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Chitchat MAN IN HIS 30S ACHIEVED NOTHING IN HIS LIFE, STILL SINGLE, BROKE & LIVING WITH FAMILY

Scrooball (clone) said:

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MAN IN HIS 30S ACHIEVED NOTHING IN HIS LIFE, STILL SINGLE, BROKE & LIVING WITH FAMILY​

Hello Its meMay 9, 2025
I must share my feelings with you all; it’s been a challenging day for me. I’ve reached the age of 30, and when I reflect on my life, I find it difficult to see any significant achievements. I’m still residing with my family, who have been a source of emotional toxicity. I haven’t found a romantic partner, have no children, no property to call my own, very limited financial resources, and no formal education to speak of. Most days, I try not to dwell on these shortcomings and simply push forward with my life. But today, it’s been particularly tough.

I unexpectedly ran into a friend from my secondary school days. We spent some time catching up, and as our conversation unfolded, I couldn’t help but feel a wave of sadness welling up within me. You see, there was a time when I was doing reasonably well. I excelled in my studies and often ranked at the top of my class. However, my mental health took a nosedive, and it completely derailed my progress.

Today, when I look at my former classmates, I see doctors, lawyers, IT professionals, teachers, and investment bankers among them. Some have even embarked on the journey of marriage and parenthood. I should mention that I attended a SAP school, and it seems that nearly all my schoolmates have found success in their chosen paths.

Whereas I dropped out of school, have a dead-end job that barely pays, and don’t seem to have much of a future. My highest education level is O levels. I’ve tried going back to school many times but would drop out each time due to the mental health issues that were unfortunately debilitating for me.

I’ve not stopped though, I will be doing my A levels in 2023 once I’ve saved enough money to enrol somewhere. Yet it all feels utterly pathetic and it feels like my life has been a massive failure. I will be a 32 year old doing A levels.

Comparison is the thief of joy, one of the first few things I did almost a decade ago was actually deleting all my social media . I lost touch with most of my friends from school and didn’t know how any of them were doing.

Every now and then I would receive updates from the few people I was in touch with but I would try to keep my head up and not let it bring me down. I’m happy for all these people, they are good people.

It’s not their success that is bringing me down, it’s my own failure, and the magnitude of my failure which becomes so clear once I compare myself to my peers, that’s crushing me. I don’t know how my life ended up here.

For years, I believed that things would work out for me. I believed that it’s not my timeline but God’s timeline, I would tell myself that I can’t follow the timeline of the world. There are so much uncertainty in the world, someone could have all the success in the world and die tomorrow. I had this almost delusional optimism that things would be okay, I believed that God had a plan.

Today, I find myself in tears, thinking that there is probably no God. There is no plan. I’m alone. By telling myself that it was going to be okay, I was just consoling myself. The reality is that I got left behind in life, my life will never be the same as my peers’. I have to make peace with that. There is also a chance that I may never be okay.

Every year, it’s the same questions from my relatives. Everyone is disappointed and ashamed of me. My life has been a failure to them. I don’t blame them for seeing it that way. I used to tell myself that it’ll be okay someday. I don’t believe that anymore. I don’t see myself recovering, leaving my family, having a family of my own, successfully get into uni, having a better job. I don’t see any of it happening.

I just needed to tell someone this, thank you for reading. Tomorrow will be a better day, but today, I just need to lick my wounds.
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三十功名尘与土，八千里路云和月，莫等闲白了少年头，空悲切
 
Scrooball (clone) said:
Tough to get good white collar jobs with his O levels. Easy jobs to get in F&B are an option. Some apparently pay quite well. If you manage to pick up a skill or two from working in F&B, can start up something later on in life.
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Cooking is a gift, not a skill
Just like music
 
Buy a HDB flat for long term stay and having enough money for retirement ..

You can consider to be successful liao :roflmao:

Important note : You must own only one property in the Sinkieland and preferably is a HDB flat
 
This is the future for many goyims

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Robert Half said:
Buy a HDB flat for long term stay and having enough money for retirement ..

You can consider to be successful liao :roflmao:

Important note : You must own only one property in the Sinkieland and preferably is a HDB flat
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HDB flat is only for 99 years.
Now many things in our life are based on subscriptions mode.

We no longer own anything
 
Robert Half said:
Buy a HDB flat for long term stay and having enough money for retirement ..

You can consider to be successful liao :roflmao:

Important note : You must own only one property in the Sinkieland and preferably is a HDB flat
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Now the trend is bto flip > ec flip >private flip> landed flip into> coffin.
 
k1976 said:
Condo is known as 不动产de woh
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Private condo is for those grandparents who are genuine rich people as they can buy a few large apartments without the need of getting a bank loan :cool:

Those so called senior management people who barely earned 10k a month are just pretenders .. they dun have golden mountain backers and their only capital gains is selling their bto then used the profit to upgrade to a small condo with the need of getting a bank loan, from then on they slog like a slave for their remaining life :frown:
 
batman1 said:
He can :roflmao:just lie flat and watch the world pass by.:roflmao:
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He is still better off than my 60-year-old colleague who fell sick, got retrenched, sold his HDB home and saw his wife pack up and leave him because he is unable to find gainful employment.
 
True Believer said:
He is still better off than my 60-year-old colleague who fell sick, got retrenched, sold his HDB home and saw his wife pack up and leave him because he is unable to find gainful employment.
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Did your colleague go to seek help from his dear MP?
 
The guy who has lost hope should be thankful he was born in Singapore and not as a street kid in India.
Most of you guys are of no help thinking that only money equals success.
All of you guys purpose of life is totally incorrect and false.

I rather be a street kid than a Bill Gates

I rather be an abandoned child but who grows up as a Saint and be remembered by millions as one who leads them to God like Bhagat Kabir.

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I discovered just how CRAZY DANGEROUS India is for street kids. I was SHOCKED​






Melinda Gates shares how she copes with 'despair' after Epstein files claim ex-husband Bill 'caught STDs from Russian girls'​

Bill Gates has expressed his regrets over ever being associated with Jeffrey Epstein​

https://www.unilad.com/news/us-news/melinda-gates-despair-bill-epstein-files-808093-20260206

Melinda French Gates discussed 'despair' and how she copes with it after her 'painful' divorce from Bill Gates.

Melinda and Microsoft founder Bill were married for 27 years and called it quits in 2021 — something which Bill has admitted that he very much regrets.

Recently, bombshell allegations against Bill came to light in newly released Epstein files, with emails from Jeffrey Epstein alleging that he been 'sleeping with Russian girls' and 'caught STDs from them', before supposedly giving the disgraced financier 'antibiotics' to pass on to Melinda.

The 2013 memo went on to claim: "To add insult to the injury you them [sic] implore me to please delete the emails regarding your std, your request that I provide you antibiotics that you can surreptitiously give to Melinda and the description of your penis."

A spokesperson for Gates said the claims were 'absolutely absurd and completely false'.



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