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Best Friends - Longterm AP?
WorkI (39F) have been sleeping with my best friend and coworker (41M) whenever we’re on a work trip. We truly are best friends and we’re both very careful not to ruin the life of the other. I never want to lose this and I’d like this to go on until we’re grey. Neither of us are unhappy at home, we’re both just attracted to each other and the sex is absolutely wild. I think about it all the time. I’m bi and my wife (39F) just provides a different energy. Sex is also great with my wife but it’s just a different role.
I don’t think I can fall in love with a man but I definitely have strong feelings and would be devastated to lose him as a friend or lover. Have any of you ever experienced this? Am I doomed?