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Abandoned my date & blocked her

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Went on my first date ever yest. Met her from Hinge. Thought she was a good person because she was open & honest with some of her past when we were chatting.

But when we met everything turned upside down. Immediately when meeting her, she expected a lot of things & immediately started criticizing me. Firstly why I never opened & held the door for her. Secondly, like the way I hold the fork & knife and how I eat. Wtf who makes that type of complaints.

I tried to look beyond that, thought its banter. But as we talked more, she started being more negative. Especially abt her past relationships, abt how each men is useless, didn't meet her expectations, like just full of negativity.

I pulled the classic move, I gotta go to the toilet. Instead I went to the counter and paid for the meal. Blocked her on Hinge & left.

Kamathi, I hope u can change ur attitude.

First & last date ever. Deleted Hinge & other dating apps. Will try to meet someone organically.
 
Went on my first date ever yest. Met her from Hinge. Thought she was a good person because she was open & honest with some of her past when we were chatting.

But when we met everything turned upside down. Immediately when meeting her, she expected a lot of things & immediately started criticizing me. Firstly why I never opened & held the door for her. Secondly, like the way I hold the fork & knife and how I eat. Wtf who makes that type of complaints.

I tried to look beyond that, thought its banter. But as we talked more, she started being more negative. Especially abt her past relationships, abt how each men is useless, didn't meet her expectations, like just full of negativity.

I pulled the classic move, I gotta go to the toilet. Instead I went to the counter and paid for the meal. Blocked her on Hinge & left.

Kamathi, I hope u can change ur attitude.

First & last date ever. Deleted Hinge & other dating apps. Will try to meet someone organically.
Swift n decisive stroke.Heng ah ! 555
 
Even if your date looks like this lady, you did the right thing
by running for safety and then ghosting her.
Floral Dress.jpg
 
Went on my first date ever yest. Met her from Hinge. Thought she was a good person because she was open & honest with some of her past when we were chatting.

But when we met everything turned upside down. Immediately when meeting her, she expected a lot of things & immediately started criticizing me. Firstly why I never opened & held the door for her. Secondly, like the way I hold the fork & knife and how I eat. Wtf who makes that type of complaints.

I tried to look beyond that, thought its banter. But as we talked more, she started being more negative. Especially abt her past relationships, abt how each men is useless, didn't meet her expectations, like just full of negativity.

I pulled the classic move, I gotta go to the toilet. Instead I went to the counter and paid for the meal. Blocked her on Hinge & left.

Kamathi, I hope u can change ur attitude.

First & last date ever. Deleted Hinge & other dating apps. Will try to meet someone organically.
You are a gentlemen, still bother to pay for her meal.
I probably would have made my excuse to toilet and just pay for my own meal and told counter later she will settle her own meal.

It's never a good idea to go dinner with someone you never met before, even having chatted before.. Best is just meet for a drink at any convenient outlet eg macdonald.

I had been criticised for a poor food orlaring etiquette in a mid class cafe for a 2nd date. It was a bad decision.
I was angered by her criticism and told her what's wrong with my etiquette and that wasn't a high class leestoran why need to make ourselves difficult with such mundane matter.
There are dates who specifally look for microscopic details of their dates in the etiquette area. How we munch our food is also one of it.
 
Went on my first date ever yest. Met her from Hinge. Thought she was a good person because she was open & honest with some of her past when we were chatting.

But when we met everything turned upside down. Immediately when meeting her, she expected a lot of things & immediately started criticizing me. Firstly why I never opened & held the door for her. Secondly, like the way I hold the fork & knife and how I eat. Wtf who makes that type of complaints.

I tried to look beyond that, thought its banter. But as we talked more, she started being more negative. Especially abt her past relationships, abt how each men is useless, didn't meet her expectations, like just full of negativity.

I pulled the classic move, I gotta go to the toilet. Instead I went to the counter and paid for the meal. Blocked her on Hinge & left.

Kamathi, I hope u can change ur attitude.

First & last date ever. Deleted Hinge & other dating apps. Will try to meet someone organically.
The leeply I received when I asked her what was wrong -
She said by observing a man orlaring food can display their confidence level.

My leeply to her was a man confidence is determined by jua jee.

She didn't looked acceptable to this leeply.

I then leemarked softly, no jua jee no confidence, got jua jee got confidence.

Then there were silence for a few moments.
 
The leeply I received when I asked her what was wrong -
She said by observing a man orlaring food can display their confidence level.

My leeply to her was a man confidence is determined by jua jee.

She didn't looked acceptable to this leeply.

I then leemarked softly, no jua jee no confidence, got jua jee got confidence.

Then there were silence for a few moments.
So in the end, did you prove to her that you wu jua jee or not ... :o-o:
 
The leeply I received when I asked her what was wrong -
She said by observing a man orlaring food can display their confidence level.

My leeply to her was a man confidence is determined by jua jee.

She didn't looked acceptable to this leeply.

I then leemarked softly, no jua jee no confidence, got jua jee got confidence.

Then there were silence for a few moments.
If no money (cold hard cash), then no honey. 555
 
Better be single and treasure one's autonomy....
I have seen a married man persuading a single man to get hitched.But when u see the married man going through a miserable life due to the high costs of maintaining a family, it is really not convincing to get hitched.
Once you get hitched,u are jailed for live with tons of bills to pay.Don't play play. Some old bird will reveal after few drinks that :U will never be happy when u get hitched.555
 
I have seen a married man persuading a single man to get hitched.But when u see the married man going through a miserable life due to the high costs of maintaining a family, it is really not convincing to get hitched.
Once you get hitched,u are jailed for live with tons of bills to pay.Don't play play. Some old bird will reveal after few drinks that :U will never be happy when u get hitched.555
At least the married men already had his fun during his earlier years. Meanwhile the single man can't even have his chance to have some fun and trifle with women.
 
I have seen a married man persuading a single man to get hitched.But when u see the married man going through a miserable life due to the high costs of maintaining a family, it is really not convincing to get hitched.
Once you get hitched,u are jailed for live with tons of bills to pay.Don't play play. Some old bird will reveal after few drinks that :U will never be happy when u get hitched.555
It's alright to have some fun with women but u must know how to cut ur losses and get out when thing's start to get messy.
 
Went on my first date ever yest. Met her from Hinge. Thought she was a good person because she was open & honest with some of her past when we were chatting.

But when we met everything turned upside down. Immediately when meeting her, she expected a lot of things & immediately started criticizing me. Firstly why I never opened & held the door for her. Secondly, like the way I hold the fork & knife and how I eat. Wtf who makes that type of complaints.

I tried to look beyond that, thought its banter. But as we talked more, she started being more negative. Especially abt her past relationships, abt how each men is useless, didn't meet her expectations, like just full of negativity.

I pulled the classic move, I gotta go to the toilet. Instead I went to the counter and paid for the meal. Blocked her on Hinge & left.

Kamathi, I hope u can change ur attitude.

First & last date ever. Deleted Hinge & other dating apps. Will try to meet someone organically.

U should pay only half
 
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