Why dont u do a cost benefits analysis and work backwards? Good thing about islam is you can enrol your wife to the good wives club in mudland etc,,so she will learn to be more subservient etc. If she is a pious Muslim,,even more she will have to be a 'good' wife...and heaps of chinese marry the minah,,become muslim,.but still party, drink alcohol and eat pork,,,just during ramadan u have to be more kwai,,,and some muslims allow alcohol and pork hor,,,,