Single Mother

[nightsafari]

Don't disagree with your retort. Been meaning to similarly express in same vein (but for me lazy bones).
TS piece is so biased against single moms who already have emotional baggage (regardless the reason).

Crux of the matter is, non-single mom women can/do manipulate guys.

good life can afford to be lazy!

 

[Thick Face Black Heart]

exactly. Single mothers in a sense have the toughest jobs in the world. They already deserve our support and definitely not our judgment. Not to say that all are angels, but don't be so quick to judge based on a few bits of data.

I wish your friend all the best with raising her child.

Absolutely agree

 

[tanwahtiu]

Lady, wise up life is more fun to go round hv sex with many men, after yr first failed marriage.

Try sex on demand where he/she agreed to hv an inclusive fun having sex with mutual consent.

Look at animals having sex, female animals initiate sex on demand to procreate.

But human hv created sex for health reason rather than for procreation.

Go have sex with men will make u a better mothership. A happy sexlife help u make a better womenship.

First, I don't sleep around. I wouldn't say your lifestyle is wrong because it's your way of living your own life and I have no right to intervene. But I also hope you ask yourself a simple question. Do you steal bananas from NTUC? I am sure you don't. But why do you sleep with married men as you said in your posts? It's also theft and you find it ok?

Second, I do not pretend that I am strong. I am the weakest when I am alone, especially like now, after a busy working day and sending my daughter to bed after her dinner and homework. I do not share my weaknesses of being physically, mentally or emotionally drained to others, even to my closest real life friends. I don't want any sympathy. I don't require any. I know very clearly I have chosen a path that is challenging the day I fought and won custody. I am prepared to bring my daughter up as a good and considerate girl who will hopefully not walk the same challenging path as me. However, if she grows up and chooses a lifestyle like you, I rather she choose the same challenging path as me. A banana thief doesn't have good karma or ending. You may say I watch too many TV or movies, but at least I do have a conscience. Do you?

Third, I admit I had a failed marriage, but that doesn't mean I am looking for another man in my life. I participate here in this forum for the very reason that I can be anonymous. I do not need or want even my closest friends to know what I feel, how i feel, what I think or do. I hate to be the subject of their gossips in real life. I know even the closest friends of mine gossip about each other. We are all women. At least over here in this forum, no one knows who I am in real life and I can ask questions, learn from logical comments and somehow be myself. If I do give the impression that I am targeting anonymous men's sympathy here, I am sorry to all the anonymous people here.

Last but not least, though I am not as educated and successful like you, but I hope you heard this saying before. Sorry, it's again a poster from the internet.

Good night.

 

[tobelightlight]

"earnestly out to have a better life" comes after " some were just plain too horny and fell for a guy"..
It tells me that she earnestly out to have a better life because she fell for a guy. So isn't this her happiness and better life involves a guy??? This is what you wrote. So isn't that means her better life depend on her having a guy? If not , why have a baby with a guy in the first place.

There's nothing there. How can it be complicated if your issue is with the 1 line you quote?


it says single mother. How do you become a mother without involving a male at some point?? It means that it was an ACCIDENT not that she was out to be manipulative. You do know how women have become mothers right? Sometimes it is an accident. Ever heard of that before? Or are in your world are babies born to perfect schedules and perfect planning? I fail to see your logic of why her life depends on her having a guy. That's entirely your statement.

Are you someone with a sexist agenda? If so, go right ahead. I will address it accordingly, but please don't insist I'm talking about Winnie the Pooh everytime I mention a Panda.

The way you write is not understandable on your debate of it.

It didn't say single mother. I am talking on that statement she fell for the guy. At the time she fell for the guy, the woman is not a mother. That statement is assume at that moment, the woman is not a mother. She is still a single woman without children.

With that as a single woman at that moment, you add on the sentence "earnestly out to have a better life" isn't that mean that the woman at that moment being single ( not yet being a mother) out to have a better life by falling for the man.

This is what i see and understand when you write it this way.

 

[Claire]

First, I don't sleep around. I wouldn't say your lifestyle is wrong because it's your way of living your own life and I have no right to intervene. But I also hope you ask yourself a simple question. Do you steal bananas from NTUC? I am sure you don't. But why do you sleep with married men as you said in your posts? It's also theft and you find it ok?

