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Found out my partner of 3 yrs has a second phone​

Coping

Backstory: We’ve been living together for 2 yrs, been together for 3. We’re both in our mid 20’s. Our relationship is pretty healthy to my knowledge: we both go to the gym, eat healthy, have good paying jobs, great individual social lives, and have sex pretty frequently. I was halfway shocked to find out that he was cheating honestly. He’s very loving towards me, we share locations, are in constant communication, can’t think of a time where he’s gone somewhere and went ghost, he pays all the bills, we go on dates every week.

The only thing that made my spidey senses tingle was that we don’t have the same days off. I’m always off on the weekend and he’s off 2 days out of the week (isn’t always the weekend). I called out sick one day and he had work that day, he immediately calls out of work to “monitor” me. I didn’t think anything of it, just thought he wanted to spend time with me. We went sightseeing, shopping, and the zoo. But something was just so weird, why would he just call out of work to run behind me to see what I was doing? He did it again last week when I was off on the weekend, just monitoring me. Saying things like I switch my location to my iPad and then I go out (which I don’t).

Fast forward to Monday night, I get home from work and his second phone is just sitting on the counter. He forgot it. My god, it was like God answered a prayer in that moment. It was just right there. The phone had a passcode on it so I couldn’t get in it. I took the phone and put it in my purse. He got home, I asked him if he was missing anything. He immediately got sketched out and ran out the house (looking for the phone obviously). He calls me and says that if I found a black phone that that phone was for his friend. I said nice try, I Zelle’d you a dollar and the notification popped up on the phone. Him lying about the phone solidified that something bad was on the phone. He rushes home and comes clean. I assume it’s half truths but what he did admit to was: he had sex with some girl on her birthday 4-5 months ago, he had sex with a girl in the gym bathroom at our apt complex, he had sex with some girl in his empty condo that he’s in the process of renting out. He also was texting and calling me while he was hanging out with his ex on his off day 5 days ago.

I’m not hurt, I’m just shocked. I couldn’t imagine going to these lengths to cheat and honestly he sounds like a sex addict. It’s disturbing. I got a STD test, I’m clean. I’m in the process of moving things out. It’s just hilarious at how he’s taking the break up. He’s blocked on everything but he’s emailing me saying that he went and got an engagement ring for me, he’ll do anything, he’ll resort to tears, and when that doesn’t work he’ll accuse me of sleeping with other people. He cursed the girls out that he cheated on me with. It’s just a giant mess. Why do men cheat and then grasp for straws when they get left?

 

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Found out my partner of 3 yrs has a second phone​

Coping

Backstory: We’ve been living together for 2 yrs, been together for 3. We’re both in our mid 20’s. Our relationship is pretty healthy to my knowledge: we both go to the gym, eat healthy, have good paying jobs, great individual social lives, and have sex pretty frequently. I was halfway shocked to find out that he was cheating honestly. He’s very loving towards me, we share locations, are in constant communication, can’t think of a time where he’s gone somewhere and went ghost, he pays all the bills, we go on dates every week.

The only thing that made my spidey senses tingle was that we don’t have the same days off. I’m always off on the weekend and he’s off 2 days out of the week (isn’t always the weekend). I called out sick one day and he had work that day, he immediately calls out of work to “monitor” me. I didn’t think anything of it, just thought he wanted to spend time with me. We went sightseeing, shopping, and the zoo. But something was just so weird, why would he just call out of work to run behind me to see what I was doing? He did it again last week when I was off on the weekend, just monitoring me. Saying things like I switch my location to my iPad and then I go out (which I don’t).

Fast forward to Monday night, I get home from work and his second phone is just sitting on the counter. He forgot it. My god, it was like God answered a prayer in that moment. It was just right there. The phone had a passcode on it so I couldn’t get in it. I took the phone and put it in my purse. He got home, I asked him if he was missing anything. He immediately got sketched out and ran out the house (looking for the phone obviously). He calls me and says that if I found a black phone that that phone was for his friend. I said nice try, I Zelle’d you a dollar and the notification popped up on the phone. Him lying about the phone solidified that something bad was on the phone. He rushes home and comes clean. I assume it’s half truths but what he did admit to was: he had sex with some girl on her birthday 4-5 months ago, he had sex with a girl in the gym bathroom at our apt complex, he had sex with some girl in his empty condo that he’s in the process of renting out. He also was texting and calling me while he was hanging out with his ex on his off day 5 days ago.

I’m not hurt, I’m just shocked. I couldn’t imagine going to these lengths to cheat and honestly he sounds like a sex addict. It’s disturbing. I got a STD test, I’m clean. I’m in the process of moving things out. It’s just hilarious at how he’s taking the break up. He’s blocked on everything but he’s emailing me saying that he went and got an engagement ring for me, he’ll do anything, he’ll resort to tears, and when that doesn’t work he’ll accuse me of sleeping with other people. He cursed the girls out that he cheated on me with. It’s just a giant mess. Why do men cheat and then grasp for straws when they get left?

