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Woman Was 'Feeling Pretty Good' About First Date Until Man Performs 'Test' to See If She Is a 'Gold Digger'​

Imagine being asked to pay for your date, to which you agree, only to realize it was a ‘test’ to weed out 'gold diggers'​

Tereza Shkurtaj
Sun, 1 June 2025 at 8:00 PM SGT3-min read

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NEED TO KNOW​

• A woman was left stunned after her date asked her to pick up the tab at the end of their meal
• She agreed, only to later find out it was a "test" to make sure she was not a "gold digger"
• The woman then ended things with the man, but he has continuously tried to contact her

A promising first date took an unusual turn for one woman when she found herself the subject of an unexpected – and highly uncomfortable – "test" organized by her date.

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The 29-year-old shared her story with the Reddit community, recounting an experience that began with good conversation and common interests, only to turn into a manipulative and unsettling interaction.

Set up by a mutual friend, the woman and her date, a 31-year-old man, met at a café where they ordered coffee and pastries.

“The date actually started out really well,” she wrote. “We had a lot in common, great conversation, and honestly I was feeling pretty good about it.” However, when the $100 check arrived, things changed.