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【帶她一起走】「我想殺了你，好嗎？」 以愛為名殺至親
鏡週刊
2018年4月24日 上午6:59
上週末，新北和高雄連續發生2起殘殺手足案件，兄姊不堪長期照顧身心障礙的妹妹，選擇「帶她一起走」，但這樣的長照悲歌並非首例，每年都有多起類似案件發生，痛下殺手的背後隱藏著以愛為名的無助與無奈。
去年5月，照顧身心障礙妹妹長達30多年的林姓男子，因與妹妹發生口角，一時情緒失控持菜刀砍斷妹妹頭部，這起血案震驚台灣社會，但死者的家屬、鄰居卻同時幫凶嫌求情。
據瞭解，林姓死者患有中度精神障礙，林嫌照顧妹妹多年，死者卻因情緒不穩而常與兄長發生爭執，在案發當日，林嫌想帶妹妹就醫卻遭死者拒絕，林嫌苦勸無用才會理智斷線，而林嫌被警方逮捕時說的「我覺得好累」則道出長照家屬的悲哀。
2015年3月，台北市41歲何姓男子因照護腦麻兒長期累積壓力，他帶著兒子出遊時，發現兒子常自殘又傷人，他當下再也無法忍受照顧病兒的心力交瘁，詢問兒子：「大家都很累了，我想殺了你好嗎？」，見病兒點頭後親手掐死兒子。
何男殺子後伴屍1小時，才報警自首，警方趕到現場時看見何男抱著兒子遺體痛哭，人間至悲的場景讓在場員警彷彿聽見了心碎的聲音。
但這樣的案件幾乎每年都會發生數起，家屬因為愛而背負起照顧至親的責任，但這份生命中不可承受之重也令主要照顧者身心俱疲，在情緒崩潰下，有家屬選擇做出傻事，只能期盼執政政府對長照制度能有更完整的省思，別再讓本該和樂的家庭傳出長照悲歌。
自殺不能解決問題，勇敢求救並非弱者，生命一定可以找到出路。
透過守門123步驟「1問2應3轉介」，你我都可以成為自殺防治守門人。
※ 安心專線：0800-788-995 (0800-請幫幫-救救我)
※ 張老師專線：1980" data-reactid="25">提醒您：
自殺不能解決問題，勇敢求救並非弱者，生命一定可以找到出路。
透過守門123步驟「1問2應3轉介」，你我都可以成為自殺防治守門人。
※ 安心專線：0800-788-995 (0800-請幫幫-救救我)
※ 張老師專線：1980
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[Go with her] "I want to kill you, okay?"
Mirror Weekly
April 24, 2018 6:59 AM
At the end of last week, there were two consecutive cases of slaughtering in New Taipei and Kaohsiung. The brother and sister could not take care of their disabled sisters and chose to “take her away”. However, such a long-standing tragedy is not the first case. Many cases occur every year. Behind the pain killer is the helplessness and helplessness in the name of love.
In May of last year, the surnamed Lin, a man who had taken care of his disabled for more than 30 years, had an quarrel with his sister and had a knife cut off his sister's head. This bloody shocked Taiwanese society, but the family and neighbours of the deceased also accompanished. Suspicion.
According to reports, the deceased had a moderate mental disorder. Lin had taken care of his sister for many years. The deceased had a dispute with his elder brother because of emotional instability. On the day of the incident, Lin suspected that he wanted to bring his sister to the doctor but he was rejected by the deceased. It was only because of the uselessness that the line of reason was broken, and the “I feel tired” when Lin was arrested by the police said that the long-term family members were sad.
In March 2015, the 41-year-old man surnamed He in Taipei City, who had long been under pressure to take care of cerebral numbness, travelled with his son and found that his son was often self-inflicted and wounded. He could no longer bear to care for sick children and asked about his son. : "Everyone is very tired. I want to kill you?". After seeing the sick child, he nodded and killed his son.
He killed the victim and accompanied the corpse for 1 hour before surrendering himself to the police. When the police arrived at the scene, he saw He Nan holding his son's body crying, and the human scene was so sad that the on-site police officers could hear the broken heart.
However, such cases occur almost every year. The family members are responsible for taking care of their relatives because of love. However, the unbearable weight of this family also causes the main caretaker to become physically and mentally exhausted. Under the emotional collapse, family members choose to make Silly things, can only hope that the ruling government can have a more complete reflection on the long-term system, not to let long-term mourning songs spread out to the family.
Remind you:
Suicide does not solve the problem. Bravely seeking help is not a weak person. Life can certainly find a way out.
Through the 123 steps of the goalkeeper, "1 asks 2 for 3 referrals", you and I can become suicide prevention gatekeepers.
