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[AMA] I am a Singaporean Woman

Claire

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May I ask again, would YOU like to meet "Claire" in real life? :p
And because:
would you like to be the:
:wink:
***** :-) :-)

Takesahi, I may have the mettle and audacity to write in this male dominated forum, but I certainly do not have the zest nor interest to meet anyone online in a physical setting. As I have said before, I have a friend who got herself into a mess after meeting a guy online from overseas.

I am not sure whether I should be flattered, but I am an older individual compared to you folks who are born after Singapore's introduction of National Service.[/COLOR]
What is a S.N.A.G.?
Sensitive New Age Guy. :smile:

Charlie, age is no barrier to being a S.N.A.G. However, before you jump into any superfluous conclusion, I need to bring you down to earth.

I have a couple of guy friends who are equally S.N.A.G like you. While I like their sensitive nature, I do find them “wussy”. While I like a man who is in touch with his feelings, he will be more attractive to me emotionally if he is in control and that is probably the “security” that I am looking for.

More often than not, I find S.N.A.Gs overly-sensitive and most of those I have met end up in the friendship zone on my list.

Sorry for being vocal about this. Apologies if I have offended you. :o
 

Claire

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I still think it's quite unbelievable that you haven't got hitched, given provision that you can cook well, coupled with the assumption that couples would usually try to impress each other in various departments. Oh well, not all flowers bear fruit :biggrin::biggrin::biggrin:

Zhihau, I have said and will state unequivocally again that I cook well. I am proud about this as I do know that most Singaporean women are really second-rate in their cooking skills due to changes in our society and the so-called sacrifices for materialism and economic progress.

I have thought of putting up some pictures of my culinary dishes but I do fear privacy issues when my pictures are uploaded into this forum.

On your analogy that “not all flowers bear fruit”, I hope that you are not unduly sarcastic about women. Just like a tree - pollination, soil environment and sunlight are all critical. If just any one of these conditions is adverse, the tree will not bear fruit. I hope you understand my counter analogy. :smile:

No, no, no, no... I'm just an ordinary Sinkie sheep :biggrin::biggrin::biggrin:

Your statement reminds me of George Orwell’s Animal Farm. If I may, I “cut and paste” from the internet –

“But just at that moment, as though at a signal, all the sheep burst out into a tremendous bleating of- "Four legs good, two legs better! Four legs good, two legs better! Four legs good, two legs better!" It went on for five minutes without stopping. And by the time the sheep had quieted down, the chance to utter any protest had passed, for the pigs had marched back into the farmhouse.

Baa Baa Meh Meh… :smile: I have nothing against sheeps or “boys from next door”. I find them down to earth, though sensibly rather unromantic and lack depth in social skills.

Perhaps I have been too vocal about this issue while I am having a subway sandwich, avoiding outdoors as the haze looks bad from my office window, but as a woman, my heart usually reacts faster than my brains :smile:
 

takashi

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Takesahi, I may have the mettle and audacity to write in this male dominated forum, but I certainly do not have the zest nor interest to meet anyone online in a physical setting. As I have said before, I have a friend who got herself into a mess after meeting a guy online from overseas.
If that's true, then you are a WISE woman!
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he will be more attractive to me emotionally if he is in control and that is probably the “security” that I am looking for.
The REALITY is that those kind of men will be willing to be "in control" of their women ONLY IF their women are also willing to be CONTROLLED. :wink:
Which usually means that such men would expect their women to be full-time housewives, like in Japan or Muslim countries. :wink:
 

Claire

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If that's true, then you are a WISE woman!
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The REALITY is that those kind of men will be willing to be "in control" of their women ONLY IF their women are also willing to be CONTROLLED. :wink:
Which usually means that such men would expect their women to be full-time housewives, like in Japan or Muslim countries. :wink:

Takashi, I do not think I am wise. I thank you for the compliment :smile:

I must unequivocally admit that I may not understand Singapore men and their mindset.

I often tell myself - When I talk to a man in a language he understands, that more than often just go to his head.
If I talk to him in his language, that always seems to go to his heart. :smile:

On your other point about men expecting their women to be full-time housewives, I seriously beg to differ. Perhaps I have not met a proper spectrum of men with differing education backgrounds and upbringing.

Or maybe the men that I have met are usually successful in their career and probably in the higher quadrant in Maslow's hierarchy of needs.

I have also to date refrain from using the derogatory term “Sinkie Men”, but suffice to say, I do not blame them from how they think about Singaporean women – indeed, some of these women rightly deserve to be rebuked, but that goes equally the same for these Sinkie Men.

