I am impressed by your efforts to defend the deacon, you are getting closer to your high SES dream.
1. I really don't understand the rationale for
make-up sex after quarrelling with his wife. If it is a routine for them to have sex on friday night, to resume the routine after a quarrel I don't see it as make-up unless they have another round of sex on saturday morning.
2. From his 2nd statement, I can infer the deacon is feeling "extremely satisfying to know you (the aspiring True Follower) is trying to suck his balls hard and deep.