dictionary. Well, "sympathy" is a word between shit and syphilis. Suffice to say, her threads and posts are a muddy flow of gabble and balderdash.

I have a couple of intimate partners in the course of my life. I am definitely not a slut, but surely, even if I am one, I am in a much better position than a single mother. I have slept with a couple of men before, but at least I am smart enough not to have a kid, given how much time I spend around prostatic fluid.

The single mother has announced that she is divorced, possibly due to abuse or otherwise. Well, it proves my point that single mothers are bad judges of a man's character. A single mother is prone to making bad decisions, not that I don't make bad decisions, but at the very least, I know when to "jump ship", instead of getting myself saddled with a daughter.

And to date, amongst my long list of single mother acquaintances, I haven't met a single mother who isn't manipulative. Once a single mother has a child, she realises the immense difficulties of raising her child alone. From there, she evolves into a hypersonic manipulative bitch.

If a man (whom she reckons is "a good fit" comes along, even a vegan) gives her an opportunity, her armoury of tricks will come into play. For instance, she would suggest a "double date" with her and her daughter for an outing. She will stage "accidents" like getting her daughter to call you "daddy" by "accident".

Though I am manipulative with the men I crave and desire for a relationship, but at least, I don't get an innocent child involved, in my (sometimes immoderate) consumption of passion.

Putting up randomly copied posters in a thread, consisting of so-called words of "wisdom", seeking sympathy from dull-witted forum male plodders, is surely an unequivocal sign, of a "serial gaslighter" single mother.

My favorite adage :
Women understand women, yet they hate each other....

"The shroud of the Dark side has fallen. Begun, the bitch war has." ......Yoda.

 

[blackmondy]

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[blackmondy]

KNN are you talking about @cloudy ? KNN

KNN everytime limpeh read Claire's post, limpeh need to have a dictionary and thesaurus standby KNN.
Why these people cannot speak Engrish like normal Sinkapore people KNN ?

 

[eatshitndie]

enjoy reading the occasional (and rare) pointed jibe of my dear sister. too much testosterones here. we need balance from estrogeners. few but well written pieces by our forum sisters here are greatly appreciated, including those from the divorced, separated, married, and single moms (every female contributor except the forum virgin).

 

[nightsafari]

Yehhh.. 你说什么屁 .... Practice yr English is it?

But I like it...

hanor... otherwise rusty...

 

[nightsafari]

wahsei, your england can match ts
you ish keyi

wherever possible, I try to communicate in a style that's most similar to the person I am replying to. That way I think I will have to explain less.... I guess just trying to be efficient!

anyway kumsia...

 

[nightsafari]

enjoy reading the occasional (and rare) pointed jibe of my dear sister. too much testosterones here. we need balance from estrogeners. few but well written pieces by our forum sisters here are greatly appreciated, including those from the divorced, separated, married, and single moms (every female contributor except the forum virgin).

even the aforementioned swear master (mistress) does have the occasional nugget of interesting info....

 

[sweetiepie]

KNN everytime limpeh read Claire's post, limpeh need to have a dictionary and thesaurus standby KNN.
Why these people cannot speak Engrish like normal Sinkapore people KNN ?

KNN my uncle think this type when you kachow you will get a reply of uneducated with a eyes closed neck twist and head rooking at 45 degree with folded arm KNN

 

[tobelightlight]

enjoy reading the occasional (and rare) pointed jibe of my dear sister.

Anybody can be a "Sister" here.

 

[tobelightlight]

I Don't see anything wrong being a single mother. Some women just want a kid and when they get one, all her pressure is released. Job done.
There is even one japanese single mother who brought up her son with no issues. Now doing O level.

I can't see in anyway of having a child is = to pressure release. It takes a lot of responsibility and committment to raise a child. how is that a pressure release?

 

[eatshitndie]

Anybody can be a "Sister" here.

are you a sister too? sinister, albeit?

 

[tobelightlight]

are you a sister too? sinister, albeit?

i see not a need to fake a gender. for what?

 

[zeddy]

LOL Sammyboy is turning into an Agony Aunt forum.

 

[eatshitndie]

i see not a need to fake a gender. for what?

should your handle then be “tobetighttight” rather than “tobelightlight”?

 

[tobelightlight]

The main difference I've noticed has been how they became single mothers in the 1st place. Some were just plain too horny and fell for a guy, but are earnestly out to have a better life. This category has my respect. Others decided to have a child to manipulate a man in the 1st place. As a leopard is unwilling to give up its spots, these creatures stick to their modus operandi.

A woman needs a man to have a better life? in what way? care to elobarate?

 

[syed putra]

I can't see in anyway of having a child is = to pressure release. It takes a lot of responsibility and committment to raise a child. how is that a pressure release?

There is a underlying desire( I should not use pressure) for a woman to have a child.

 

[tobelightlight]

LOL Sammyboy is turning into an Agony Aunt forum.

I went to check what does Agony Aunt means.
https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/agony-aunt

agony aunt
a person, usually a woman, who gives advice to people with personal problems, especially in a regular magazine or newspaper article

Personal problems related to what? relationship, family and relationship drama?

Errr...Personally, i don't take advice from women. i don't even want to have anything to do with women. Peace and quiet is achieved after i stay away from women. ( from my experience) Less things to do, less bullshit to deal with, no more emotional crap, simpicity is achieved and happiness followed. Why give yourself extra problems and things to do?

everyone is diff, care to share?

 

[tobelightlight]

There is a underlying desire( I should not use pressure) for a woman to have a child.

The sequence is like this.. man and woman fall in love, then children comes out of this love union.

Your statement seems to be like a woman only care what she wants and she manipulate her way to get a guy for that. Subsequently, the guy will pay for her want (a child) in that. That is so messed up.

 

[sweetiepie]

I went to check what does Agony Aunt means.
https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/agony-aunt

agony aunt
a person, usually a woman, who gives advice to people with personal problems, especially in a regular magazine or newspaper article

Personal problems related to what? relationship, family and relationship drama?

Errr...Personally, i don't take advice from women. i don't even want to have anything to do with women. Peace and quiet is achieved after i stay away from women. ( from my experience) Less things to do, less bullshit to deal with, no more emotional crap, simpicity is achieved and happiness followed. Why give yourself extra problems and things to do?

everyone is diff, care to share?

KNN my uncle thoughts is after he had sex with woman he will want to be left alone no matter how sexy the woman can be KNN for prostitute he usually ask them to leave even is booked till morning KNN

 

[bobby]