Honeytrap. Should I do it?

[Ash007]

Good morning Ash (or afternoon). You are quite smart in "extracting" my personal info. Well, it's only my birthday. i am fine. A year older though I don't feel that I am a year wiser :(

Thanks for your wishes.

Where are you heading? Going away for year end holidays? Do pamper your wife and kids. Nothing beats a happy family.

For me, I am off to Bangkok. I am off for the rest of the year.

We finally decided Bangkok to spend out first year end hols together as it is probably the nearest for a decent bonding for us. I think he book Sheraton Sukhumvit, though I would have preferred a boutique hotel, which has more warmth and character.

Anyway, you have a great day ahead

you off to Bangkok now ?

 

[Claire]

you off to Bangkok now ?

I am off to Bangkok on Monday, Ash. I presume the weather is as hot as Singapore.

Any recommendations for places to have a nice romantic dinner and drinks? I asked Sue and she suggested some place called State Tower at Lebua. HEaven knows where it is! Anyway, it is his domain to arrange transportation. Not me. Thank god.

 

[Claire]

Do you want the relationship to continue? Then ignore the matter. It is okay to have a nagging suspicion in your mind.

Over time, he will reveal more of his personality and character to you, and then you can make a more informed judgment whether he is a person who can be trusted - not just in relationships, but in all aspects of life. If he reveals a part of himself that you find untrustworthy or irresponsible, then it won't matter whether or not he cheated. You already know what you have to do.

On the other hand, if he proves himself trustworthy and responsible, then you know there is no need to honeypot him at all.

Trust has to be earned, but it takes time to earn it. Give it time first, and then decide.

Good morning Gotze. I really like the way you put your message across. The keywords for me after reading your post - Trust, Earned, Time.

Thank you

 

[Ash007]

I am off to Bangkok on Monday, Ash. I presume the weather is as hot as Singapore.

Any recommendations for places to have a nice romantic dinner and drinks? I asked Sue and she suggested some place called State Tower at Lebua. HEaven knows where it is! Anyway, it is his domain to arrange transportation. Not me. Thank god.

Nah, not really, koh samui, phucket might be more romantic then Bangkok.

 

[yinyang]

...weather is as hot as Singapore. Any recommendations for places to have a nice romantic dinner and drinks? ...some place called State Tower at Lebua.

It's called Sirroco, one of the choice sky view restaurants. Atas, and bad for his wallet.
Few others to consider, see below links:

http://www.bangkok.com/magazine/5-amazing-views-restaurants.htm
http://www.tripadvisor.com/Travel-g293916-c77405/Bangkok:Thailand:Dining.Out.With.A.View.html

Sheraton Suk is a business hotel, smack on the main Sukhumvit strip

Weather now shd be kinder in Bkk, with day temperatures circa 27-30, and night 20-22.

Have a good escapade

 

[Claire]

Nah, not really, koh samui, phucket might be more romantic then Bangkok.

Nah, not really, koh samui, phucket might be more romantic then Bangkok.

Hi Ash, I don't have much expectations. It's a last minute arrangement, so I shouldn't complain. After all, it's bonding, not the shopping (if any).

I often see the secretaries in the office chatter about Bangkok and Platinum mall. I have been once ~ while the clothing is cheap, the material they use leaves much to be desired.

 

[Claire]

It's called Sirroco, one of the choice sky view restaurants. Atas, and bad for his wallet.
Few others to consider, see below links:

http://www.bangkok.com/magazine/5-amazing-views-restaurants.htm
http://www.tripadvisor.com/Travel-g293916-c77405/Bangkok:Thailand:Dining.Out.With.A.View.html

Sheraton Suk is a business hotel, smack on the main Sukhumvit strip

Weather now shd be kinder in Bkk, with day temperatures circa 27-30, and night 20-22.

Have a good escapade

Morning Yin. Temperature sounds nice. At least it wouldn't be tough on my attire and face.

I didn't choose the accommodation. He did.

Thanks for the suggestions on dining. I will examine them and explore. Sue was also telling me that there is a beautifully decorated restaurant near some Emporium. I have not had the time to search.