i am sad...very very sad.... :( :(

[Ochoa]

With her consent u two can still be F buddies.

 

[syed putra]

How to? And hurt my wife. I love my wife too. I have to admit the sparks are not there anymore but i cannot be heartless to my wife. So in my 6 years...i go on more holidays with my girlfriend more than my wife...i do my best...and i know ... it is still not enuff for my girlfriend...sigh :(:(

If you were sincere, you should buy her a place to live and maybe a car or scooter so that she can have a baby in a safe environment. But obviously, you just want the sex.

 

[MajullahSingapura]

This more or less explains it. men will fall for women who provide the best sex. If your wife had given you satisfying sex, you would not have ventured astray.

Nah....it is more than sex...i feel happier when i with her...

 

[MajullahSingapura]

screw already, never mind lah...

It's more than screw... i do miss her lots...sigh :(

 

[MajullahSingapura]

If you were sincere, you should buy her a place to live and maybe a car or scooter so that she can have a baby in a safe environment. But obviously, you just want the sex.

True...but my means are limited and if i do so...i m sure my wife will know and it will hurt her too...:(

 

[blissquek]

Honestly i hope i had copied this...but alas...it is me and i am really down...walking aimlessly now...sigh :(

..It's ok..just keep walking..

Whatever you do...don't jump or plunge...life goes on...

 

[MajullahSingapura]

Just went to Kwan In Temple...controlling my tears as i prayed for her...sigh :( i still want the best for her...

 

[sochi2014]

can i pray for you?

 

[MajullahSingapura]

..It's ok..just keep walking..

Whatever you do...don't jump or plunge...life goes on...

I dun think i will jump or kill myself. I am just smoking and smoking...not sure how many sticks in the last 2 hours since the whatsapp message from her...sigh...really relying on cigs to keep the pain in the heart at bay and tears from rolling...:(

 

[looneytan]

may I see picture of your wife!

maybe after that we can talk ... :o

 

[Agoraphobic]

Dear Majullah Singapura:

When I was a younger man, my mom told me "In life, you will break somebody's heart, and somebody will break your heart, at least once."

This is one aspect of life we go through. You'll get over it, pick yourself up, move on. Take this as one of your life's happier moments, memories are made up of both sweet and bitter episodes. This one was sweet. Take care.

Cheers!

 

[MajullahSingapura]

Maybe a couple of months from now....when i look at this thread again.... the heart will heal...i doubt it will fully heal but for now ... cigerettes had never taste so good since i started smoking 30 years ago...sigh....:(

 

[MajullahSingapura]

Dear Majullah Singapura:

When I was a younger man, my mom told me "In life, you will break somebody's heart, and somebody will break your heart, at least once."

This is one aspect of life we go through. You'll get over it, pick yourself up, move on. Take this as one of your life's happier moments, memories are made up of both sweet and bitter episodes. This one was sweet. Take care.

Cheers!

Thanks bro....thanks....:(

 

[MajullahSingapura]

may I see picture of your wife!

maybe after that we can talk ... :o

I hope u can grant me a little dignity and stop making fun of my painful heart. Sigh...nevermind...i had expected forummera to make fun of me when i started this thread...

 

[MajullahSingapura]

can i pray for you?

Please do if it is not inconvenient to u. Thanks bro...:(

 

[krafty]

did she give you her first...? if not, just take it her as a kind of fuck buddy...being emotional attached to a secondary woman besides your wife is a very useless thing to do. suggest keep your mind occupied...with useful things like how to make more money than temasek...

It's more than screw... i do miss her lots...sigh :(

 

[MajullahSingapura]

Shit.... i really hate this feeling...memories of her and me during the happier days keep replaying in me...hope another cig will make them go away....:( sigh....

 

[zeroo]

How to? And hurt my wife. I love my wife too. I have to admit the sparks are not there anymore but i cannot be heartless to my wife. So in my 6 years...i go on more holidays with my girlfriend more than my wife...i do my best...and i know ... it is still not enuff for my girlfriend...sigh :(:(

Did your wife know abt ur relationship with her?

 

[MajullahSingapura]

did she give you her first...? if not, just take it her as a kind of fuck buddy...being emotional attached to a secondary woman besides your wife is a very useless thing to do. suggest keep your mind occupied...with useful things like how to make more money than temasek...

I am not the sort who bothers about first or watever...to me...i love her lots...sigh...:(

Having to remain anonymous and share my sorrows here as i cant share with anyone is so so gruelling for me :( more cigs...sigh :(

 

[MajullahSingapura]

Did your wife know abt ur relationship with her?

Nope ... .....