Respect is a two way thing and obviously TS is asking for a one way thing! Of course everybody respect their GF out of fear that the cheap slut will not let you enter her. By cheap slut i really do not mean it in the dollars & cents sense. When courting stage, they will drop by your place often and try to show off how good a wife they will be if you marry her. Old lady is happy and accepts her into the inner circle. Once married, your family is outsider and her family is the only family!
Your effort & time earning money in trying to pay for the second car and the condo is considered a neglect to the family and her. She will kick up big fuss over you not doing anything around the house and on your off day, you will hear this familiar ding dong "WHY YOU NEVER BOIL THE WATER AFTER YOU FINISH DRINKING", despite her telling you that never show respect to her in front of her family and she will try her very best to slap you on the face when you say something inappropriate in public especially in front of her family.
One time, my ex wife tried to slap me on the face after i told her off that i've been the one doing all the household chores despite my travelling and the first thing i get back home from overseas will be to clean the house and do my own laundry! She was nagging non stop and i told her to shut the fuck up, she came running towards me and wanted to slap me, i side step push her hand away and the momentum of the push had her hand slapping her own face! Guess what happen after that? Her whole damn clan turn up trying to give me a piece of them! I told them to just shut the fuck up and i am going out to have my midnight coffee and i do not want to see any of their fuck face when i get back!
Since that day, we each have our own plans, i squirreled away my assets overseas and she starts spending money like nobody's business and over charged all six of my supplementary cards and started withdrawing from our joint account till i was 300k short. One day she dropped the bomb that she met a very nice guy from church and he reminds her of me when i was younger, very hardworking and still very sensitive to her feelings and that everybody should be given a chance to prove himself. She wants a divorce! She wants a share of all assets of mine and she wants respect! I agreed to the divorce and i lost my maplewoods apartment, my sterling apartment and my Z350. Not counting the cash in our joint account. My peers asked me after the incident whether it was worth it to lose so many things, and i am affirmative that i have only loss some but gain back my respect & freedom that no amount of money can buy!
So if you asked me whether i respect my GF, of course i do and they shall only remain my GF. A wife is something that needed more consideration!
