Woman seeks divorce as husband could afford neither car nor car; wants 70% of his monthly salary to be paid as alimony

[Johnrambo]

Hi everyone here, I need some help and advice here, please. My wife wants to get an alimony and will like me to pay 70% of my salary to her. Can I check if there is a proper way to work out the amount that I should pay her as I will like the payment to be backed up with certain reasons and justifications? I’ll accept paying more than 70% if it is being backed up with certain reasons and justifications. 70% seems quite high to me as CPF contribution is 20% leaving 10% (100-70-20) behind which will leave me with nothing after giving my parents monthly allowance. We have been married for 2 years.

We are both in our late 20s, no kids, co-owning a HDB unit. I have not been giving her allowances until recently, 20% of my income each month. The reason why I have not been giving her allowances was because she used to earn almost the same amount as me previously and more than me recently.

The main reasons for us to get an alimony were the following (hope it helps in deriving the proper alimony I should be paying her):1) She felt that I was biased towards my family and favour my family over her. An example is let’s say if my parents were to pass on (touch wood) and if I get lesser compared to my siblings for some reason, I should fight for it now. I disagreed as I do not want to cause some trouble within my family. However, she shared that me not wanting to cause trouble for my family will cause her displeasure as she is not assured of the money that I would get and eventually the money she would be getting.

2) I was unable to provide for her financially and provide a car. She mentioned that a guy nearing late 20s should be earning 5 digit a month and to be honest, base on my career projection, I’ll not reach that before 30 years old. She also mentioned that I have wasted her youth when she could have been with a guy who treated her better (unbiased against her) and it is a duty of the guy to provide a car and earn more to provide a landed/condo.

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[knnb40]

Hi everyone here, I need some help and advice here, please. My wife wants to get an alimony and will like me to pay 70% of my salary to her. Can I check if there is a proper way to work out the amount that I should pay her as I will like the payment to be backed up with certain reasons and justifications? I’ll accept paying more than 70% if it is being backed up with certain reasons and justifications. 70% seems quite high to me as CPF contribution is 20% leaving 10% (100-70-20) behind which will leave me with nothing after giving my parents monthly allowance. We have been married for 2 years.

We are both in our late 20s, no kids, co-owning a HDB unit. I have not been giving her allowances until recently, 20% of my income each month. The reason why I have not been giving her allowances was because she used to earn almost the same amount as me previously and more than me recently.

The main reasons for us to get an alimony were the following (hope it helps in deriving the proper alimony I should be paying her):1) She felt that I was biased towards my family and favour my family over her. An example is let’s say if my parents were to pass on (touch wood) and if I get lesser compared to my siblings for some reason, I should fight for it now. I disagreed as I do not want to cause some trouble within my family. However, she shared that me not wanting to cause trouble for my family will cause her displeasure as she is not assured of the money that I would get and eventually the money she would be getting.

2) I was unable to provide for her financially and provide a car. She mentioned that a guy nearing late 20s should be earning 5 digit a month and to be honest, base on my career projection, I’ll not reach that before 30 years old. She also mentioned that I have wasted her youth when she could have been with a guy who treated her better (unbiased against her) and it is a duty of the guy to provide a car and earn more to provide a landed/condo.

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do not be stupid and pay her alimony, as long as she don't get married, you have to pay her forever (or you have to go back to court to proved that your income cannot sustain and workout other amount). she will than use your money to fuck with other guys and as long as they not married you have to continued with the alimony.
read up more on woman charter and there are no hard rules you must pay "high" alimony as long as you are not comfortable with. go get a layer if you wish to fight the case with professional guide.

 

[syed putra]

Who paid for housing loan?

 

[Balls2U]

For short marriages (since both are in your 20s), no need to pay a lot. Depending on your salary, just offer $200 per month as maintenance. As for the flat, division is likely to be based on each party's contribution. If she's not happy, tell her to fuck off and see her in court. See if the judge will give her what she wants.

 

[waitifcuk]

couple of points
1. obviously she is a greedy
money minded B*
but woman charter will not be in your favor
2. is your mp
@tanwahtiu
or
@sweetiepie uncle

 

[Cottonmouth]

He should find an assassin to kill her and some shitskins to gangrape her, the sequence is up to him.

 

[laksaboy]

At least your divorce settlement didn't reach billions.

Every marital pussy has a price.

 

[no_faith]

At least your divorce settlement didn't reach billions.

Every marital pussy has a price.

He is not him so billions not possible
Different league
The wife also farnie before marriage she dunno his status?

 

[congo9]

Bezos can afford It.

 

[red amoeba]

That’s the price to pay to let your small head get over you and sign the stupid marriage certificate. Woman charter is the strongest law here.

 

[glockman]

What happened to love? Love will conquer all? Love is never having to say you're sorry? Love will prevail!

 

[blackmondy]

Fucker should just kill himself and let everyone else move on.

 

[batman1]

In Red Dot, No Money,No Honey !

 

[syed putra]

In Red Dot, No Money,No Honey !

Not really. If guy great in bed, she will give him alimony.

 

[batman1]

Not really. If guy great in bed, she will give him alimony.

Only MarjoJohn can qualify.

 

[tanwahtiu]

Pui kia. Go fuckyrslf..

What happened to love? Love will conquer all? Love is never having to say you're sorry? Love will prevail!

 

[bushtucker]

" I was unable to provide for her financially and provide a car. She mentioned that a guy nearing late 20s should be earning 5 digit a month "

this bitch is confirmed a gold digger and a materialistic whore.

 

[sweetiepie]

couple of points
1. obviously she is a greedy
money minded B*
but woman charter will not be in your favor
2. is your mp
@tanwahtiu
or
@sweetiepie uncle

KNN bhai my uncle say now is little too late to see my uncle as he had already leesclosed his unhappiness and problems KNN if he had secretlee consulted my uncle my uncle would have given a similar proposition I.e KILL but in a leescreet way I.e without the assistance of anyone to prevent being blackmailed later on KNN

He should find an assassin to kill her and some shitskins to gangrape her, the sequence is up to him.

 

[sweetiepie]

KNN bhai my uncle say now is little too late to see my uncle as he had already leesclosed his unhappiness and problems KNN if he had secretlee consulted my uncle my uncle would have given a similar proposition I.e KILL but in a leescreet way I.e without the assistance of anyone to prevent being blackmailed later on KNN

If whatever he said is true my uncle think this person does not leeserve to be a human being and definitelee does not leeserve to be leeving KNN

 

[ilovechinesegal]

Tat guy is dumb to marry this kind of stupid gold digger. She is so selfish and everything is about money and even mention about that her husband would get less money if her husband's parents passed away. Lol! This kind of this shit thing, dont divorce and let her divorce as long woman divorce the guy wont need to pay alimony as long is not adultery.