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troubledtimes

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i bought him presents but he didn't want to take. so i didn't buy him much more. he has money for atas stuff, so no need for my baby presents. actually, i kept some of the stuff i bought him in the cupboard, quite sad now, dunno whether i should just throw them away.

then he just kept going pros so i got fed-up and now we are on a break. he can afford pros so he's like addicted. :smile: i'm ok with the bf going to pros, but not this kind of addiction!

for my other exes, we take turns treating each other. we are fair - for example, my bfs don't need to pay for my shopping, and we take turns buying groceries to cook, movie tickets etc.

it is not easy to find a guy to depend on for the rest of your life. depends means -- for eg: i fell down and my entire knee was bleeding, but he was screwing pros EVERYDAY (sometimes even two a day) so he told me to just see a doctor myself.

i was so badly injured, even after the application of medication, i had three strangers coming up to me and asking if i was ok - the knee looked like hell.
the Macs uncle offered me a plaster, this jap mom asked if i was ok, the security guard asked too.

and all he cares about is sex from FLs. WLs, his next target from the new imports etc. can you imagine a husband like this when a baby is sick at home?

haiz. what's the use of being able to cook and save money and sayang the guy right? like The_Latest_H says, all this is personal opinion.

i think he wants those super hot types who can out-sex the Geylang world, know what i mean? :o:smile:


You are a damn good girlfriend! Can we PM? I promise, I'll only go to pros when I am outside a relationship. No pros while i am at it!
 

zhihau

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men tends to use its lower head than its upper head when it comes to woman and $$ talks. the word faithful is already history, a thing of the past. :p

got use lower head lah, but logic over-rules :biggrin::biggrin::biggrin:
AIDs very scary you know? :p:p:p
 

vamjok

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i have already woken up, but the more important question is, have you?

you are not qualified to say this statement to me, i had walked your path before, but you had not taken mine. want me to quote more incest stories from the bible to prove this point?


did not know that you are so thick to this extend not to taken the hint.
 

TeeKee

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got use lower head lah, but logic over-rules :biggrin::biggrin::biggrin:
AIDs very scary you know? :p:p:p

Not only Aids....the list is here...

Bacterial
Chancroid (Haemophilus ducreyi)
Donovanosis (Granuloma inguinale or Calymmatobacterium granulomatis)
Gonorrhea (Neisseria gonorrhoeae)
Lymphogranuloma venereum (LGV) (Chlamydia trachomatis serotypes L1, L2, L3. See Chlamydia)
Non-gonococcal urethritis (NGU) (Ureaplasma urealyticum or Mycoplasma hominis)
Staphylococcus aureus, MRSA - Sexually transmissible.[6]
Syphilis (Treponema pallidum)

Fungal
Jock Itch - Sexually transmissible.
Yeast Infection

Viral
Cytomegalovirus (CMV) through skin to skin contact, saliva, not only sexually.
Hepatitis B.
(Note: Hepatitis A and Hepatitis E are transmitted via the fæcal-oral route; Hepatitis C is rarely sexually transmittable,[7]and the route of transmission of Hepatitis D is uncertain, but may include sexual transmission.[8] [9] [10])
Herpes simplex
Herpes simplex virus implicated in Alzheimer's disease.[11]
Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV/AIDS)
Human papillomavirus (HPV)
Certain strains of HPV cause genital warts
Certain strains of HPV cause dysplasias, which can lead to cervical cancer, penis cancer, anal cancer, oral cancer, head and neck cancer.
Molluscum (MC)
Mononucleosis is spread through saliva, can occur during sex.
Kaposi's sarcoma-associated herpesvirus (KSHV/HHV8)
The cause of Kaposi's sarcoma

Parasites
Pubic lice, colloquially known as "crabs" (Phthirius pubis)
Scabies (Sarcoptes scabiei)

Protozoal
Trichomoniasis (Trichomonas vaginalis)
 

twochan

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I've thought it was a little odd that someone who can write better than 95% of the people I know (most of them are engineering graduates) would fall into a situation like this. (which is unheard of in my profession).

While I'm not sure about your articulation skills, but if you had taken some courses in engineering related subjects it might help you sort out your life a bit. (as they consist of mostly problem solving disciplines). The cheapest way to do it would be probably to take up a course in programming.

Anyway, writing 10,000 word essays is nothing. What's more challenging is to face a customer and answer his queries. Now that's really requires some quick thinking.

Now you see my bad points. :biggrin::biggrin::biggrin: Hey how else do you think literature majors write 10000 word essays just like that during exams? :wink:

I have to state the facts properly, otherwise it's not fair to the parties involved.
 

lolabunny

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I've thought it was a little odd that someone who can write better than 95% of the people I know (most of them are engineering graduates) would fall into a situation like this. (which is unheard of in my profession).

While I'm not sure about your articulation skills, but if you had taken some courses in engineering related subjects it might help you sort out your life a bit. (as they consist of mostly problem solving disciplines). The cheapest way to do it would be probably to take up a course in programming.

Anyway, writing 10,000 word essays is nothing. What's more challenging is to face a customer and answer his queries. Now that's really requires some quick thinking.

Actually, i did do very basic programming before. What you are saying is the need to do a life audit or make a decision tree to map out the situations, like the if-then-else progamming etc.

You know what Love is? It is the "Infinite Loop" in programming. (Hope my analogy is correct, i really only know very basic programming). I can give in a lot, and the ex only freezes. Both of us are caught in our personal Infinite Loops. :smile: Sigh.