Alot ppl has more than 1 number. 1 personal 1 work 1 another work.

 

[syed putra]

If she like the guy, she can accept him having sex elsewhere.

 

[A Singaporean]

Man is a teapot and woman a tea cup. One tea pot can fill many tea cup.

 

[VanDick]

Even married couples fuck around with other pussies/dicks. This bitch should look to Grayce Tan as her role model.

 

[tobelightlight]

If this guy live a women-free life, he can have as many phones as he wants. No one can suspect him this and that.

 

[syed putra]

If this guy live a women-free life, he can have as many phones as he wants. No one can suspect him this and that.

I gather the guy is a obsessive collector. He collects phones, women....

 

[404]

He performed David Copperfield's stunt for 3 years

 

[tobelightlight]

I gather the guy is a obsessive collector. He collects phones, women....

I have an important question.

If this guy fucks around pussies, then i wonder if he is vaccinated. If so, His vaccinated fluid will contaminate a lot of pussies, then the contaminated pussies will be , in the name of romantic love, passed around other dicks. Then many dicks and pussies will be contaminated with mRNA crap from their body.

Isn't that the whole population will be contaminated like this?

 

[WangChuk]

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Found out my partner of 3 yrs has a second phone​

Coping

Backstory: We’ve been living together for 2 yrs, been together for 3. We’re both in our mid 20’s. Our relationship is pretty healthy to my knowledge: we both go to the gym, eat healthy, have good paying jobs, great individual social lives, and have sex pretty frequently. I was halfway shocked to find out that he was cheating honestly. He’s very loving towards me, we share locations, are in constant communication, can’t think of a time where he’s gone somewhere and went ghost, he pays all the bills, we go on dates every week.

The only thing that made my spidey senses tingle was that we don’t have the same days off. I’m always off on the weekend and he’s off 2 days out of the week (isn’t always the weekend). I called out sick one day and he had work that day, he immediately calls out of work to “monitor” me. I didn’t think anything of it, just thought he wanted to spend time with me. We went sightseeing, shopping, and the zoo. But something was just so weird, why would he just call out of work to run behind me to see what I was doing? He did it again last week when I was off on the weekend, just monitoring me. Saying things like I switch my location to my iPad and then I go out (which I don’t).

Fast forward to Monday night, I get home from work and his second phone is just sitting on the counter. He forgot it. My god, it was like God answered a prayer in that moment. It was just right there. The phone had a passcode on it so I couldn’t get in it. I took the phone and put it in my purse. He got home, I asked him if he was missing anything. He immediately got sketched out and ran out the house (looking for the phone obviously). He calls me and says that if I found a black phone that that phone was for his friend. I said nice try, I Zelle’d you a dollar and the notification popped up on the phone. Him lying about the phone solidified that something bad was on the phone. He rushes home and comes clean. I assume it’s half truths but what he did admit to was: he had sex with some girl on her birthday 4-5 months ago, he had sex with a girl in the gym bathroom at our apt complex, he had sex with some girl in his empty condo that he’s in the process of renting out. He also was texting and calling me while he was hanging out with his ex on his off day 5 days ago.

I’m not hurt, I’m just shocked. I couldn’t imagine going to these lengths to cheat and honestly he sounds like a sex addict. It’s disturbing. I got a STD test, I’m clean. I’m in the process of moving things out. It’s just hilarious at how he’s taking the break up. He’s blocked on everything but he’s emailing me saying that he went and got an engagement ring for me, he’ll do anything, he’ll resort to tears, and when that doesn’t work he’ll accuse me of sleeping with other people. He cursed the girls out that he cheated on me with. It’s just a giant mess. Why do men cheat and then grasp for straws when they get left?

lucky tested clean clean no STD no AIDS .... better stop being free sex buddy for him to piak and dump ... have the decency to find a local loving man to marry and start family .... dont go for those Angmoh Pai go gym go pub go high class orgies type of elites talents .... down to earth and genuine local sinkie man then no treat her as free piak whores. can find moi if she no target ....

 

[syed putra]

I have an important question.

If this guy fucks around pussies, then i wonder if he is vaccinated. If so, His vaccinated fluid will contaminate a lot of pussies, then the contaminated pussies will be , in the name of romantic love, passed around other dicks. Then many dicks and pussies will be contaminated with mRNA crap from their body.

Isn't that the whole population will be contaminated like this?

Africa mostly unvaccinated. Maybe can seek solace there. In sinkie, forget it as we were one of the first to get pfizer. Jiu hu and thailand were on astrazeneca.

 

[syed putra]

lucky tested clean clean no STD no AIDS .... better stop being free sex buddy for him to piak and dump ... have the decency to find a local loving man to marry and start family .... dont go for those Angmoh Pai go gym go pub go high class orgies type of elites talents .... down to earth and genuine local sinkie man then no treat her as free piak whores. can find moi if she no target ....

This type of local men very boring. Girls want the crazy sex maniac types.

 

[potato29]

If she like the guy, she can accept him having sex elsewhere.

family love each other but they do not share toothbrush.