Imagine if you go stead with her then ultimately marry her, then got to endure her mother's ultra nonsensical character till she dies....
Not a deal right? No matter how chio the girl is also is a deal breaker right?
Because you cannot tell the girl to disown her own mother. Neither can you stand long term tolerating her mother's nonsense.
Further, her mother's genes might have passed down to her and in the future, when she grows older, she will become 2.0 version of the monster...
Correct?
Not really, daughter's overall genes whether physical or temperament always have stronger paternal heritability, unless the daughter is being raised mostly by mother, then will tio psycho by her. Else in a normal family with equal engagement, daughter always follow father.
Marrying a woman with rubbish parents is much easier to deal with than a woman marrying a guy with bad parents.
Once a woman is married, it's as good as married off to the guy's family - 俗话说的好，嫁出去的女儿就像泼出去的水 .
So you will need to first carefully access whether the girl's temperament is already influenced heavily by her mom or not. Even so I doubt there are long term effects as she can will be nurtured by you in the future. If her temperament is very different, then of course good news.
Next, except parental maintenance obligations, there is no obligations under the law to maintain contact with her mom after marriage. Hence you can literally marry her off from her mom without needing her ranjiao mom's consent legally. In fact, if her siao lang mom intend to harass her daughter or you, whether verbally or thru emails/phone calls/messages etc., you can even get a POHA restraining order LOL.
All these is provided this girl is really worth all your efforts and she is agreeable to your decision and intention to do so, that is to cut off all ties or minimal contact with her mom. This is the crucial part.
If she hate her mom as much as you and the girl is worth it, then good news.
Else if the girl is highly protective or very close to her mom and intends to let her mom get deep into your life after marriage, then hong kanz already, move on and find a better girl, there are tons of better ladies elsewhere all waiting for you. It's foolish and pointless to cling on to one tree and lose the whole forest LOL.
Brutal truth in life is, as I've
mentioned before, your gf/wife is your greatest enemy as happy lovey dovey moments are always temporal and changing.
Hence you must totally dominate her mentally, physically and emotionally else you will be farked to become miserable for life.
This is actually man's instinctive mission in life - to dominate women. This principle has been around for ages since King Wen of Zhou dynasty in 1152 farking BC who invented the 64 hexagrams (六十四卦) which lay the foundation for I Ching (
易經) which mentioned Yang must always ride over Yin else there will be imbalance of power and harmony. The only exception is when you allow her to ride on top of you in bed LOL.
Yang 阳 (men) is light while Yin 阴 (women) is darkness, cunningness and evil. This is why male's organ in Chinese is called 阳器 while the female vagina is not called 阴道 for nothing.
Means wat? Means when you meddle with a pussy, you are meddling with the Dark Side LOL which explains why 女人是祸水.
Hence you must farking control this evil else sure GG. Women knew they are dark and evil by nature (due to farking female hormones) but thoroughly enjoys pwning men as simps to make them feel shiok. But once they meet a real men who is able to tame and dominate them, they jitao become wet, docile and submissive like a pussy cat. This is the way.
Ironically, once a women sense that you cannot tame nor dominate them, you'll start to lose their respect and they will treat you like a loser giving you more misery. So such men only have themselves to blame LOL. Always remember that many times esp. during dating the moment a woman opens her farking mouth, she speaks from emotions to test and gauge your response like whether you are man enough to answer properly like a real man or a guniang and has nothing to do with rationality. This is how farking dark a woman is.
Too bad these instincts get eroded once guys get into the working world to start dating then get farked by women time and again to slowly lose their power. Time to wake up.
It's either you take the lead or be lead by her like a pathetic simp. No such thing as what ranjiao treating each other as 'equal' etc. LOL.
There is simply no other way.
