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Affair With Colleague
WorkI (30F) met someone (63M) through work and we’ve been having an affair since January. We are both married. He is an amazing man, and he’s interesting to have conversations with, and my god the sex is absolutely incredible. Everything around this whole thing is so intense and magical. We are careful at work although we’ve probably risked it a couple of times by going to quiet meeting rooms and stationary cupboards because we just need to kiss each other (he’s an amazing kisser as well and I can’t get enough) There is a quiet spot we sometimes drive to during lunch which we do in his work car to avoid leaving anything behind in his own car.
There has been a couple of times where the guilt has got to him and he’s suggested ending things, but each time he came back.
He was upfront and told me he isn’t going to leave his wife, and that at some point the affair between us will have to come to an end. I agreed that I was okay with this and that I will never tell a soul (and I mean that) And I would never ask him to leave his wife because I don’t want to create that nightmare for him. I really like him and I care about him deeply, and I genuinely enjoy talking to him and spending time with him. We’ve been savouring the times we spend together which involves hotel meet ups and visits to cafes.
I guess that I wanted to write this because I’ve never had an affair before and I wanted to tell someone because I obviously can’t talk to anyone involved in my life.