No offence, just speaking aloud while chewing my Subway Melt sandwich :smile:
 

tonychat

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Takashi, I do not think I am wise. I thank you for the compliment :smile:

I must unequivocally admit that I may not understand Singapore men and their mindset.

I often tell myself - When I talk to a man in a language he understands, that more than often just go to his head.
If I talk to him in his language, that always seems to go to his heart. :smile:

On your other point about men expecting their women to be full-time housewives, I seriously beg to differ. Perhaps I have not met a proper spectrum of men with differing education backgrounds and upbringing.

Or maybe the men that I have met are usually successful in their career and probably in the higher quadrant in Maslow's hierarchy of needs.

I have also to date refrain from using the derogatory term “Sinkie Men”, but suffice to say, I do not blame them from how they think about Singaporean women – indeed, some of these women rightly deserve to be rebuked, but that goes equally the same for these Sinkie Men.

No offence, just speaking aloud while chewing my Subway Melt sandwich :smile:

i guess you do not appeal to men sexually and that is the point..

Men only choose woman who appeal to them sexually.. look at those losers who lust over the going to be jailbird Serina..

Most in the shelf women are either having lousy character or no sex appeal to men or both.

No need to say so much.

in another words, when a men see the woman and she can make his cock stand whenever he sees her, then she will be gone after by the men.

Guys are visual and attune to the sex appeal of the women.. not how intelligent she is or how much money she makes and all the rubbish.
 

eatshitndie

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When I started, newbies commenced with 10 points. I was one of your pioneer generation.

but he gave you 100 additional points for volunteering to be a pap sycophant, albeit short-lived. and where the heck have you been when we most need you to fend off deranged oppos? :wink: :p
 

bigboss

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...... in another words, when a men see the woman and she can make his cock stand whenever he sees her, then she will be gone after by the men...

So, if what you wrote makes sense, then all the men who loitered around Geylang must have been walking around with standing cock....:wink:

Everyone knows the hookers in Geylang, whether tiong or vietcong meimeis are sexily dressed with their boobs almost pooping out of their chest.

Sexiness alone does not turn a man on. Try it on LKY and see what you get.
 

bigboss

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Men only choose woman who appeal to them sexually.. look at those losers who lust over the going to be jailbird Serina..

Those who considered Serina a beauty have not seen the real beauty from Taiwan and China, those innocent and ordinary ones who lead ordinary lives.
 

GramStroker

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well, first, a bit of myself since i am new here as a posting member.

I am claire xxxx (kept confidential for privacy reasons). I am born in singapore, studied here and graduated from a local university. I am in my 30s and from an above middle income family. My father is a professional (retired now) and my mum has been a housewife all these years.

My own annual income is fairly decent, about 150k to 200k per annum (depending on how much bonus is declared by the employer). I am not married and stay with my parents in a landed home in serangoon gardens.

Singapore women has been a viral topic in social media the last few weeks. I have been reading hwz-edmw and this forum as well, from mgtow to wgtow and lots of accusations about singapore women being gcps or even dcps.

Well, here i am - a rcp. Forgive me for the hwz-edmw terminology, but hwz-edmw is the forum in singapore at the moment and hence these often used terminology.

Viewing from the “side lines” for a couple of months, i believe it is time for me to register myself here and contribute my humble views to this highly male-only dominated forum - for i know, i will be outnumbered, flamed and perhaps get myself banned by the highly “jingoistic” owner of this forum and his equally egoistical and chauvinistic male moderators.

At this juncture, i would also like to express my displeasure at these egoistical male chauvinistic mods (i assume they are male, given the way they write) for putting me in moderation queue for an uncanny and an unusually longer time than what i observe for other new members.

Nonetheless, i believe i have the tenacity to take all kinds of gender discrimination, verbal abuses or even any online sexual harassment.

Well, a little more about myself. I am a chinese, a professional and would rate myself as fairly appealing and have a fair skin tone. I am pretty independent, unattached at the moment and likes travelling with my friends (male and female).

I am neither a female chauvinist nor do i believe that women are inferior to men as we are all made differently.

Ask me anything you wish and i will answer you to the best of my knowledge and ability.

If i do not answer you, it could mean that i am utterly bemused by your question(s) or that your question(s) is/are totally out of order, incongruous for me to even reply.

:smile:

npnt........
 

Claire

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Tony, first, I like your candour and forthrightness (instead of many men that I have met who beat around the bush hoping that I will understand and accurately second-guess their hidden agenda).

I shall respond to your contentions point by point.

i guess you do not appeal to men sexually and that is the point..

