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21 Ways Rich People Think Differently:

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21 Ways Rich People Think Differently:

(Article from http://finance.yahoo.com/news/21-ways-rich-people-think-differently.html?page=all)

"World's richest woman Gina Rinehart is enduring a media firestorm over an article in which she takes the "jealous" middle class to task for "drinking, or smoking and socializing" rather than working to earn their own fortune.

What if she has a point?

Steve Siebold, author of "How Rich People Think," spent nearly three decades interviewing millionaires around the world to find out what separates them from everyone else.

It had little to do with money itself, he told Business Insider. It was about their mentality.

"[The middle class] tells people to be happy with what they have," he said. "And on the whole, most people are steeped in fear when it comes to money."


1. Average people think MONEY is the root of all evil. Rich people believe POVERTY is the root of all evil.

"The average person has been brainwashed to believe rich people are lucky or dishonest," Siebold writes.

That's why there's a certain shame that comes along with "getting rich" in lower-income communities.

"The world class knows that while having money doesn't guarantee happiness, it does make your life easier and more enjoyable."

2. Average people think selfishness is a vice. Rich people think selfishness is a virtue.

"The rich go out there and try to make themselves happy. They don't try to pretend to save the world," Siebold told Business Insider.

The problem is that middle class people see that as a negative––and it's keeping them poor, he writes.

"If you're not taking care of you, you're not in a position to help anyone else. You can't give what you don't have."


3. Average people have a lottery mentality. Rich people have an action mentality.

"While the masses are waiting to pick the right numbers and praying for prosperity, the great ones are solving problems," Siebold writes.

"The hero [middle class people] are waiting for may be God, government, their boss or their spouse. It's the average person's level of thinking that breeds this approach to life and living while the clock keeps ticking away."

4. Average people think the road to riches is paved with formal education. Rich people believe in acquiring specific knowledge.

"Many world-class performers have little formal education, and have amassed their wealth through the acquisition and subsequent sale of specific knowledge," he writes.

"Meanwhile, the masses are convinced that master's degrees and doctorates are the way to wealth, mostly because they are trapped in the linear line of thought that holds them back from higher levels of consciousness...The wealthy aren't interested in the means, only the end."


5. Average people long for the good old days. Rich people dream of the future.

"Self-made millionaires get rich because they're willing to bet on themselves and project their dreams, goals and ideas into an unknown future," Siebold writes.

"People who believe their best days are behind them rarely get rich, and often struggle with unhappiness and depression."

6. Average people see money through the eyes of emotion. Rich people think about money logically.

"An ordinarily smart, well-educated and otherwise successful person can be instantly transformed into a fear-based, scarcity driven thinker whose greatest financial aspiration is to retire comfortably," he writes.

"The world class sees money for what it is and what it's not, through the eyes of logic. The great ones know money is a critical tool that presents options and opportunities."

7. Average people earn money doing things they don't love. Rich people follow their passion.

"To the average person, it looks like the rich are working all the time," Siebold says. "But one of the smartest strategies of the world class is doing what they love and finding a way to get paid for it."

On the other hand, middle class take jobs they don't enjoy "because they need the money and they've been trained in school and conditioned by society to live in a linear thinking world that equates earning money with physical or mental effort."

8. Average people set low expectations so they're never disappointed. Rich people are up for the challenge.

"Psychologists and other mental health experts often advise people to set low expectations for their life to ensure they are not disappointed," Siebold writes.

"No one would ever strike it rich and live their dreams without huge expectations."


9. Average people believe you have to DO something to get rich. Rich people believe you have to BE something to get rich.

"That's why people like Donald Trump go from millionaire to nine billion dollars in debt and come back richer than ever," he writes.

"While the masses are fixated on the doing and the immediate results of their actions, the great ones are learning and growing from every experience, whether it's a success or a failure, knowing their true reward is becoming a human success machine that eventually produces outstanding results."

10. Average people believe you need money to make money. Rich people use other people's money.

Linear thought might tell people to make money in order to earn more, but Siebold says the rich aren't afraid to fund their future from other people's pockets.

"Rich people know not being solvent enough to personally afford something is not relevant. The real question is, 'Is this worth buying, investing in, or pursuing?'" he writes.


11. Average people believe the markets are driven by logic and strategy. Rich people know they're driven by emotion and greed.

Investing successfully in the stock market isn't just about a fancy math formula.

"The rich know that the primary emotions that drive financial markets are fear and greed, and they factor this into all trades and trends they observe," Siebold writes.

"This knowledge of human nature and its overlapping impact on trading give them strategic advantage in building greater wealth through leverage."

