The comment from Sill Dill is ONLY his personal view, perspectives and experiences WHICH IS only simplistic and in general...
The insignificant nobody me had the privilege and honor to meet with women not just in Singapore but during my travels overseas. Ultimately, Humans male or female do shares the same values that all Humankind holds dear - progress, shared prosperity, justice, equality, and more...white or black, young or old, fat or thin, etc.
As for his perceptions that plus sized women are irresponsible and have a lack of accountability, that's TOTAL BS. Humans are all the same, and do have genuine reasons why their sizes bulged, and often it is due to emotional stresses.
For example, each emotional Human relies on a comfort zone, a shell, to hide in when they feel unwanted, distressed, sad, etc...and such comfort zones can come in many shapes and sizes,,,and some may just simply turn to the safest zone - food, even if unhealthy, as it harms no one else, except themselves when taken in excess......
Also, may males bear in mind, fat can be become slim or at the least be healthy. It just takes discipline and support from loved ones.....
Also, may males REALIZES that women. white or black, fat or thin, beautiful or cute, etc, etc, experience PMS every month. Some women have it easy, but some women suffers from wild mood swings during those few days.....Thus males MUST make room for them, and ASSIST them, have patience and gently help them get over it....PMS is only a natural occurrence, a necessary biological act to enhance childbirth, which only women can perform and not men....
Beauty and good looks will eventually FADE OVER TIME. It is love that holds one together, to see beyond the physical to build the journey of life together thru better and open communications DAILY, the very building blocks of Civilization which our ancestors and forefathers had done and gave us our todays...otherwise, you and I would not had existed at all.....
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