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He betrayed me
Done!Hey there,
Some of you might remember: I was the girl in an affair with a 46-year-old colleague.
Well, it's officially over.
As I thought back of all the awful things he did, it opened my eyes: it was all a lie.
It meant nothing to him and his only goal was to get me laid.
We did it 5 times - he didn't change behaviour-wise during the first three.
But during the fourth, we did anal. And that he mentioned many times before, that he will do it one day.
Surprise surprise, he got distant right away. All he could talk about was sex. He's always tried to initiate anal with me and he talked about it a lot. Mind you, I have a really round and muscular butt. I was nothing but a fetish for him.
Since this bothered me a lot, I wrote him a letter about my worries and questions. I asked him to communicate more clearly with me, to which he answered in spoken word: "Get with someone else then".
He told me a few more lies to keep me. Didn't work.
We texted one more time. He was making fun of the situation, didn't take me seriously and turned passive-aggressive and rude. He blames the whole thing on me.
I texted him that I read back this conversation and that it's so clear that he wanted nothing but sex and kept manipulating me.
This manwhore waited a whole year and made up the most beautiful story to keep me hooked.
I will not speak to him at work besides saying hi.
I mentioned his tattoo of us, and that it probably meant more to me than to him, since he has his girlfriend tattooed on his arm, yet he cheated, keeps on lying and doesn't leave her although he doesn't like her anymore.
I'm done.
it was a terribly tough decision.
I hate him so much. This man is a stranger, not the person I fell in love with.
But I did it.
I fell in love with a lie. I was in love for the first time in my life and I fell for a lie.
He disgusts me.
I'd like some kind words, please.
Thank you.
