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how to be 100% sure that one is in love?
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For me is simple to know is love or other kinds of affections.
I will never put sex together with love.
Sex is sex. Love is love.
In other words when I'm deeply in love with a woman, I will not think of having sex with her. The same feeling of loving a family member friend etc
I just want to see her more and hug hold hand and enjoy moments with her without sexual thoughts in mind.
I will never put sex together with love.
Sex is sex. Love is love.
In other words when I'm deeply in love with a woman, I will not think of having sex with her. The same feeling of loving a family member friend etc
I just want to see her more and hug hold hand and enjoy moments with her without sexual thoughts in mind.
Hey dude, love is love + lust. Still need unker to teach you? Knn
like that means she's forever virgin already?
I think I would rather love her without marriage becos after marriage, if we have sex and have offsprings, later part I will sure betray her as sex to me is to enjoy it with different woman.
In other words I think it doesn't really bothers me if she is virgin or not.
To answer more directly, she won't forever be virgin too, as I will probably have sex with her for a few times (even I will not think of having sex with her) before I get tire of it and find other woman to have sex with. While having sex with other prostitutes-like-woman, I will still love her as much as I had loved her.
That's what I said I position love as love, sex as sex. They are 2 different matters to me.
I don't think in my case it involve much lust,. While it may involve very little of it.
To me when I found love, it simply means I found someone who is closer to me than a female close friend. What is the difference? A female close friend will never allows me to see her naked body etc whereas she will not mind. We feel good as a couple in love that doesn't involve much sex and yet closer than a close friend.
Then cannot. Must have Lust at least 50%
NO mortal has the ability to predict even the next second what one will do, never....
We Humanity had been given the gift of life, Free will amongst many other gifts, to choose & as it is a power, that comes with responsibilities to others, to accept consequences of our own choice & never to blame others, based upon the golden rule - to hurt none & not be hurt by another....
Life is No bed of roses daily, but a CONTINOUS Journey of discovery so long as one still breathes, to know oneself & others as well, to communicate, share, discuss & find solutions... to learn from mistakes, acknowledge even if painful as realities often are, correct them so to progress & evolve..
Thus, what is 100% sure? Even life is not guaranteed...
It's about COURAGE, to make a choice, or else never to know what may had become.
Those in love will always face a conundrum - to live with the one you love, or to live with the one who loves you. And such are often the cause of breakdowns in marriage. Blessed will be those whom live in love & be loved in return, for what one is, can be, & not what one has...
We Humanity had been given the gift of life, Free will amongst many other gifts, to choose & as it is a power, that comes with responsibilities to others, to accept consequences of our own choice & never to blame others, based upon the golden rule - to hurt none & not be hurt by another....
Life is No bed of roses daily, but a CONTINOUS Journey of discovery so long as one still breathes, to know oneself & others as well, to communicate, share, discuss & find solutions... to learn from mistakes, acknowledge even if painful as realities often are, correct them so to progress & evolve..
Thus, what is 100% sure? Even life is not guaranteed...
It's about COURAGE, to make a choice, or else never to know what may had become.
Those in love will always face a conundrum - to live with the one you love, or to live with the one who loves you. And such are often the cause of breakdowns in marriage. Blessed will be those whom live in love & be loved in return, for what one is, can be, & not what one has...
I was going to say this. But for me, it's got to be 100%. If she truly loves me, she would want to consume all my essence. Every drop.
I was going to say this. But for me, it's got to be 100%. If she truly loves me, she would want to consume all my essence. Every drop.
Hahaha...guess you must have missed that aspect in your sexual life, & thus such a post.
Love is MORE than just the sexual act. Sex between opposite sexes Do bring pleasure & have many forms which some may not be acceptable to others, but it is NOT everything. After 15mins of such, or hours if one is capable of repeated acts, RESPONSIBILITIES to each other in daily matters will be necessary.
Point is - with pleasure comes responsibility to each other, and especially SACRIFICES on one's own gift of FREE WILL, to share the journey of life together as equals, come what may....
Are you thus prepared to SACRIFICE your life to the one whom will consume your every essence, as well as her's, as it is only fair & equal, OR to find your own pleasure at expense of innocent others ? Or will there have to be compromises, to discuss, share & find solutions in the journey of life that NO Being had promised would be a bed of roses daily?
My apologies if I had offended...
Now you tell me
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