Went on my first date ever yest. Met her from Hinge. Thought she was a good person because she was open & honest with some of her past when we were chatting.
But when we met everything turned upside down. Immediately when meeting her, she expected a lot of things & immediately started criticizing me. Firstly why I never opened & held the door for her. Secondly, like the way I hold the fork & knife and how I eat. Wtf who makes that type of complaints.
I tried to look beyond that, thought its banter. But as we talked more, she started being more negative. Especially abt her past relationships, abt how each men is useless, didn't meet her expectations, like just full of negativity.
I pulled the classic move, I gotta go to the toilet. Instead I went to the counter and paid for the meal. Blocked her on Hinge & left.
Kamathi, I hope u can change ur attitude.
First & last date ever. Deleted Hinge & other dating apps. Will try to meet someone organically.
I have some questions for you:
1) Your date and your own age
2) How was the profile like? ie: picturesque travel photos, restaurant food photos or sexually suggestive photos.
3) Singaporean or Foreign?
4) Your income bracket
Suggestions:
If you are:
In your 20s:
1) Engage chicken overseas. I guarantee you, they're generally way prettier than local stock. Go HK, Thai or Japan, Korea if you've rich parents.
2) I don't care if you really want a meaningful relationship at this stage of life. Local women largely want a transactional relationshit
3) Masturbate as needed
4) if your date is also in this age bracket. Means she's only interested in you subbing to her OF, Insta, wrangling you to buy insurance from her or using you for a free meal ticket.
In your 30s:
If by this stage you don't have substantial disposable income to even afford Class 2 motorbike (exceeding 400cc).
(You don't have to buy one but have enough funds to buy and maintain one. Figure of speech)
1) Continue from pt 1 above or get a mail order bride. Else, you're just wasting your time on dating apps.
2) Continue to accumulate wealth either via education route or start a business
In your 40s and beyond:
Seriously, for fuck sake's. Don't waste your time on fucking dating apps and dating irl anymore. Start to plan for your retirement already or you be "exercising" by picking cardboard in your elderly years.