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29 February 2016 ∼ Should I?

Nabey, you tink i no need to work ah? Limpei got KPI to meet u know. KNN, like u so free everyday tcss here ah? Cheebei :oIo::D

fuck u la nigger. Logging in and posting a few posts doesn't take much time at all. KPI to meet? ROFL from the looks of things you probably about to get fired.
 
fuck u la nigger. Logging in and posting a few posts doesn't take much time at all. KPI to meet? ROFL from the looks of things you probably about to get fired.

kNN chow nigger. :oIo: Suay Chwee :oIo:
U ask ah leong to pay me good salary i come here tcss with u everyday KNN :oIo::D
 
kNN chow nigger. :oIo: Suay Chwee :oIo:
U ask ah leong to pay me good salary i come here tcss with u everyday KNN :oIo::D

simi salary? Nigger you jiak liao bee cannot keep up KPI so your boss fuck you up. What job you doing? Selling backside? Anyway if sam pays you salary your kpi will fuck up even more right? See only want money to do jiat liao bee job.
 
simi salary? Nigger you jiak liao bee cannot keep up KPI so your boss fuck you up. What job you doing? Selling backside? Anyway if sam pays you salary your kpi will fuck up even more right? See only want money to do jiat liao bee job.

Knn you :oIo: limpei need salary to pay bills and to be Top class Mangina to song song tonychat.

This forumpar is dead anyway. Come here read read can liao, post ki lan ah :oIo::
 
Knn you :oIo: limpei need salary to pay bills and to be Top class Mangina to song song tonychat.

This forumpar is dead anyway. Come here read read can liao, post ki lan ah :oIo::

pay your dog fuck bills? Yes mr mangina and why last time you post if forum is dead and you post now? Nigger.
 
pay your dog fuck bills? Yes mr mangina and why last time you post if forum is dead and you post now? Nigger.

Limpei bo eng now. Gotta do my mangina fetch and send duty . U mang mang tcss here okie.

Knn... limpei go fug spider now... bye...
 
Limpei bo eng now. Gotta do my mangina fetch and send duty . U mang mang tcss here okie.

Knn... limpei go fug spider now... bye...

ooooo fetch and send. ROFL!!!!!Bringing her to fuck? I think so you are getting fucked by her.
 
My biological clock is ticking. I am getting older by the day. I have been pondering zealously about the next direction in my life ∼ to remain single, as in, be in a relationship without "formalities", or just get it over, ie. R.O.M and be over and done with.

This year is 2016, a leap year. Tradition has it that on 29 February of every leap year, a woman "is allowed" to propose to his man without fear or favour. My Irish colleague even told me that she did it 8 years ago and never regretted every single minute of marriage life.

Well, it's afterall an Irish tradition and nothing Chinese about it. It's never easy for a petite Chinese girl like me to be so bold and audaciously "un-chinese".

The whole idea of me proposing to him seems arduous and incredulous. I am unconvinced (at least for now while writing this post) why I should make the first move instead of him.

If I do propose on 29 February, and he doesn't accept, I become the world's biggest nincompoop. Worse, a buffon for sure in future.

And if he does accept, I fear that I will be at the lowest end of "bargaining power" in the future marriage life ∼ ie., his damn ego will be so big and humongous ∼ thinking that he is so damn great and deluding himself that he is an "Alpha male" ∼ which incidentally, I believe is pure crap philosophy and trashy concept borne out of male losers in society.

I broached this idea of proposing on 29 February to my best friend, Sue, last evening, at Brotzeit over wine and sausages. She said I am out of my mind and "cheapening myself", if ever I do so and blah, blah and blah... and the most funny of all, she said women are like good wine, meant to be savoured while men are just sausages, meant to be eaten while they are hot and juicy! Haha! :)

Well, jokes aside ∼ assuming I change my mind nearer the day ∼ decides to brave and courageous, a couple of questions kept encircling my ever productive brainy thought bubbles...

1. What do I get as a proposal momento? Really an engagement ring? What about for myself???

2. Do I have to kneel down like what men do when proposing? Feels odd and smacks of chauvinism. Yucks!

3. What about flowers? For him? It will certainly looks weird on that egoistic Beast!

Suggestions?

Hi Claire, marriage is just the beginning of the journey, one thing is true, if you plan to have children, then the biological clock thingy better take note.

Nevertheless, do not fret yourself with all the material stuff such as diamond rings etc, it's just a piece of stone......

Woukd suggest to ask him straight in the face about getting married, if you feel you are ready, unless he is not, then you might want to make alternative plans.........

On the ego stuff, while I believe he will be happy about it, it's just for that moment, the serious stuff comes later.

As for "bargaining power", once you are married, another phase of life beginning, responsibility, especially with kids comes in, no more time for the mind games. It's way over, at that point.

Wish you well in your journey ahead......
 
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