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I Have Schizophrenia: Will I Ever Find Someone to Love Me?

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I Have Schizophrenia: Will I Ever Find Someone to Love Me?​

March 31, 2021, Mary Ellen EllisBrightQuest Treatment Centers
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I Have Schizophrenia Will I Ever Find Someone to Love Me?

Dating with schizophrenia presents several challenges. It can also be more difficult to build and maintain a healthy, intimate relationship. Psychotic symptoms, difficulty expressing emotions and making social connections, a tendency to be isolated, and other issues get in the way of meeting friends and establishing relationships. Finding love while living with schizophrenia, however, is far from impossible. It begins with good, ongoing treatment and continues with patience, practice, and persistence.

Schizophrenia is a serious mental illness that can cause significant dysfunction in daily life and in relationships. It does not, however, mean that you cannot have healthy, satisfying relationships. There is nothing about the illness that makes you unlovable.

Living with schizophrenia means finding ways to minimize and cope with symptoms. It also means working hard to develop meaningful social connections.

You may have to try harder than others, but you can and should find someone who loves you for who you are. You can build a strong relationship together that meets both of your needs.

The Social and Relationship Challenges of Schizophrenia​


Schizophrenia can make it difficult for you to have healthy relationships. The illness impacts how you connect with and interact with people, from your family to acquaintances to friends and romantic interests. It’s important to be aware of the challenges and their sources in order to work around or with them to find love.
Several of the symptoms, as well as complicating factors, can make it difficult to socialize with schizophrenia and to develop and maintain close relationships:
  • Hallucinations and delusions. These characteristic symptoms are not continuously present, but when they do arise, they interfere with relationships. It’s hard to trust someone when you struggle to trust reality and what you see, hear, and think.
  • Disorganized thinking and behaviors. The way you think with schizophrenia can make you act and speak in ways difficult for others to understand. This presents a barrier to getting close to someone.
  • Negative symptoms. Many people with schizophrenia have negative symptoms, for instance, reduced emotional expression or lack of interest in activities and socializing. It can be tough for others to read you or to connect when you feel withdrawn.
  • Other mental illnesses. Schizophrenia often co-occurs or even triggers anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges that can hold you back from socializing, meeting new people, and connecting with others.
  • Inability to live independently. If you live at home or in a group home because of symptoms or resulting financial difficulties, it can be hard to meet someone.
  • Inability to work or go to school. Being unable to function in a workplace or school also makes it difficult to meet new people and work on socializing and developing friendships.
  • Antipsychotic medications. Medications may help you manage symptoms, but they also cause side effects that could hinder close relationships. For instance, sexual dysfunction is a side effect of antipsychotics, and experts believe it is an underreported issue. They also cause weight gain, which can impact self-esteem.
Not everyone with schizophrenia experiences all of these. Everyone is different, but when even a few complications and symptoms appear, they can get in the way of a healthy, intimate relationship. Additionally, even if you feel prepared and ready to meet someone, the stigma of having a severe mental illness may hold you back.

How Treatment Can Help You Build Relationships​


Living with schizophrenia, it is possible to meet people, to socialize and make friends, and to have a loving intimate relationship. The best way to find a path to a healthy relationship is to treat your illness. Schizophrenia is not a flaw or weakness; it is a real disease. As a chronic disease, it requires ongoing treatment.

If you have struggled to connect with others, treatment can help. First, it helps indirectly by giving you tools for reducing symptoms and managing them when they arise. Medications and therapy help you keep symptoms under control, which in turn will make it easier for you to meet people and establish close relationships.

More specifically, treatment will directly tackle the issue of relationships. It starts with your family and fellow residents in treatment. Therapists work with you to learn how to connect with people. It’s a skill for everyone, but some people need more practice. You’ll work with your family and supportive residents to practice communication, emotional responses, trust, and more.

