Husband (43M) is addicted to Korean BJ
As it says, I think my husband (43M) has developed this weird addiction to Korean BJ. (For context it’s Korean broadcast jockey- where Korean girls essentially dance to k pop songs in sexy clothes) I have spoken to him about it and he considers it like any other porn addiction. But I find this very repulsive. I have no problem with him watching porn. I also think that it’s a bit racial- but then everyone has their own preferences. For context I (35F) am not Asian looking at all. Also I think it bothers me that I can never compete with those girls- which I know is silly, but i can’t really move past the idea. Lastly so I found out not all these girls are 18+ and I told him that I find it disgusting that he could sit and watch underage girls. But apparently that had no effect on him. It’s giving me the ick knowing he spends his nights just sitting and watching this stuff. Just wondering if I am too crazy to feel this way and be repulsed by this? How do you think I can manage this situation better? I don’t want to cut him off just for this.
