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Marriage life quite good. Just stumbled upon this old movie and it brought back memories.
Wife knows about my past exploits in my JC (much younger days) up to my early career days, when I was probably 25kgs lighter and with a 6 pack.
Frankly, I was the quintessential 男人怀，女人爱 before I met her. I was the guy that could impress one girlfriend's parents over lunch, and be spending the rest of the night out with another at a more than decent hotel at Marina Bay.
Not to go into details, but suffice to say, I have never had to purchase the services of a professional for sexual gratification.
Wine, dine and romance yes, but that was all part of the thrill of the hunt.
So when I really fell in love (with my wife), and started trying to date her, many people warned her of the trail of OLs (temps, interns etc) I had left in my wake. Some of my JC/secondary school mates even avoided going out with us on double dates initially because they just couldn't invest themselves emotionally again and again on a girl, knowing that she might be cast off after a while.
So when true love struck, she was the one and only girl that I had to work at the hardest to convince her that my intentions were true and honorable.
I then made it a point one day to sit her down and admit to her and to our marriage counselor (her church pastor), 2 years into our (my first monogamous) relationship a full year before our ROM of my transgressions and asked for her understanding and forgiveness.
There was no melodrama or tarik harga like in those Korean dramas, but rather, she shed a tear of joy knowing that I was a changed man by then. The pastor gave us his blessings after that.
And with this once in a lifetime chance of falling in love with her and marrying whom I knew to be "the one", my wife, over the years has been instrumental in making changes in my life and made me a better man.
The story above might sound a bit cliche, but bro, I promise you, it is true.
I hope or wish that you have found someone as wonderful too.
Wife knows about my past exploits in my JC (much younger days) up to my early career days, when I was probably 25kgs lighter and with a 6 pack.
Frankly, I was the quintessential 男人怀，女人爱 before I met her. I was the guy that could impress one girlfriend's parents over lunch, and be spending the rest of the night out with another at a more than decent hotel at Marina Bay.
Not to go into details, but suffice to say, I have never had to purchase the services of a professional for sexual gratification.
Wine, dine and romance yes, but that was all part of the thrill of the hunt.
So when I really fell in love (with my wife), and started trying to date her, many people warned her of the trail of OLs (temps, interns etc) I had left in my wake. Some of my JC/secondary school mates even avoided going out with us on double dates initially because they just couldn't invest themselves emotionally again and again on a girl, knowing that she might be cast off after a while.
So when true love struck, she was the one and only girl that I had to work at the hardest to convince her that my intentions were true and honorable.
I then made it a point one day to sit her down and admit to her and to our marriage counselor (her church pastor), 2 years into our (my first monogamous) relationship a full year before our ROM of my transgressions and asked for her understanding and forgiveness.
There was no melodrama or tarik harga like in those Korean dramas, but rather, she shed a tear of joy knowing that I was a changed man by then. The pastor gave us his blessings after that.
And with this once in a lifetime chance of falling in love with her and marrying whom I knew to be "the one", my wife, over the years has been instrumental in making changes in my life and made me a better man.
The story above might sound a bit cliche, but bro, I promise you, it is true.
I hope or wish that you have found someone as wonderful too.
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)) I was shocked ! Too bad that was just trials, after that I went to the polytechnic liao, miss pre-U days man.