12. Average people live beyond their means. Rich people live below theirs.

"Here's how to live below your means and tap into the secret wealthy people have used for centuries: Get rich so you can afford to," he writes.

"The rich live below their means, not because they're so savvy, but because they make so much money that they can afford to live like royalty while still having a king's ransom socked away for the future."


13. Average people teach their children how to survive. Rich people teach their kids to get rich.

Rich parents teach their kids from an early age about the world of "haves" and "have-nots," Siebold says. Even he admits many people have argued that he's supporting the idea of elitism.

He disagrees.

"[People] say parents are teaching their kids to look down on the masses because they're poor. This isn't true," he writes. "What they're teaching their kids is to see the world through the eyes of objective reality––the way society really is."

If children understand wealth early on, they'll be more likely to strive for it later in life.

14. Average people let money stress them out. Rich people find peace of mind in wealth.

The reason wealthy people earn more wealth is that they're not afraid to admit that money can solve most problems, Siebold says.

"[The middle class] sees money as a never-ending necessary evil that must be endured as part of life. The world class sees money as the great liberator, and with enough of it, they are able to purchase financial peace of mind."


15. Average people would rather be entertained than educated. Rich people would rather be educated than entertained.

While the rich don't put much stock in furthering wealth through formal education, they appreciate the power of learning long after college is over, Siebold says.

"Walk into a wealthy person's home and one of the first things you'll see is an extensive library of books they've used to educate themselves on how to become more successful," he writes.

"The middle class reads novels, tabloids and entertainment magazines."

16. Average people think rich people are snobs. Rich people just want to surround themselves with like-minded people.

The negative money mentality poisoning the middle class is what keeps the rich hanging out with the rich, he says.

"[Rich people] can't afford the messages of doom and gloom," he writes. "This is often misinterpreted by the masses as snobbery.

Labeling the world class as snobs is another way the middle class finds to feel better bout themselves and their chosen path of mediocrity."


17. Average people focus on saving. Rich people focus on earning.

Siebold theorizes that the wealthy focus on what they'll gain by taking risks, rather than how to save what they have.

"The masses are so focused on clipping coupons and living frugally they miss major opportunities," he writes.

"Even in the midst of a cash flow crisis, the rich reject the nickle and dime thinking of the masses. They are the masters of focusing their mental energy where it belongs: on the big money."

18. Average people play it safe with money. Rich people know when to take risks.

"Leverage is the watchword of the rich," Siebold writes.

"Every investor loses money on occasion, but the world class knows no matter what happens, they will aways be able to earn more."


19. Average people love to be comfortable. Rich people find comfort in uncertainty.

For the most part, it takes guts to take the risks necessary to make it as a millionaire––a challenge most middle class thinkers aren't comfortable living with.

"Physical, psychological, and emotional comfort is the primary goal of the middle class mindset," Siebold writes.

World class thinkers learn early on that becoming a millionaire isn't easy and the need for comfort can be devastating. They learn to be comfortable while operating in a state of ongoing uncertainty."

20. Average people never make the connection between money and health. Rich people know money can save your life.

While the middle class squabbles over the virtues of Obamacare and their company's health plan, the super wealthy are enrolled in a super elite "boutique medical care" association, Siebold says.

"They pay a substantial yearly membership fee that guarantees them 24-hour access to a private physician who only serves a small group of members," he writes.

"Some wealthy neighborhoods have implemented this strategy and even require the physician to live in the neighborhood."


21. Average people believe they must choose between a great family and being rich. Rich people know you can have it all.

The idea the wealth must come at the expense of family time is nothing but a "cop-out", Siebold says.

"The masses have been brainwashed to believe it's an either/or equation," he writes. "The rich know you can have anything you want if you approach the challenge with a mindset rooted in love and abundance."

From Steve Siebold, author of "How Rich People Think."
 

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I'm too lazy to read your long article. But I find two advice someone told me before quite true.

1. 避短扬长 when dealing and managing people.

2. In sales, you are good only when you can sell what others failed to sell.
 

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It is a matter of time before the tens of millions unemployed Europeans will go after the rich. The rich thinks that they have no responsibility to society. They are smug and spit on the average. Well, the average will hunt them down. Society won't be normal with 25 percent unemployment. Either you kill off the 25 percent or you do something to help them or the 25 percent will go after the establishment. People don't choose to be unemployed.
 

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22. Average people blame others for their problems and when they screwed up. Rich people learned from their mistakes and move on knowing that they are now steps closer to solving their problems and reaching their dreams.

The masses always blame others i.e. the government, the rich, their employers, FTs, etc. except themselves when their lives are screwed up. The blame game leads to inaction and their lives going nowhere.
 
