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Kicked out of home with only $3,000 to her name: 20-year-old unwed mum on the 'worst stage' of her life​

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SINGAPORE - When Sophie, 20, found out she was pregnant last year, her parents issued her an ultimatum: Get an abortion or get married.

She chose to tie the knot.

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But Sophie (not her real name) and her chef boyfriend, who is five years older, broke up before their wedding after a big fight.

She said her boyfriend had been happy when he found out she was pregnant but his parents did not want them to get married.

Both sets of parents felt the couple were too young to be parents. Their relationship, Sophie said, crumbled under all that stress.

She also could not bear to get an abortion, which was what her parents wanted her to do after her relationship ended. It was a tough time for Sophie, who was studying and working part-time as a waitress at the time.

She said: "Abortion is the easiest thing and there is no baggage in that sense. But it didn't feel right. I didn't feel like the baby deserved to die."

Eventually, her parents, who are both professionals, kicked her out of their house. Sophie was three months pregnant with only about $3,000 to her name.

"I felt this sense of abandonment at my worst stage in life, when my parents kicked me out. I didn't keep my child to lose my family," she said.

Sophie turned to Babes, a teenage pregnancy crisis service, which referred her to Safe Place.

An initiative of Lakeside Family Services, Safe Place offers pregnant women in distress a temporary place to stay, counselling and other forms of support. It provided Sophie with shelter for over three months for free.

Sophie said: "The biggest help has been from Safe Place. My social worker has been there for me from Day 1 until now."

She also received $480 a month from the Government's ComCare financial assistance scheme for about six months.



Woman had 3 abortions since she was undergrad
Woman had 3 abortions since she was undergrad



Her parents eventually asked her to return home before she gave birth.

While they are not supporting her financially, they are now "less aloof" to her and her baby, said Sophie, whose son is now six-months-old.

Safe Place gives her free baby supplies, such as milk powder and diapers, which she said is a great financial help.

Sophie, who has a diploma, is now looking for a job in the food and beverage sector that offers her office hours, as infant care centres usually operate from 7am to 7pm.

She said she feels her chances of getting a job are lower when she tells potential employers she is a single mother.

Her financial worries aside, the sense of loneliness can also be hard to bear. She is no longer in touch with the baby's father.

As an unwed mother, she said she is also afraid her son would be mocked when he goes to school, but hopes society could be more understanding of unwed mothers and not point fingers.

She said: "Despite all the struggles and hardship, I feel very happy that my baby is here. I have no regrets."
 

LexLuthor

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Now she keeps talking about the baby, using protecting the baby as a pretext to shift blame to everybody and vilify the parents.

If you indulge in pre-marital sex, don't expect your parents to pick up the bill. Your parents did not experience the orgasms that you enjoyed.
 

syed putra

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20 years old is a good time to give birth.
By 40, children all grown up and can take care of themselves. And woman can take a solo hitch hiking trip to europe.
 

tobelightlight

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This is what happen when you deal with women. i am not against marriage, giving birth or having relationship. But man, there are so much things to ensure and deal with for having a woman in your life. Soooo much work and hassle.
 

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Kicked out of home with only $3,000 to her name: 20-year-old unwed mum on the 'worst stage' of her life​


The title should be renamed:

Indulged in pre-marital sex : Fuck buddy boyfriend refused to marry her after impregnating her.
 
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blackmondy

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Nope.
But getting married and hav8ng babies early is not a tragedy.
Yeah sure. No wonder you see many young minahs with many kids but no money to feed them and have to seek help all the time.
Moral of story : If you have low IQ, don't fucking breed. Especially when your god says no condom allowed.
 

ChristJohnny

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If it happen to MAT ... it is good news.

Imagine if gives birth to a daughter ... so potentially he will have a choice to fuck his daughter, wife, mother and sister.

No wonder all MAT likes to marry ... now I know.

Race and IQ
 

tobelightlight

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Eventually, her parents, who are both professionals, kicked her out of their house. Sophie was three months pregnant with only about $3,000 to her name.
May i ask what is the rationale of kicking their daughter out of the house, just because she is pregnant.? I totally do not understand it at all.
 

syed putra

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Yeah sure. No wonder you see many young minahs with many kids but no money to feed them and have to seek help all the time.
Moral of story : If you have low IQ, don't fucking breed. Especially when your god says no condom allowed.
The mslays will find it difficult to find jobs in sinkie, married or not married. Thank god there is grab.
 

blackmondy

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If it happen to MAT ... it is good news.

Imagine if gives birth to a daughter ... so potentially he will have a choice to fuck his daughter, wife, mother and sister.

No wonder all MAT likes to marry ... now I know.

Race and IQ
I'm sure there's lots of in-breeding among mutts but our useless gahmen has to cover up in the name of racial harmony.
 

tobelightlight

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Her parents eventually asked her to return home before she gave birth.

While they are not supporting her financially, they are now "less aloof" to her and her baby, said Sophie, whose son is now six-months-old.
What kind of fucked up parents she has. I suggest she moved out and forget about her parents after she has secured financial independence or at least a place of her own.
 

syed putra

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If it happen to MAT ... it is good news.

Imagine if gives birth to a daughter ... so potentially he will have a choice to fuck his daughter, wife, mother and sister.

No wonder all MAT likes to marry ... now I know.

Race and IQ
I'm sure there's lots of in-breeding among mutts but our useless gahmen has to cover up in the name of racial harmony.


Incest occurs in non malay families too. But chinese prefer to keep it quiet as indicated here.

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