Woman puts up posters to shame ex-husband

[MarrickG]

UPSET that her ex-husband had not been paying maintenance for her and their daughter, she made posters with his picture, name and address.

They carried the following words in capital letters: "...you are working yet claim no money to feed your child, how can you expect your ex wife who can't go work coz need to look after the baby feed the child. Be a man!!!"

Christine, 39, a housewife, then pasted them at the void deck of the Jurong flat where James, 35, a computer salesman, is living with his parents.

http://www.tnp.sg/content/woman-puts-posters-shame-ex-husband

 

[looneytan]

again, I can't believe Clinton666 has come to this low

fux la you, Spastic Gay Dog Maggot

 

[butoh6050]

"Be a man!!!".....something that russell peters will say in his standup. She probably watched too much of him.

 

[rectmobile]

Why not let the man have the baby then if the man has the money according to the ex-wife.

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

Why not let the man have the baby then if the man has the money according to the ex-wife.

The man is shameless enough not to give alimony. U want a kid to grow up with such a parent?

 

[streetsmart73]

hi there


1. tsk tsk tsk!
2. never mess up with some "desperate" woman.
3. honest, why marry & have kid?

 

[rectmobile]

The man is shameless enough not to give alimony. U want a kid to grow up with such a parent?

i do not think the man is shameless.. I feel that the woman is kind of strange in asking for something from a man who has left her. If the couple cannot be together, then just deal with it.

The kid is not the reason for asking for something. If they cannot have a successful marriage, then why create a situation to give themselves more problem.

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

i do not think the man is shameless.. I feel that the woman is kind of strange in asking for something from a man who has left her. If the couple cannot be together, then just deal with it.

The kid is not the reason for asking for something. If they cannot have a successful marriage, then why create a situation to give themselves more problem.

Don't pay alimony is the most shameless thing a man can do. Unless there are redeeming factors, such as the woman is richer than him. Even then, legally he is bound to pay.

If don't want to pay alimony, then shouldn't divorce in the first place. Rules of the game. Can't pay, then don't divorce.

 

[Froggy]

UPSET that her ex-husband had not been paying maintenance for her and their daughter, she made posters with his picture, name and address.

http://www.tnp.sg/content/woman-puts-posters-shame-ex-husband

Hey the photo of the man in the above link looks super happy leh

 

[halsey02]

"Hell has no fury, like a woman scorned ( in this case, not paid)"

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

For this fella, it is a case of die also no money to pay alimony!


http://www.transitioning.org/2011/0...-default-of-20900-should-i-die-or-go-to-jail/

Hi Gilbert,

My ex wife is from PRC and we were married for less than 4 years before the marriage ran aground.

The end of the marriage also was the start of a financial nightmare for me. Let me explain…

Few years back, my ex-wife’s father invested in a local business here. I helped to run the business and took a loan from the bank due to shortage of cash.

My ex-wife and I were guarantors of the loan.

Unfortunately, we divorced after I have helped her to apply for Singaporean citizenship. We have a young child.

I have no money to engage a lawyer during the divorce proceeding and ended up accepting the child maintenance bill of $1100/month even though she has a few businesses with her.

After we divorced, I took over the business loan instalment of $4000 per month for 4 years. My ex-wife also did not pressed me for the payment of any maintenance due to her because of that.

I also closed down the business as it was financially not viable for me to carry on.

However, it was an uphill struggle for me and after a while, I defaulted on the loan repayment plan and both of us received legal letters from the bank pressing for payment as we were guarantors to the loan.

Now, she is suing me for maintenance arrear of $20, 900 due to her and the child.

Meanwhile, to make ends meet, I managed to carry out some consultation job for my friend and make about $1500 per month before CPF.

My problem is made worse by the fact that I have gout attack very often. I also took at least 3 days of MC monthly and more if I have gout infection.

I was eventually asked to leave as I took too much medical leave and I was unable to perform well at work as required. I have been jobless for the past six months.

However, I am thankful to my current local wife who supported me in my current predicament. She gives me some money every month so that I can maintain my simple living expenses. However, I know that this can’t go on forever.

I am also not entitled to free legal aid as my wife is working and we failed the means testing. I also can’t afford a lawyer as it is costly. I may have to represent myself then.

Should I die or prepare myself to go to jail for the huge maintenance arrear?

Please advise. Thanks.

