Redditer: Rant about Dating Successful and Handsome Guys

[Tragedeigh]

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Rant about Dating Successful and Handsome Guys​

Hear me out

Been told that I look decently attractive as I take good care of myself and go to the gym 4–5 times a week. Have matched with fair share of good looking guys who look great on IG and have the corporate portfolio to match on dating apps. But honestly? I’m damn sian already. Every date feels like a LinkedIn recruitment talk or a flex fest. It’s always about the High-Flyer life, the regional director title, the 5-figure bonuses, the continental car, or which crypto project they’re disrupting now. Like, okay can, congrats lor? It feels like the moment these guys see me, they just check a box: "Chiobu? Check. Fit? Check." Then they spent the rest of the night talking at me, not with me. It’s like I’m just a trophy to be won, or some accessory to match their successful man aesthetic. Dating feels so transactional lately. I just want to vibe with someone who actually listens and doesn't treat a date like a pitch deck.