Check out this book, "Carry on, Warrior."

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Excerpt from the book, "Carry on, Warrior."
http://pages.simonandschuster.com/carryonwarrior/excerpt

The author makes a good point, what works for others, or even for the rest of the world, may not necessarily mean it should work for yourself. Only you can determine what works for yourself.