Second, I do not pretend that I am strong. I am the weakest when I am alone, especially like now, after a busy working day and sending my daughter to bed after her dinner and homework. I do not share my weaknesses of being physically, mentally or emotionally drained to others, even to my closest real life friends. I don't want any sympathy. I don't require any. I know very clearly I have chosen a path that is challenging the day I fought and won custody. I am prepared to bring my daughter up as a good and considerate girl who will hopefully not walk the same challenging path as me. However, if she grows up and chooses a lifestyle like you, I rather she choose the same challenging path as me. A banana thief doesn't have good karma or ending. You may say I watch too many TV or movies, but at least I do have a conscience. Do you?

Third, I admit I had a failed marriage, but that doesn't mean I am looking for another man in my life. I participate here in this forum for the very reason that I can be anonymous. I do not need or want even my closest friends to know what I feel, how i feel, what I think or do. I hate to be the subject of their gossips in real life. I know even the closest friends of mine gossip about each other. We are all women. At least over here in this forum, no one knows who I am in real life and I can ask questions, learn from logical comments and somehow be myself. If I do give the impression that I am targeting anonymous men's sympathy here, I am sorry to all the anonymous people here.

Last but not least, though I am not as educated and successful like you, but I hope you heard this saying before. Sorry, it's again a poster from the internet.

Good night.

The pen of my tongue should be dipped in the ink of my heart? Are you prancing around with a "play victim card" for more sympathy?

Mamacita, it's indubitable truth you are suffering from neuroticism, akin to a cat on a hot thin roof, post my systematic exposition of your machiavellian manoeuvres.

Instead of discombobulating others over my lifestyle, you ought to be worried for your daughter.

Every Christmas eve, I am certain that the song "Mamacita, Donde esta Santa Clause?" would be accompanying her for the rest of her life. The fault lies squarely on you and your doltishness.

It's the weekend. I want to keep it as a short read for you. I don't desire to take you away from your precious time with your daughter.

Let me just say this.

You are a bitter character whom nobody wants to hang out with, let alone date. You talk about a "banana thief" and morality to make yourself feel better. Obviously, you aren't desirable. Stop hiding it.

Pretending to be a prude, when you are no longer a virgin is hilarious, albeit a good attempt. I am sorry. I try to have empathy for everyone, including the infamous virgin, who more often than not, overcompensates with drivel.

On the other hand, you aren't a virgin.

You are a Machiavellian Mamacita.

Have a supercalifragilisticexpialidocious weekend!

 

[JOKERCHEW]

Glockman is ahmeng...

If @glockman
is ahmeng,
then I vely worry.

 

[JOKERCHEW]

We have something else in common, besides having the same fridge and a failed marriage or two, or three. We both don't sleep around! Hey, you and I don't need to be anonymous with each other, we can always meet up for a drink or a meal. You are in safe hands, my intentions are honorable.

And it's ok, you can target me for sympathy anytime. Although you mentioned it is not your intention.

Steady lah.

Poon Pee Pee.

 

[nightsafari]

"earnestly out to have a better life" comes after " some were just plain too horny and fell for a guy"..
It tells me that she earnestly out to have a better life because she fell for a guy. So isn't this her happiness and better life involves a guy??? This is what you wrote. So isn't that means her better life depend on her having a guy? If not , why have a baby with a guy in the first place.


The way you write is not understandable on your debate of it.

It didn't say single mother. I am talking on that statement she fell for the guy. At the time she fell for the guy, the woman is not a mother. That statement is assume at that moment, the woman is not a mother. She is still a single woman without children.

With that as a single woman at that moment, you add on the sentence "earnestly out to have a better life" isn't that mean that the woman at that moment being single ( not yet being a mother) out to have a better life by falling for the man.

This is what i see and understand when you write it this way.

fine. I will happily clarify. The TS originally said single mother. Her entire post was about that. Not a single woman, but a single mother. My post is in reply to hers. Not out of the blue. If she wrote single woman, I would've replied differently.

To be clear : I think there are many reasons why a woman can end up being a single mother. The TS says that they are manipulators only. In my opinion for her to cover all single mothers in that way is unfair. So some people not out to become single mothers by choice. Maybe by accident or fate or whatever.

Put the TS original post and mine together should = These women were earnestly out to have a better life but then became a single mother. They weren't out to become single mothers just to manipulate plodders.

ok now? my post without the context of the original post would not make sense.

 

[nightsafari]

The pen of my tongue should be dipped in the ink of my heart? Are you prancing around with a "play victim card" for more sympathy?

Mamacita, it's indubitable truth you are suffering from neuroticism, akin to a cat on a hot thin roof, post my systematic exposition of your machiavellian manoeuvres.

