my housemate last night before going to her room say this to me. what is the meaning huh? still puzzle me leh...

[Sialoquent]

a ship is safe at the harbor, but that is not where the ship was meant to be

meaning???

 

[Sialoquent]

before that i asked her if she's going back to uk with her parents for good soon since she said her divorce already more or less finalised in singapore and she's sick of her job here already....then suddenly gave me mysterious statement and zoomed off to her bedroom

 

[Sialoquent]

ship = her
harbor = her parents or me?

or

ship = me
harbor = her. but she doesn't seem like harbor to me me leh though she always tell me if not because of her giving me good advice i will always get cheated by other people.

????

 

[potato29]

did she wink when she said that?

 

[glockman]

a ship is safe at the harbor, but that is not where the ship was meant to be

meaning???

She wants you to be her harbour pilot. lead her "out to sea" which a metaphor for sexciting new sexperiences.

 

[Balls2U]

Ship = her cb
Harbour = you and your apartment
That means her cb is safe in your apartment and with you around. But she actually wants her cb to be ravaged and she can't get fucked in such a safe environment and with you around.
So wake up your fucking ideas and be more proactive lah!

 

[syed putra]

the message is very confusing. Normally a girl would want another man immediately after a divorce. Any man. It does not matter what he looks like, smell, colour....just to give a message to divorced hubby she is still still in demand.

 

[oliverlee]

your LJ may have berthed inside her harbour but it's a temporary arrangement, understand? She has larger cruise liners to play

 

[Willamshakespear]

Ship = her
Harbor = the comfort & stable zones in her life - beloved by parents, friends, & perhaps even you a Singaporean.
Where a Ship is meant to be = She is not an object, but a fellow Human with hopes, dreams & aspirations of a better life

No woman is the same. It will take decades to understand womanhood, due to their upbringing & environment - local, Asia & Western ideals.

Relationships is based upon trust. That she gave you this quote goes to show that she is likes you but still undecided, & comprehensible as she just gotten out a serious committed relationship & is not so ready to make the same mistakes again.

If you are serious about her, then she would need assurances that you would not be her mistake again. No Being promised that life will be a bed of roses daily, thus each would have to be prepared to make compromises for the long journey of life together, beginning with honesty at the start - nothing hidden, you are who you are & not an object to impress her or others.

If you are not serious or prepared, then tell her so, so that there would be no false hopes or expectations from you or from each other, & she/you are free to find another better. Life is too short to live on false hopes or regrets....

 

[rotiprata]

the message is very confusing. Normally a girl would want another man immediately after a divorce. Any man. It does not matter what he looks like, smell, colour....just to give a message to divorced hubby she is still still in demand.

there're women who do not like man with BC

 

[potato29]

what she meant is your ship should not just stay in your pants but should visit her harbour.

 

[A Singaporean]

This is the correct interpretation:

 

[mojito]

She asking u if u down for some.

 

[red amoeba]

she meant titanic....titanic want to leave the harbor to lang-gah ice berg...the one between your legs...

so you should say the magic words - you gum i gum.

 

[bigozt]

She pay you rent or what? Keep sex and biz separate!

 

[Sialoquent]

She pay you rent or what? Keep sex and biz separate!

she never pay me anything lah
childhood grow up together and my late grandad best fren with her late grandparents and my mother also know her parents very well and last time they always say we all 秦梅竹马 lah
she is too chio for me too cos she very international and cosmo while I compare to her like country bumpkin lor

 

[rotiprata]

she never pay me anything lah
childhood grow up together and my late grandad best fren with her late grandparents and my mother also know her parents very well and last time they always say we all 秦梅竹马 lah
she is too chio for me too cos she very international and cosmo while I compare to her like country bumpkin lor

knn, u got a bc...she oso see u no up arr ?

 

[potato29]

while I compare to her like country bumpkin lor

yes, you are country bumpkin. she gave you so many chances you still don't get it.
new year your mother did not ask you to marry her and give her grandchildren?

 

[Sialoquent]

yes, you are country bumpkin. she gave you so many chances you still don't get it.
new year your mother did not ask you to marry her and give her grandchildren?

my mother happily with her boyfriend in europe wouldn't bother me one

 

[potato29]

my mother happily with her boyfriend in europe wouldn't bother me one

you did not call her to wish her 新年快樂?