Life Is Hard

[myo539]

What the hell with all the craps about problems. Just avoid sinkies and all your problems are solved.

But have you decided whether to wear red or yellow T-shirt ? I know you avoid it by wearing pink!

Wearing red and the police will descent on you; wearing yellow and the reds will descent on you. It's a real headache having to choose colour when wearing a T-shirt!

 

[myo539]

......... and then you die.
Further proof of this is the fact that people get nastier as they get older.
Have you noticed this?
Old people these days are getting more and more unpleasant, and it's not just the poor. The rich ones are getting more and more sly and rude.
Other than physical deterioration, you would expect people to get more refined, courteous and considerate as they get older, being wiser and having learnt more things from living longer. But the opposite seems to be the case, which is proof that living is really a difficult thing to do.

Having problems with your father and mother, or grandmother? Not to worry, this problem is with us since civilisation. You will soon become one.

No use trying to camouflage it by dying your hair black or brown, or botoxing your face.

 

[Sima Yi]

Having problems with your father and mother, or grandmother? Not to worry, this problem is with us since civilisation. You will soon become one.

No use trying to camouflage it by dying your hair black or brown, or botoxing your face.

Stephanie myo539 Chia !!! Working very hard huh?

 

[krafty]

today i am very sad cos i just receive a piece of news that my friend who is in his 60s was diagnosed with cancer. he basically watch me grew up,like a father to me.the sadder thing is that his wife just passed away few days ago. he is a rich man but his useless daughter got married and stayed in canada. i am pondering about life again....

 

[jw5]

today i am very sad cos i just receive a piece of news that my friend who is in his 60s was diagnosed with cancer. he basically watch me grew up,like a father to me.the sadder thing is that his wife just passed away few days ago. he is a rich man but his useless daughter got married and stayed in canada. i am pondering about life again....

Carry out your basic responsibilities in life, but remove your desires and fears.
You will find that nothing scares or tempts you and bargaining power returns to you. Stop worrying about what others do or think of you.

 

[KNNBCCB]

Life will be getting hard and harder and hardest when MIW strikes back. :o

Sinkies, be prepare to plant your own grass ... :(

 

[Jah_rastafar_I]

Carry out your basic responsibilities in life, but remove your desires and fears.
You will find that nothing scares or tempts you and bargaining power returns to you. Stop worrying about what others do or think of you.

true but only those that have reached nirvana have 0 desires or fears correct?

 

[wuqi256]

Stephanie myo539 Chia !!! Working very hard huh?

Are you really sure "HIS" name is Stephanie? In other threads, "he" claimed to have served NS for the country.

 

[jw5]

true but only those that have reached nirvana have 0 desires or fears correct?

Correct. It's almost impossible to have 0 desires or fears.
The key is to try and remove as much as possible.

 

[Unrepented]

In sinkieland, want to plant grass also no space to do so. Prepare to eat polluted air only.

Life will be getting hard and harder and hardest when MIW strikes back. :o

Sinkies, be prepare to plant your own grass ... :(

 

[youallhumsup]

Life is harder when you keep getting a hard on.

 

[jw5]

Life is harder when you keep getting a hard on.

Nope, it's easier.

 

[myfoot123]

......... and then you die.
Further proof of this is the fact that people get nastier as they get older.
Have you noticed this?
Old people these days are getting more and more unpleasant, and it's not just the poor. The rich ones are getting more and more sly and rude.
Other than physical deterioration, you would expect people to get more refined, courteous and considerate as they get older, being wiser and having learnt more things from living longer. But the opposite seems to be the case, which is proof that living is really a difficult thing to do.

I don't see this signs in other countries. Only Singapore has this kind of "trait-mark". That further justify why we believe PAP policies are flawed and made people very unhappy.

 

[jw5]

I don't see this signs in other countries. Only Singapore has this kind of "trait-mark". That further justify why we believe PAP policies are flawed and made people very unhappy.

It's poor values inculcated by the leaders. Led by u-know-who.

 

[krafty]

i went to the funeral yesterday nite and was very saddened to see my friend's wife body. there were some memories when i helped her to fix her pc and had dinner with the family. my friend was strong, he seems to take everything calmly and had that "see broken" look which i find more saddening. why good pple deserve such kind of fate? i came across some meaningful words,"how pple treat you is their karma and how you react is yours". i wish him well. not a good year, have went to 2 funerals since, another was a friend's dad,used to be ktvs' owner during his high time, then one nite, he just had too much alcohol and passed away in his home.nobody realise this until few days later.

i may go to thailand to be a monk for few months...

Carry out your basic responsibilities in life, but remove your desires and fears.
You will find that nothing scares or tempts you and bargaining power returns to you. Stop worrying about what others do or think of you.

 

[Jah_rastafar_I]

Correct. It's almost impossible to have 0 desires or fears.
The key is to try and remove as much as possible.

Are u even human then?

I understand your pt. The less you desire the less you want to strive for and the less worries you have in the process.

If you don't desire face for eg, you won't feel ashamed if ppl look down on you for being poor or not owning expensive stuff and so on. You know i have a feeling that there's a certain percentage of ppl that buy new stuff not cos they want them but just to be admired or envied. I remember someone writing about how malays would do their house very nice for hari raya visits so that their frens/family would admire/envy them and so on.

Anyway i wonder how much humanity someone retains if he has 0 desires.

 

[jw5]

why good pple deserve such kind of fate? i came across some meaningful words,"how pple treat you is their karma and how you react is yours".

There's a theory that some good people die young because they are needed for better purposes.
Some bad people are left on earth to make life a living hell for the other sinners.

 

[jw5]

The less you desire the less you want to strive for and the less worries you have in the process.

If you don't desire face for eg, you won't feel ashamed if ppl look down on you for being poor or not owning expensive stuff and so on.

Having less desire will not necessarily make you strive less, since you can still have the will to fulfill certain objectives and responsibilities.

Worry less maybe, but more importantly, it helps you to strengthen your integrity. If you don't desire or have little desire for money, sex or power, you just can't be bought. Your principles will remain intact.

Agree with your comment about desire for face. What people think will simply not matter. And if you reduce fear, you won't fear what others think or say either.

 

[KNNBCCB]

There's a theory that some good people die young because they are needed for better purposes.
Some bad people are left on earth to make life a living hell for the other sinners.

Good one !