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after thoughts by an ex-singaporean

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It was the media that exposed my selfishness to myself; the letters to the media unanimously demanded Tony Abbott to take in the refugees. The bottom line is this – they are displaced and we have to help, no ifs, no buts. One man even offered to take in a refugee family into his home and asked if any authority could organise this as many others might want to open up their homes as well! I must say I am nowhere near these big-hearted people when it comes to such matters of the heart. Yet, I call myself a Christian and all I worry about is whether we can afford to take in the refugees during such economic climate. Indeed, I am the modern day Pharisee!

I am not saying that Mr. Australia is all good and flawless. Yes, there is discrimination here; remember the Cronulla riot, the violent assaults against some Muslims and the recent tirade against an Asian woman caught on youtube, just to name a few. But I had also experienced discrimination in Singapore when I found out that as a manager in an MNC, my pay was lower than a French executive with lesser duties. I also know some jobs in Singapore are not opened to certain races or even Singaporeans.

Therefore, I find it is really hard to compare the two spouses – Australia and Singapore, just like it is difficult to decide which is better – apples or durians. Australia is the poorer and mundane man but he has a bigger heart and a creative mind. His children are encouraged to speak their minds and explore their potential. He has also been a mirror for my soul, helping me to reflect on myself. Singapore is the more academic, richer man with all the glitz and can offer me physical security but he has a much lesser heart. His children must speak only when spoken to and fit into daddy’s square holes.

http://www.theonlinecitizen.com/2015/09/post-election-catharsis-humbled-thankful/
 
I am sure some sinkies adopted kids of different race due to compassion. And the Malays normally allow their kids to do what they want but are not catered for by the education system. That is why they could not conform.
 
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