You have not seen me in real person. I am astonished that you have jumped straight to this conclusion just by reading my posts. Well, it is your own conclusion so I can’t say much unless I post a photo of myself which I wouldn’t as I have no desire to be “famous” or “infamous”. I am sure you will not post a picture of yourself likewise. :smile:

Men only choose woman who appeal to them sexually.. look at those losers who lust over the going to be jailbird Serina..

I do not think there is anything absolutely wrong with men being inclined towards sex appeal. It is what it is and I call a spade a spade. Those who “lust” over Serina are just being men, nothing more, nothing less and I seriously would not call them “losers” as they are just exhibiting their natural inclinations.

Most in the shelf women are either having lousy character or no sex appeal to men or both.

True to a certain limited extent. I have known a few of my girlfriends who are like that. But nonetheless, your sweeping contention applies equally to men who have been “left on the shelves”. :smile:

No need to say so much.

in another words, when a men see the woman and she can make his cock stand whenever he sees her, then she will be gone after by the men.
Guys are visual and attune to the sex appeal of the women.. not how intelligent she is or how much money she makes and all the rubbish.

You mean “in other words” …'In another words' does not make sense. 'Words' is plural and 'another' is singular. Anyway, I get what you meant and that is more important than language.

Well, if I exudes extreme sex appeal and I have no brains I must be one very boring woman.

I can fully appreciate that men like eye candy and live by their animalistic nature, but I know many men who prefer someone they can talk with and be engaged with, beyond physically.

A woman who is nothing but looks and no brains is like a bicycle that looks great but doesn't work or works horribly. Isn’t it? :smile:

From my point of view, sex appeal is definitely more than just physical traits.

It goes way beyond how I look and into how I think, act and behave, and the respect I give to my man (if I am attached or married).

The human brain is the most important sexual part of the body and many men let their animalistic side take over and mostly think with the wrong organ.

For me, personally, as a member of the fairer gender, I am more attracted to men for how they think and what they do - rather than how they look because it is his mind, his actions and behaviour that attract and lure me to absolutely surrender myself and be his woman. :smile:
 

lifeafter41

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Tony, first, I like your candour and forthrightness (instead of many men that I have met who beat around the bush hoping that I will understand and accurately second-guess their hidden agenda).

I shall respond to your contentions point by point.



You have not seen me in real person. I am astonished that you have jumped straight to this conclusion just by reading my posts. Well, it is your own conclusion so I can’t say much unless I post a photo of myself which I wouldn’t as I have no desire to be “famous” or “infamous”. I am sure you will not post a picture of yourself likewise. :smile:



I do not think there is anything absolutely wrong with men being inclined towards sex appeal. It is what it is and I call a spade a spade. Those who “lust” over Serina are just being men, nothing more, nothing less and I seriously would not call them “losers” as they are just exhibiting their natural inclinations.



True to a certain limited extent. I have known a few of my girlfriends who are like that. But nonetheless, your sweeping contention applies equally to men who have been “left on the shelves”. :smile:





You mean “in other words” …'In another words' does not make sense. 'Words' is plural and 'another' is singular. Anyway, I get what you meant and that is more important than language.

Well, if I exudes extreme sex appeal and I have no brains I must be one very boring woman.

I can fully appreciate that men like eye candy and live by their animalistic nature, but I know many men who prefer someone they can talk with and be engaged with, beyond physically.

A woman who is nothing but looks and no brains is like a bicycle that looks great but doesn't work or works horribly. Isn’t it? :smile:

From my point of view, sex appeal is definitely more than just physical traits.

It goes way beyond how I look and into how I think, act and behave, and the respect I give to my man (if I am attached or married).

The human brain is the most important sexual part of the body and many men let their animalistic side take over and mostly think with the wrong organ.

For me, personally, as a member of the fairer gender, I am more attracted to men for how they think and what they do - rather than how they look because it is his mind, his actions and behaviour that attract and lure me to absolutely surrender myself and be his woman. :smile:


I will be surprised if this thread is able to carry on after this reply........
 

AhMeng

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Hello Claire, my name is Ah Meng. I am handsome and intelligent. I like woman like you who are confident about yourself.

Since you say AMA, let me ask you a few questions?

1. Do you Masturbate?
2. If you do, what instrument you use?
3. How big are your breasts?
4. Do you do blowjob and allow your man to CIM?
5. Do you moan loudly when making love?



:biggrin::biggrin::biggrin:
 

Reddog

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HAH !! Our CSI team finally concluded their work on this "Claire".

"Claire" is actually Roland Teo. Aka Kumari Sek of HWZ. Moreover, "Claire" is gay and participated in lgbt marches in 2014/15. Place of business: Bugis entertainment district (Queens Street, Singapore). aka Pondan.
 
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