Love isn't logical. You can list down a million reasons why you shouldn't be with a person, but at the end of the day, if you still love him or her, it overides everything. :p

Facing a customer is not too bad. No matter what happens, put yourself in his shoes and you can see his point.

Of course, to reconcile meeting your sales target and looking after your customer's welfare, now that is difficult. Ask the RMs who push the minibonds to Ah Peks and Ah Mahs.

Facing love... now that is difficult. Even the bravest man can be tongue tied in the face of love. :wink:
 

angie II

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hellooo lola my dear.... (need a plastic bag?) how hav u been?

lurrrrrrve... is a many splennnnnnnndid thing.... :rolleyes:

wow... u n ur love thesis...
 

lodoftherings

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lolllzzz true like a cold fish but there are still some who can wake up the neighbors like japanese porn star but again they know what they are good for and will leave you the moment they get a wealthier prospect...


plus the fact that many sg women lack skills in bed. sometimes when i get tired, i'd rather have women do the cowboy on me... but no, sg women want no doggies, no horsies, no cowboys, no 69's, and only want the missionary position, with step by step instructions from the pap. most of the time, they don't even move. just lying there and giving annoying opinions and misdirections. :mad:

i have to bang the shit out of them to get a miniscule moan of acknowledgement and submission. :biggrin:
 

dream_waker

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This whole bullshit is a fabricated article done up by the dogs of shittime to divert the attention of the people from the real issue. The whole article feel so fake and purposely created to sparks petty debates and make the local man and women hate each other so that the process of de-singaporeanizing can take place faster.
 

rainnix

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Wah. Your gf or wife is a lucky girl.
i bought him presents but he didn't want to take. so i didn't buy him much more. he has money for atas stuff, so no need for my baby presents. actually, i kept some of the stuff i bought him in the cupboard, quite sad now, dunno whether i should just throw them away.

I used to put my partner ahead of my priorities, but he told me to focus on my work. Now i know it's coz he needs more free time to go to hookers and get FBs.

Like what some other guys in the other threads say, men function BECAUSE of lust and sex.

Haiz. I better find someone else la. Don't want to not be married. Girls who wait for the wrong guy can be so screwed.
The problem with woman nowadays is that they still cling on failed relationships. They think that they can change the men but leopard cannot change its spots.

There are a lot of good guys out there for you to discover. I suggest you to break off early and go and find these guys. The longer you wait the worse you become. Time is not always on the girls side. Don't procrastinate and become bitter later.

As for the presents, you can save it for your next BF who will appreciate your presents. Or donate them to make someone else happy.
 

rainnix

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What is Price? The amount we pay for something.

What is Value? The intrinsic or market worth for something.

You must be among the small percentage of Singaporean to understand what is the true meaning of things in this materialistic world. In life, value is more important than price. We often pay a lot in "Price" to get so little in "Value".
That's right, I giving the example of the govt here ;p

It was my one shot to have a slightly better future but I gave it up for someone who I loved. This is the kind of person I am. If my ex is better off without me, I'd be happy for him.

Today he is laid off thanks to the subprime bust. He doesn't know what else to do besides banking and he hates the world for being "stupid and unfair".

If one understand the meaning of love one would understand the meaning of sacrifice. But the crux of the sacrifice is not to lose yourself in the process. If the act of sacrifice is not known or appreciated by the target, is it still called a "sacrifice"???

Now come to think of it, I know why I am still poor. Because I am stupid like that.

Life is not always about money and enjoyment, it includes pain and suffering. People who had gone through difficult times of their lives will live to understand these simple laws. You must always have to experience the difficulty in order to enjoy the luxury later on, think relativity.

PS: Having a running nose while writing this... Hope by some chance your brother can read whatever you wrote...
 

lolabunny

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You must be among the small percentage of Singaporean to understand what is the true meaning of things in this materialistic world. In life, value is more important than price. We often pay a lot in "Price" to get so little in "Value".
That's right, I giving the example of the govt here ;p

If one understand the meaning of love one would understand the meaning of sacrifice. But the crux of the sacrifice is not to lose yourself in the process. If the act of sacrifice is not known or appreciated by the target, is it still called a "sacrifice"???

Life is not always about money and enjoyment, it includes pain and suffering. People who had gone through difficult times of their lives will live to understand these simple laws. You must always have to experience the difficulty in order to enjoy the luxury later on, think relativity.

PS: Having a running nose while writing this... Hope by some chance your brother can read whatever you wrote...

For Price Vs Value, well it's the utility of what we pay for that matters to most people. :smile:

About the sacrifice, that doesn't matter, my ex also don't know. :smile: Unless 's he reads this thread la, but unlikely, given that he's happily cheonging KTV on saturdays.

No need for my brother reading this, they already changed family history. The winners write history, the loser gets forgotten. Believe it or not, I already knew that when I chose to make the sacrifice. I didn't walk into this blindly, the only thing I couldn't help was to love the ex.

What do you know, I may actually be adopted and no one told me. :smile:

Don't be sad for me, I didn't tell my story to get anyone's pity. No one in my life except just one friend knows about all these. None of the guys I dated and none of my close friends know.

I didn't do it to gain credit either. I just don't live only for myself that's all.

It is not being selfless either. Because love is a selfish emotion. It makes us feel happy. :cool:

Thanks for your concern.
 
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