※ Relief line: 0800-788-995 (0800 - Please help - save me)
※ Teacher Zhang Special Line: 1980
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【帶她一起走】「我想殺了你，好嗎？」 以愛為名殺至親
鏡週刊
2018年4月24日 上午6:59
上週末，新北和高雄連續發生2起殘殺手足案件，兄姊不堪長期照顧身心障礙的妹妹，選擇「帶她一起走」，但這樣的長照悲歌並非首例，每年都有多起類似案件發生，痛下殺手的背後隱藏著以愛為名的無助與無奈。
去年5月，照顧身心障礙妹妹長達30多年的林姓男子，因與妹妹發生口角，一時情緒失控持菜刀砍斷妹妹頭部，這起血案震驚台灣社會，但死者的家屬、鄰居卻同時幫凶嫌求情。
據瞭解，林姓死者患有中度精神障礙，林嫌照顧妹妹多年，死者卻因情緒不穩而常與兄長發生爭執，在案發當日，林嫌想帶妹妹就醫卻遭死者拒絕，林嫌苦勸無用才會理智斷線，而林嫌被警方逮捕時說的「我覺得好累」則道出長照家屬的悲哀。
2015年3月，台北市41歲何姓男子因照護腦麻兒長期累積壓力，他帶著兒子出遊時，發現兒子常自殘又傷人，他當下再也無法忍受照顧病兒的心力交瘁，詢問兒子：「大家都很累了，我想殺了你好嗎？」，見病兒點頭後親手掐死兒子。
何男殺子後伴屍1小時，才報警自首，警方趕到現場時看見何男抱著兒子遺體痛哭，人間至悲的場景讓在場員警彷彿聽見了心碎的聲音。
但這樣的案件幾乎每年都會發生數起，家屬因為愛而背負起照顧至親的責任，但這份生命中不可承受之重也令主要照顧者身心俱疲，在情緒崩潰下，有家屬選擇做出傻事，只能期盼執政政府對長照制度能有更完整的省思，別再讓本該和樂的家庭傳出長照悲歌。
自殺不能解決問題，勇敢求救並非弱者，生命一定可以找到出路。
透過守門123步驟「1問2應3轉介」，你我都可以成為自殺防治守門人。
※ 安心專線：0800-788-995 (0800-請幫幫-救救我)
※ 張老師專線：1980" data-reactid="25">提醒您：
自殺不能解決問題，勇敢求救並非弱者，生命一定可以找到出路。
透過守門123步驟「1問2應3轉介」，你我都可以成為自殺防治守門人。
※ 安心專線：0800-788-995 (0800-請幫幫-救救我)
※ 張老師專線：1980
更多鏡週刊報導
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【帶她一起走】家人有帕金森氏症 他嘆：長照2.0無路用
【帶她一起走】他們都崩潰了 勒頸燒炭殺妹求解脫
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[Go with her] "I want to kill you, okay?"
Mirror Weekly
April 24, 2018 6:59 AM
At the end of last week, there were two consecutive cases of slaughtering in New Taipei and Kaohsiung. The brother and sister could not take care of their disabled sisters and chose to “take her away”. However, such a long-standing tragedy is not the first case. Many cases occur every year. Behind the pain killer is the helplessness and helplessness in the name of love.
In May of last year, the surnamed Lin, a man who had taken care of his disabled for more than 30 years, had an quarrel with his sister and had a knife cut off his sister's head. This bloody shocked Taiwanese society, but the family and neighbours of the deceased also accompanished. Suspicion.
According to reports, the deceased had a moderate mental disorder. Lin had taken care of his sister for many years. The deceased had a dispute with his elder brother because of emotional instability. On the day of the incident, Lin suspected that he wanted to bring his sister to the doctor but he was rejected by the deceased. It was only because of the uselessness that the line of reason was broken, and the “I feel tired” when Lin was arrested by the police said that the long-term family members were sad.
In March 2015, the 41-year-old man surnamed He in Taipei City, who had long been under pressure to take care of cerebral numbness, travelled with his son and found that his son was often self-inflicted and wounded. He could no longer bear to care for sick children and asked about his son. : "Everyone is very tired. I want to kill you?". After seeing the sick child, he nodded and killed his son.
He killed the victim and accompanied the corpse for 1 hour before surrendering himself to the police. When the police arrived at the scene, he saw He Nan holding his son's body crying, and the human scene was so sad that the on-site police officers could hear the broken heart.
However, such cases occur almost every year. The family members are responsible for taking care of their relatives because of love. However, the unbearable weight of this family also causes the main caretaker to become physically and mentally exhausted. Under the emotional collapse, family members choose to make Silly things, can only hope that the ruling government can have a more complete reflection on the long-term system, not to let long-term mourning songs spread out to the family.
Remind you:
Suicide does not solve the problem. Bravely seeking help is not a weak person. Life can certainly find a way out.
Through the 123 steps of the goalkeeper, "1 asks 2 for 3 referrals", you and I can become suicide prevention gatekeepers.
※ Relief line: 0800-788-995 (0800 - Please help - save me)
※ Teacher Zhang Special Line: 1980
More Mirror Weekly Reports
[Take her away] A person is sick and drags the family. The family needs not just wheezing.
[Take her away] Family has Parkinson's disease He sigh: Long photo 2.0 no use
[Bring her away] they all collapsed.
不能 Unbearable weight
Taking care of sick sisters is very stressful
No illness filthy child Stroke daddy pants was killed on children
The sick man "dead card happy" solves the problem
It is not valid for the defendant to abandon the defendant's "dignified death".
According to the long-term budget, experts say so
★ Top 3 News Traffic Today
Zero Investment "29th Street" Terrorized Ghost Town
Eat 3 years instant instant noodles 17 year old male end of cancer
Only 3 months of business every year
--------------------------------------
Yahoo Kimo News welcomes your submission! Do you have something to say about this social dimension? Welcome all the players to speak! Express your opinion in words. https://goo.gl/iy5TCA ">Contribute to --> https://goo.gl/iy5TCA
★ Download Yahoo Kimo APP to keep up to date with the latest issues.
