Ok I kope this from one of the comments that makes sense from Reddit by Sill_Dill.
Why do you have to mask the truth? Fat means fat. Plus size just to avoid the truth?
'Dating app experiences for fat women'
Most of my friends don't want fat women unless they have a very good personality which is rare. Fat women are usually obnoxious at the same time. Because it takes some irresponsible behaviour to become fat. And being irresponsible mean there is a lack of accountability on your behaviour which is driven by bad personality. Fat women with good personality still attracts and there are some men with this kinky predilections, liking fat women because of certain physical aspects that stimulate their erotic imagination. But those with poor attitudes will face difficulties getting a man properly and soon they lurk in apps to better their chances.
I have went out with a fat Singaporean girl from a dating app who treated the waitress of PRC origin as someone of lower status. When I fetched her, That fat girl also kept shouting out to her colleagues with loud "bye-bye" and made sure everyone in their group noticed her so that everyone in her group sees her enter my Audi. That made me very uncomfortable. And when I sent her back, her husband confronted me thinking I was the 3rd party, that completely shocked me So not only was she poorly behaved, she was also unfaithful.
Another fat woman whom my friend in the car club met from some dating app (What's a girl with no car hanging around a car forum for?) shouted at someone else's domestic helper for being disgusting. Apparently that domestic helper was having a meal with her employer occupying a seat in the crowded cafe and the fat girl said that the maid should vacate her seat for her. I still recall that condescending tone that embarrassed all of us in the group "Hello.... Can your maid get out of not? This is a restaurant not her dormitory."
Another fat girl who turned up with some guy he met on some dating app for our B-roads drive in Mersing kept commenting about a singer at the stage in some community event in Malaysia when we stopped at one of the member's hometown before he became Singaporean. She said that singer is so skinny like a stick insect and so ugly (that singer I remember was slim and not ugly) but the fat girl kept repeating her verbal insults.
So if you see a fat girl in apps and especially those who hide that fact by strategically taking photos, repackage 'fat' as something else, delete and block.
The comment from Sill Dill is ONLY his personal view, perspectives and experiences WHICH IS only simplistic and in general...
The insignificant nobody me had the privilege and honor to meet with women not just in Singapore but during my travels overseas. Ultimately, Humans male or female do shares the same values that all Humankind holds dear - progress, shared prosperity, justice, equality, and more...white or black, young or old, fat or thin, etc.
As for his perceptions that plus sized women are irresponsible and have a lack of accountability, that's TOTAL BS. Humans are all the same, and do have genuine reasons why their sizes bulged, and often it is due to emotional stresses.
For example, each emotional Human relies on a comfort zone, a shell, to hide in when they feel unwanted, distressed, sad, etc...and such comfort zones can come in many shapes and sizes,,,and some may just simply turn to the safest zone - food, even if unhealthy, as it harms no one else, except themselves when taken in excess......
Also, may males bear in mind, fat can be become slim or at the least be healthy. It just takes discipline and support from loved ones.....
Also, may males REALIZES that women. white or black, fat or thin, beautiful or cute, etc, etc, experience PMS every month. Some women have it easy, but some women suffers from wild mood swings during those few days.....Thus males MUST make room for them, and ASSIST them, have patience and gently help them get over it....PMS is only a natural occurrence, a necessary biological act to enhance childbirth, which only women can perform and not men....
Beauty and good looks will eventually FADE OVER TIME. It is love that holds one together, to see beyond the physical to build the journey of life together thru better and open communications DAILY, the very building blocks of Civilization which our ancestors and forefathers had done and gave us our todays...otherwise, you and I would not had existed at all.....
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