How Do You Give Frank Remarks Tactfully?

[Dark Knight]

It's not about criticizing but frank remarks given to you by your friends and colleagues.
Not many people (including our Sillypore gahbrament) is willing to accept frank remarks and think through it for self-improvement.
Most of the time we are stubborn and don't get to see our real self until someone pointed it out to us.

Is there a way to give frank remarks tactfully without confronting, hurting and offending people?

 

[Capano2121]

There's no such thing as a frank but tactful remarks!
When a person is an idiot, he is an idiot! There's no other ways of telling him that he is an idiot!
Especially among friends, real good bosom buddies, being tactful doesn't help, if he is wrong he is wrong, just tell the truth! You would expect the same from your friends also!
As for government officials & civil servants, you as a tax payer pays their salary! A leader is only one when he delivers what he has promised otherwise he is just a simple tax payers' fed fat dog!

 

[po2wq]

... Is there a way to give frank remarks tactfully without confronting, hurting and offending people?

y u wanna gif frank remarks tactfully wifout confronting, hurting and offending people? ...

u tel ah loon n his jingang ... frankly speaking, me tink 2 fellaz haf done n excellent job! ... no horse run! ... lidat, u tink dey feel confrontd, hurt or offended anot? ...

 

[erection2015]

a good question.....truth without some compassion can be very harsh and unhelpful. It is possible to speak the truth without hurting too much.

I guess like everything else,this skill comes with attitude and practice.

Is there a way to give frank remarks tactfully without confronting, hurting and offending people?

 

[Dark Knight]

a good question.....truth without some compassion can be very harsh and unhelpful. It is possible to speak the truth without hurting too much.

I guess like everything else,this skill comes with attitude and practice.

Yes. It is not easy does require skills and practice.
I tried it once and my colleague face became "black black" even though I'm trying to make him/her improve themselves.
I think each of our own receptive of taking in negative and positive remarks also plays a part.

 

[blackmondy]

Well, I can tell him he's a unique idiot, one in a million.

It's make him feel specially stupid.

 

[Sideswipe]

use less aggressive voice tone and effective, careful use of words. some people might think that they are giving frank remarks when actually they are insulting the person too. very importantly, nobody wants to lose face.

 

[God Meng Seng]

It's not about criticizing but frank remarks given to you by your friends and colleagues.
Not many people (including our Sillypore gahbrament) is willing to accept frank remarks and think through it for self-improvement.
Most of the time we are stubborn and don't get to see our real self until someone pointed it out to us.

Is there a way to give frank remarks tactfully without confronting, hurting and offending people?

If it is about SDP, don't have to be tactful. just fuck them straight.

have you ever wondered why I am being targetted by the SDP IB? becasue I don't give them face, i give them the hard truths.

 

[laksaboy]

Be like Mourinho. Speak your mind and don't give a damn what other people think of you.

Tact is for pussies who toe the politically correct line and fear to offend other people.

No need to be insulting. Just let the truth indict them.

Example:

Pepe has a problem and his name is Raphael Varane.

 

[jw5]

use less aggressive voice tone and effective, careful use of words. some people might think that they are giving frank remarks when actually they are insulting the person too. very importantly, nobody wants to lose face.

You mean like the way scroocheebye and his spoilt brat manipulative children insult people and claim it's only frank and "abrasive"?

 

[jw5]

Be like Mourinho. Speak your mind and don't give a damn what other people think of you.

Tact is for pussies who toe the politically correct line and fear to offend other people.

No need to be insulting. Just let the truth indict them.

Example:

Pepe has a problem and his name is Raphael Varane.

Example:

Diego Lopez is the better keeper.

 

[da dick]

tactfully ah? put large large cloth over their cock before you suck it, so people kannot see free show loh...

 

[scroobal]

Most people are mature and will accept frank comments and will appreciate your candour. In fact those who received frank comments from you will reach out to you again for honest views when they need guidance.

There are few that will never get the hint. With these, being tactful and frank will not help drive the message. Either make it clear no matter how harsh and then move on or just don't bother and let them stew in their own self belief.

 

[jw5]

Most people are mature and will accept frank comments and will appreciate your candour. In fact those who received frank comments from you will reach out to you again for honest views when they need guidance.

There are few that will never get the hint. With these, being tactful and frank will not help drive the message. Either make it clear no matter how harsh and then move on or just don't bother and let them stew in their own self belief.

Your children deserve to die if they are as manipulative as you, fucking kaypocheebye.

You are fucking deluded if you think you have been frank and honest and offering good guidance.

Way Off The Mark Motherfucker.

Next will be your family portrait.

 

[wendychan]

There's no such thing as a frank but tactful remarks!
When a person is an idiot, he is an idiot! There's no other ways of telling him that he is an idiot!
Especially among friends, real good bosom buddies, being tactful doesn't help, if he is wrong he is wrong, just tell the truth! You would expect the same from your friends also!.........................
!

you are right
but there are those who love to lord it over others and take retribubtion

 

[jw5]

Looks like that motherfuck bastard is a coward too.
Probably got that from his parents too, including the manipulative ways.
And drove his wife to fuck other men.
His children are the problem now, should they be allowed to continue their manipulative ways and procreate?