nothing wrong with the young ones / once, (which everyone were) in having dreams - but actualising them without advice, guidance and hindsight (which some did not have the fortunate circumstance of the parents perhaps) would certainly save them a lot of time, money, angst, disappointment etc. in this case, looking at these pubes with faces to match, can only be construed as a gross mismatch and not in tune with reality. the truth hurts :(