Instead of discombobulating others over my lifestyle, you ought to be worried for your daughter.

Every Christmas eve, I am certain that the song "Mamacita, Donde esta Santa Clause?" would be accompanying her for the rest of her life. The fault lies squarely on you and your doltishness.

It's the weekend. I want to keep it as a short read for you. I don't desire to take you away from your precious time with your daughter.

Let me just say this.

You are a bitter character whom nobody wants to hang out with, let alone date. You talk about a "banana thief" and morality to make yourself feel better. Obviously, you aren't desirable. Stop hiding it.

Pretending to be a prude, when you are no longer a virgin is hilarious, albeit a good attempt. I am sorry. I try to have empathy for everyone, including the infamous virgin, who more often than not, overcompensates with drivel.

On the other hand, you aren't a virgin.

You are a Machiavellian Mamacita.

Have a supercalifragilisticexpialidocious weekend!

In her defense, I must say that SBF is logically the last place I would look to for sympathy...

Preponderance of evidence is against that being the reason for her posting here. But then again, I could stand to be corrected because there's at least 1 or 2 who took on the mantle...

 

[sweetiepie]

If @glockman
is ahmeng,
then I vely worry.

KNN currently my uncle very worry cloudy is Ahmeng KNN

 

[JOKERCHEW]

KNN currently my uncle very worry cloudy is Ahmeng KNN

Lidat, Claire also
ahmemg?

 

[glockman]

If @glockman
is ahmeng,
then I vely worry.

See, you have the sense to know! But alas, some opium-sucking dimwit does not. And will never.

 

[glockman]

Steady lah.

Poon Pee Pee.

Thank you. I try. And I try.

 

[glockman]

In her defense, I must say that SBF is logically the last place I would look to for sympathy...

Preponderance of evidence is against that being the reason for her posting here. But then again, I could stand to be corrected because there's at least 1 or 2 who took on the mantle...

Au contraire, I come here 24/7 for love, sympathy and to be understood.

 

[blackmondy]

The pen of my tongue should be dipped in the ink of my heart? Are you prancing around with a "play victim card" for more sympathy?
Mamacita, it's indubitable truth you are suffering from neuroticism, akin to a cat on a hot thin roof, post my systematic exposition of your machiavellian manoeuvres.
Instead of discombobulating others over my lifestyle, you ought to be worried for your daughter.
Every Christmas eve, I am certain that the song "Mamacita, Donde esta Santa Clause?" would be accompanying her for the rest of her life. The fault lies squarely on you and your doltishness.
It's the weekend. I want to keep it as a short read for you. I don't desire to take you away from your precious time with your daughter.
Let me just say this.
You are a bitter character whom nobody wants to hang out with, let alone date. You talk about a "banana thief" and morality to make yourself feel better. Obviously, you aren't desirable. Stop hiding it.
Pretending to be a prude, when you are no longer a virgin is hilarious, albeit a good attempt. I am sorry. I try to have empathy for everyone, including the infamous virgin, who more often than not, overcompensates with drivel.
On the other hand, you aren't a virgin.
You are a Machiavellian Mamacita.
Have a supercalifragilisticexpialidocious weekend!

Methink sister Claire is envious of the attention sister Cloudy is getting here as compared to her.....
Well perhaps that can remendied with a little less flowery exposition of her vocabulary.

 

[nightsafari]

Methink sister Claire is envious of the attention sister Cloudy is getting here as comapred to her.....
Well perhaps that can remendied with a little less flowery exposition of her vocabulary.

True, true. Or perhaps a rather less jaundiced and jaded approach to another's plight would serve her well.

sometimes ah... brain must also exercise a little otherwise rusty...

 

[nightsafari]

Au contraire, I come here 24/7 for love, sympathy and to be understood.

c'est vraiment? do you really get that here?

 

[nightsafari]

See, you have the sense to know! But alas, some opium-sucking dimwit does not. And will never.

in the defense of the opium smoking, once in a while I get some useful insight...

 

[blackmondy]

True, true. Or perhaps a rather less jaundiced and jaded approach to another's plight would serve her well.
sometimes ah... brain must also exercise a little otherwise rusty...

I have a hunch our infamous virgin will hop into the ring and join the death-match. The battle of five opened mouths and one sealed one will bring unprecedented entertainment in this no-holds-barred arena.

 

[glockman]

c'est vraiment? do you really get that here?

Yes for real. Sometimes I do get sympathy. Or at least that's what I reckon it is.