Tips for Dating With Schizophrenia​


Treatment builds the foundation for being able to develop healthy relationships. When you feel ready, start with friendships and meeting new people. You shouldn’t feel rushed to start dating just because it is expected. Take your time and progress at your comfort level. When you are ready to date, here are some tips that may help:
  • Set reasonable expectations. It may take you longer to find someone and you may face more challenges. Be prepared, but don’t give up hope.
  • Go slow, and date at a pace you feel comfortable with. Don’t let anyone pressure you to take things faster than you want. That isn’t the right person for you.
  • Tell someone you’ve met about schizophrenia in your own time. You don’t need to open with it, but do be honest within the first few dates.
  • Be patient with someone you meet and like who is hesitant when they find out you have schizophrenia. Don’t dismiss them right away. Talk to them about what it means and how you cope. Give them the chance to accept your diagnosis and decide if it is something they can live with.
  • Know when it’s not the right time to date. If you don’t feel up to it or if things aren’t going well, take a break. Work on your mental health and relationships with family and friends until you feel ready again.

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How to Build a Healthy Relationship​


When you have begun a relationship, you’re really only at the beginning of a tough but rewarding journey. Maintaining a healthy relationship that is satisfying for both of you takes work. Couples with mental illness benefit from advice from experts:
  • Educate your partner. Education about mental illness is so important for understanding it and being compassionate. If your partner has never been with or around someone with schizophrenia, they should consider a psychoeducation program, maybe from the facility where you received treatment.
  • Focus on communication. You’ve worked on communication in treatment, but it is an ongoing process. This is true for all relationships, not just those with mental illness. Prioritize clear communication, bringing up issues and challenges as soon as they arise. Don’t let them fester and become bigger.
  • See each other’s perspective. Actively try to look at the relationship from the other person’s point of view. How does your dip into a delusion make your partner feel? When you refuse to go out with friends and they complain, are they being selfish or showing concern? Considering someone else’s point of view strengthens your bond and ability to communicate.
  • Rely on a support network. Only focusing on each other isn’t healthy. You each need friends and family to rely on for support. Go to a trusted friend when you need to vent, and don’t be offended when your partner does the same. Strong connections with others can only help your relationship.
  • Keep up with treatment. Schizophrenia is not going away. It is a chronic disease that will come back if you neglect treatment. For yourself as an individual and for your relationship, continue with treatment, even if only an occasional outpatient therapy session or support group meeting.
Living with schizophrenia poses many challenges, so don’t be in a rush to date if it doesn’t feel like the right time. Everyone deserves to have a loving relationship, but it may take more time for you. Get the treatment you need, work on improving existing relationships, and date when you feel the time is right.

If you’re concerned about a loved one and believe they may need residential care, we can help. BrightQuest offers long-term treatment for people struggling with complex mental illnesses. Contact us to learn more about our renowned program and how we can help you or your loved one start the journey toward recovery.
 

Cottonmouth

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So true whoever create clones to talk to himself everyday and like his own posts is definitely having schizophrenia.

You can spread your cheebye swallow @jw5 that cheebye kia and his cheebye mother.
2 cheebyes in your one big cheebye! @ginfreely Gan siokbin whore you let dog fuck your chaocheebye!

Fuck your mother the old whore too!

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laksaboy

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A good penis cures all mental problems afflicting a woman.

Endorphins, dopamine, oxytocin etc... all happy chemicals naturally produced when you have a loving, intimate relationship.

Siao charbor need to get fucked and be healed. :thumbsup:
 

SBFNews

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Don't love just fuck. Fuck them, then claim it was their crazy imagination, you never touched them.:biggrin: The courts will agree with you.
Later the schizophrenic virus spread to you then u know. Then you will start posting some unknown human picture(s) in this forum everyday! Knn
 

Cottonmouth

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Later the schizophrenic virus spread to you then u know. Then you will start posting some unknown human picture(s) in this forum everyday! Knn

She wants the 2 of them to double penetrate her, either one hole each
pussy, ass
pussy, mouth
mouth, ass

or BOTH dicks in pussy, followed by ass, then mouth.

@jw5 that cheebye can squat there like a dog and wait.
When @ginfreely that slut is done fucking, he can go lick all her holes for the cunt juice, ass bits and sperm residues.
 
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