Regds,

Jimmy

 

[rectmobile]

Don't pay alimony is the most shameless thing a man can do. Unless there are redeeming factors, such as the woman is richer than him. Even then, legally he is bound to pay.

If don't want to pay alimony, then shouldn't divorce in the first place. Rules of the game. Can't pay, then don't divorce.

i don't agree with this rule and the couple should decide for themselves what they want rather than having a rule to tell them what they should do.

If they cannot decide how to have a life, then dun marry. That is how a mature person behave.

 

[laksaboy]

Want to avoid such bullshit?

Don't get married. Don't get shackled by the Women's Charter.

Paying alimony is as repugnant as paying for pet food after you have given the pet away. Child support I can understand, but paying for a vagina you longer can have access to is nothing more than a RIP OFF.

The ex-wife is an able-bodied adult, she can work and support herself (at least until she latches onto the next sucker to provide for her).

Say no to vaginamony.

[video=youtube;vq36RgL3LKw]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vq36RgL3LKw[/video]

 

[RonRon]

 

[eErotica69]

Want to avoid such bullshit?

Don't get married. Don't get shackled by the Women's Charter.

Paying alimony is as repugnant as paying for pet food after you have given the pet away. Child support I can understand, but paying for a vagina you longer can have access to is nothing more than a RIP OFF.

The ex-wife is an able-bodied adult, she can work and support herself (at least until she latches onto the next sucker to provide for her).

Say no to vaginamony.

Dun be a chump. She is asking for him to pay maintainence for Child Support and for her to look after his child! His child!! As a father, he is obliged to pay for his children's support, regardless whether the marriage is ok or not!!

Telling grandmother story about the disadvantage of getting married is irrelevant in this instance. It is Water Under the Bridge...
They were already married and now divorced!!

 

[rectmobile]

Want to avoid such bullshit?

Don't get married. Don't get shackled by the Women's Charter.

Paying alimony is as repugnant as paying for pet food after you have given the pet away. Child support I can understand, but paying for a vagina you longer can have access to is nothing more than a RIP OFF.

The ex-wife is an able-bodied adult, she can work and support herself (at least until she latches onto the next sucker to provide for her).

Say no to vaginamony.

[video=youtube;vq36RgL3LKw]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vq36RgL3LKw[/video]

hahaha... i like the way you think.. but kind of an extreme.. I still think that human should decided for themselves rather than having a law to tell them what they should do. That is so lame.

 

[no_faith]

such cases, its hardly for outsiders to conclude. we dont even know the true stories from both parties.
doesnt mean you cry foul first, you are the victim.

 

[laksaboy]

Dun be a chump. She is asking for him to pay maintainence for Child Support and for her to look after his child! His child!! As a father, he is obliged to pay for his children's support, regardless whether the marriage is ok or not!!

Telling grandmother story about the disadvantage of getting married is irrelevant in this instance. It is Water Under the Bridge...
They were already married and now divorced!!

I quote from The New Paper:

UPSET that her ex-husband had not been paying maintenance for her and their daughter, she made posters with his picture, name and address.

What, you honestly think the Women's Charter will make a man pay only child support without vaginamony thrown into the package?

But it is easy to use a child as a weapon to shame the man into paying.

Also, do you really think that 100% of the money paid as 'child support' will be actually spend on supporting the child? What's stopping the woman from taking some of the money to spend on handbags, vacations or a boob job?

 

[rectmobile]

I quote from The New Paper:

UPSET that her ex-husband had not been paying maintenance for her and their daughter, she made posters with his picture, name and address.

What, you honestly think the Women's Charter will make a man pay only child support without vaginamony thrown into the package?

But it is easy to use a child as a weapon to shame the man into paying.

Also, do you really think that 100% of the money paid as 'child support' will be actually spend on supporting the child? What's stopping the woman from taking some of the money to spend on handbags, vacations or a boob job?

the child support should be a break down of the list of necessary item to be agreed upon and signed in front of a lawyer. School fees, basic food, clothings... and the receipt of what the mother buys to be sent to him every week and must be agreed upon.

It is whole lot of a hassle if you want to use law to agree on things. It will be much easier for the couple to settle things by themselves if they make any sense of themselves.

if they cannot or not capable to be in a relationship, then being single is a blessing for them.

 

[rodent2005]

Can't pay, then don't divorce.

Oh, even if your wife is screwing another man behind your back and the child is not yours?