I once shared a bed overnight with a pretty girl who likes me. I was in my early twenties and just too damn fucking innocent and didn't want to do the "wrong" thing. Looking back at those days, I was too damn fucking stupid.
the innocence of youth will be alleviated by the wisdom of adult-hood.
had the same experience but later, in another (same) situation - there was no way i was going to let the chance go by, with the excuse the her aunty was visiting and about to leave.
eventually, after some gentle persuasion, the tampon was gently pushed further into the canal.
learnt few things thereafter: can eat, don't waste / no hood but if got tampon oso can, as she wasn't in the family way / sloppy seconds can be (and which i) had, in finding the string :p