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[metanoia]

Kicked out of house, what are my next steps?​

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Hello fellow sgreans, I(23M) got kicked out by my mom for simply not wanting to pray as im not a religious person, as well as for not agreeing that i can't spend my free time playing games after ive come back from work and done housechores.

For context, i just finished national service and just started working part time while waiting for school to start just this tuesday. I have been working overtime every alternate days and wanted to use my weekends resting and playing games . My mum straight up refuses to allow me to play my games, which i barely have time to even do that during weekdays. She expected me to work even during weekends to save money. She will said this is for my own good and i should grow up and not play games and i don't need to rest that much.

As i do not agree with her terms, i said so and she said just because i have a work now, i'm bold now and want to be rude to her. I literally just started working and i don't even have my pay yet and my mom is simply accusing me of this things when im just trying to stand out for myself. To make the situation worse, she called my older brother to solve the issue, just for her to twist her words as to why we're arguing. At the end of the day, she crashed out at my brother and accused him of things he didn't even do such as trying to defend me, just like how she accuses me of things i never did. My mom is the kind of person to accuse/ assume things without any proofs.

Now, im currently staying over at my brother's home but i do not intend to stay here for a long time. I do not have any emergency savings (this is purely my fault, i should've save) so i do not know what should i do moving foward. Just earlier when i woke up, my mom sent two voice messages, saying that no matter how evil she is, she is my mom and said who am i to talk back. I felt even more frustrated as how could she, as a grown adult and a mother of 4 said that to me as if what she said was valid.

I do not know what to do now, but what i do know is i do not intent to listen to her and not able to spend my free time simply playing games, not going out partying or doing nonsense stuff etc. I wish i have life savings to rent a place but now i'm just stuck.

Just fyi, before getting kicked out and stuff, i have been running away from house and staying in camp to escape the toxicity 2 different times

 

[bigozt]

Hello fuck face Gen Z, if you want to be stuck in Sinkieland your whole life go right ahead. Savings is essential for an offshore move.

 

[A Singaporean]

Typically coolie gene Sinkie. Do you think you can be successful in life ? Cannot even work out a simple issue with the mother. Suggest go and look for some women free CAQs and sell his arse.