It's not only men who are boring on dating app. Women are equally boring.

[Tylenol]

Stopped initiating chats since a long time ago so I started a small experiment and wait for women I matched to initiate chat on app.

Guess what?

Most of the time they initiated by asking how are you?, how's your day?, what are you working as?

As a guy, we may think that girls dont reply cos we are boring. But it's not that. They just found someone else they want to chat with. That's all. So fellow guys, don't need to crack your head to think of creative lines because women's replies are just as boring. Those who expect guys to put in most of the effort while they themselves are boring can skip. Because they're being double standard. You're setting your own bar too high. So it's really ok to just say hi how are you?. If they really want to engage in a chat with you, they'd reply. If not skip.

That's my takeaway. How's yours?

 

[karizma]

I’ve tried a few different online dating sites, and it’s been an interesting journey. One thing I’ve noticed is how helpful mature personals can be when you’re looking for something more meaningful. I’ve connected with people who have similar life experiences, and it’s made dating much easier. It’s nice to meet others who are on the same page!

 

[eatshitndie]

boring men prefer to be boring holes?

 

[syed putra]

Go to places serving good coffee and cakes. Plenty of women there. No need for apps.

 

[Vlad Tepes]

Stopped initiating chats since a long time ago so I started a small experiment and wait for women I matched to initiate chat on app.

Guess what?

Most of the time they initiated by asking how are you?, how's your day?, what are you working as?

As a guy, we may think that girls dont reply cos we are boring. But it's not that. They just found someone else they want to chat with. That's all. So fellow guys, don't need to crack your head to think of creative lines because women's replies are just as boring. Those who expect guys to put in most of the effort while they themselves are boring can skip. Because they're being double standard. You're setting your own bar too high. So it's really ok to just say hi how are you?. If they really want to engage in a chat with you, they'd reply. If not skip.

That's my takeaway. How's yours?

You forgot something. "Their profile always state, follow my insta". 99% not looking partners. 99% don' initiate any conversation.