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The masses always blame others i.e. the government, the rich, their employers, FTs, etc. except themselves when their lives are screwed up. The blame game leads to inaction and their lives going nowhere.

The reality is that the average person has little influence or clout. That's a fact. A diligent average worker could be fired because the rich greedy boss wants to increase his profit by reducing headcount cost; sinkee gets fired and replaced by a cheap foreigner. Sinkee couple wants to buy a flat ...they are saving furiously their deposit over the years ...but the price of HDB keeps climbing up while their annual pay rise is low ....then one of the sinkee finds himself unemployed because a Pinoy has been hired to replace him.

The masses can do the right thing ...kick out the PAP in 2016. That's the only real control they have over their destiny.
 

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The masses can do the right thing ...kick out the PAP in 2016. That's the only real control they have over their destiny.

If you think kicking the PAP out is going to solve all sinkie problems, you're living in fairyland. :rolleyes:

I agree with every single point. I have been trying to drum in the same message for a long time. However, most people are simply too dumb to absorb the message.

To those who are hell bent on "helping the poor", I will tell you straight that changing the government will do absolutely nothing for your cause. If you really want to help the poor, get rich yourself first and then help them directly with your own money.
 

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If you think kicking the PAP out is going to solve all sinkie problems, you're living in fairyland. :rolleyes:

I agree with every single point. I have been trying to drum in the same message for a long time. However, most people are simply too dumb to absorb the message.

To those who are hell bent on "helping the poor", I will tell you straight that changing the government will do absolutely nothing for your cause. If you really want to help the poor, get rich yourself first and then help them directly with your own money.

That's the big problem - it is everyone to themselves. That's greed and selfishness. If that's the kind of society we want, we don't need a government. We can live like animals.

In the local context, we elect a government to work for us, not for them to make themselves rich and let the people rot. As for the rich sinkees, how many of them really think about helping those in need? Instead of hiring sinkees, they hire cheap foreign talents, not giving a thought of how that would hurt society.

Most people when they get rich, they lose the empathy and start to be smug.
 

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That's the big problem - it is everyone to themselves. That's greed and selfishness. If that's the kind of society we want, we don't need a government. We can live like animals.

Do a bit of research on the history of mankind. You'll find that the underlying driving force is greed and the most profound progress has been achieved, not in a spirit of cooperation and selflessness, but in bloody battles for supremacy.

You can't change the genetic code of a human being. In order for society to progress, competition is necessary. Resources will always be scarce and the battle will always be ongoing.

However, as individuals, there is nothing stopping us from helping those who deserve assistance but don't expect a system where welfare is a right to flourish. It goes against human nature.
 

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Do a bit of research on the history of mankind. You'll find that the underlying driving force is greed and the most profound progress has been achieved, not in a spirit of cooperation and selflessness, but in bloody battles for supremacy.

You can't change the genetic code of a human being. In order for society to progress, competition is necessary. Resources will always be scarce and the battle will always be ongoing.

However, as individuals, there is nothing stopping us from helping those who deserve assistance but don't expect a system where welfare is a right to flourish. It goes against human nature.

That's why there are laws to curb our animal instincts. We are in a conflict - self-preservation or make a community. If everyone is for themselves, there is lots of bloodshed and everyone lives in constant fear. Then folks got smarter to realize that was not the way to live. Communities got formed.
Every now and then, we forget and allow greed, self-interest control us like in the last few decades. If you think that the rich can live in peace in an environment of 25-50 percent unemployment, you live in delusion. Something will give ...either you get rid of the unemployed or you help the unemployed which is essentially, be animals or be human.
 

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I would like to submit another few:

(a) Rich people love it when others get rich. It means they have more potential clients, and hence, more profits.

(b) Rich people concentrate on creating and giving value, before they think about being compensated.

(c) Rich people treat stocks as companies. Poor people treat stocks as lottery tickets.

(d) Rich people donate without being pressured. Poor people demand donations without providing value.

(e) Poor people want everything for themselves. Rich people know it is better to give than to receive.

And lastly ...

(f) Poor people read STOMP. Rich people read SBF.
 

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That's why there are laws to curb our animal instincts. We are in a conflict - self-preservation or make a community. If everyone is for themselves, there is lots of bloodshed and everyone lives in constant fear. Then folks got smarter to realize that was not the way to live. Communities got formed.

Competition is not at the expense of the community. Mankind is fully aware that a team of like minded individuals can achieve so much more than a single digit. However, everyone within the community has to pull their weight. When individuals within this community start freeloading on the efforts of others, the whole group is weakened and can easily fall prey to other communities which have stronger members.

