in fact what u say is true
psychologically or mentally
u are afraid to be rejected
I read from somewhere
a hypnotist who query a client's subconscious mind thru hypnosis
becos the client had a weight problem
it was trace back to a past life where the person was rejected or jilted
so now in this life she put on weight to 'protect' herself
It's surely nice and safe to be plump and fat as I am. No angmoh will come near me!