As long as people are stuck in the 3D paradigm they will not find True Lasting Happiness.
That's how it's supposed to be as per design.
The 3D matrix system sets forth that you always need the next thing in order to achieve happiness at some moment in time, in a future that does not exist.
You are now here. This is the only reality where you exist. If you go one step into the future with your thoughts you do not exist...
Within the psychologically controlled 3D matrix society women are raised to believe that their worth is measured by the age at which they get married and their age when they birth their first child.
Everything in the life of a matrix woman revolves around finding a man, getting that man to commit, by all means, no matter the cost. Through this belief system, they are forced to develop a multitude of manipulative low vibrational methods to control a man, the flow of the relationship, and finally, get her partner to put a ring on her finger.
Here is where this process gets ugly: unfortunately, there's a multitude of manipulations men and women alike tend to use in order to control their partner, and the relationship but the most commonly used is emotional blackmail.
What is emotional blackmail exactly?
It’s making a face when you don’t like something.
It’s taking heavy breaths and not saying anything when you don’t like something.
It’s giving someone the silent treatment when you don’t like something.
It’s getting out of the car, the house, the restaurant, etc, or leaving when you don’t like something.
A person who behaves like this will usually go home and then expects the other to call and ask questions like "what’s up or what happened or what did I do wrong?" This is expected in order to gain control over the partner, the situation, and the entire relationship. And if the partner won't do this call they will think of something and call themselves after a few days to regain control.
And what is that "something" that triggers them to use emotional blackmail?
It can be anything that goes against their ego plans.
People have belief systems. "In order to prove to my friends and family that I have a great relationship my partner must act/respond/think/feel, etc like this or that..." That is the ego in full force.
Do you understand that this has nothing to do with love? Do you understand that this has everything to do with co-dependency?
Do you see how this toxic abuse is about control and energetic vampirism and may other unhealthy behavioral patterns but the bottom line is that it’s all about the ego -not the heart.