It's no different from a sports team. Help can be extended to injured or tired players but ultimately, they have to step up to the plate and perform. They cannot be passengers forever.
 

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It is a matter of time before the tens of millions unemployed Europeans will go after the rich. The rich thinks that they have no responsibility to society. They are smug and spit on the average. Well, the average will hunt them down. Society won't be normal with 25 percent unemployment. Either you kill off the 25 percent or you do something to help them or the 25 percent will go after the establishment. People don't choose to be unemployed.


When the poor is hungry, the rich better know they will not be getting a good night's sleep..........
 

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Average Joe woke up remembering their nightmares. Rich people woke up remembering their dreams.
 

winnipegjets

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Competition is not at the expense of the community. Mankind is fully aware that a team of like minded individuals can achieve so much more than a single digit. However, everyone within the community has to pull their weight. When individuals within this community start freeloading on the efforts of others, the whole group is weakened and can easily fall prey to other communities which have stronger members.

Competition is a zero-sum game. There is a winner and a loser. Let's take the EU for example. Based on your logic, you would conclude that Greece, Italy & Spain didn't pull its own weight and are the free loaders. Germany was competitive and thus the winner. If you look at the data, you will see a different picture. Germany gained at the expense of Greece & Spain. If not for the EU, Germany would be enjoying the growth in the last two decades. The EU enable Germany to gain a one-up against the other European countries because now those countries with lower productivity had the same cost structure as the Germans. I recognize that those southern European countries have lots of structural problems as well.

It's no different from a sports team. Help can be extended to injured or tired players but ultimately, they have to step up to the plate and perform. They cannot be passengers forever.

That's a community, isn't it. The others helping out the injured and tired until they can contribute. There are always going to be star players, average players, the grinders and laggard. Should the star players be smug and dismiss all the others who can't perform as well as not pulling their weight?
 

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Competition is a zero-sum game. There is a winner and a loser.

I don't know whether it's zero sum but I do know that when everyone strives to be a winner, the whole of society moves forward.


That's a community, isn't it. The others helping out the injured and tired until they can contribute. There are always going to be star players, average players, the grinders and laggard. Should the star players be smug and dismiss all the others who can't perform as well as not pulling their weight?

Help has to be temporary. It cannot be institutionalised. Star players will not tolerate having a mediocre player on the team forever while contributing nothing.
 

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Just to validate your point even more bout competition, Nial Ferguson has a series about the successes of western society, and one of them is competition. Without competition, the Europeans would not have "conquered" and colonised more then half of the world.

[video=youtube;jjjZ7P6n6gI]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjjZ7P6n6gI[/video]

I don't know whether it's zero sum but I do know that when everyone strives to be a winner, the whole of society moves forward.




Help has to be temporary. It cannot be institutionalised. Star players will not tolerate having a mediocre player on the team forever while contributing nothing.
 
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There is actually more than 21 ways sinkies think and act differently from other human beings, check my signature.
 

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16. Average people think rich people are snobs. Rich people just want to surround themselves with like-minded people.

The negative money mentality poisoning the middle class is what keeps the rich hanging out with the rich, he says.

"[Rich people] can't afford the messages of doom and gloom," he writes. "This is often misinterpreted by the masses as snobbery.

Labeling the world class as snobs is another way the middle class finds to feel better bout themselves and their chosen path of mediocrity."


Average sinkies mixed around with sinkies and in the end all of them get screwed.

Unsinkified people avoid the sinkies and create happiness for themselves and mixed around with other unsinkified ones.
 

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19. Average people love to be comfortable. Rich people find comfort in uncertainty.

For the most part, it takes guts to take the risks necessary to make it as a millionaire––a challenge most middle class thinkers aren't comfortable living with.

"Physical, psychological, and emotional comfort is the primary goal of the middle class mindset," Siebold writes.

World class thinkers learn early on that becoming a millionaire isn't easy and the need for comfort can be devastating. They learn to be comfortable while operating in a state of ongoing uncertainty."

You need to have balls to get freedom and democracy.

If no balls, then bend down daily and get screwed.
 

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21. Average people believe they must choose between a great family and being rich. Rich people know you can have it all.

The idea the wealth must come at the expense of family time is nothing but a "cop-out", Siebold says.

"The masses have been brainwashed to believe it's an either/or equation," he writes. "The rich know you can have anything you want if you approach the challenge with a mindset rooted in love and abundance."

From Steve Siebold, author of "How Rich People Think."

The smart one will know that you can live a life without the PAP and yet be rich and not under the law of the woman's charter, buy car without COE and all the fucking erps.

and buy a real home and really own it.
 
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