what do you say to your friend?

[erection2015]

thats the problem my wife faces. One of her friends briefly shared with her that she thinks her son could be a closet gay.

She suspects this because of his mannerisms since after his A Levels, his sms ( she didnt share the contents yet ) and also the fact

that on weekends he is mostly locked up in his room with another guy. When she queried him he got angry and said that they were

playing games on the computer. My wife's friend is a divorcee and this is her only child.

How to help ?....what should my wife say or recommend ?......she said that she will give my wife a call again soon to talk about this again.

 

[Raiders]

Did your wife's friend restrict her son to have gfs when he was younger? I knew of parents who did that and their children turned to homesexuality. The fact that he grew up in a single mom family also could play a part in him seeking love from another man to make up for the loss of his father's love.
Bring him to see a psychiatrist, that's the best way. Our Asian culture always think that by going to see the phychiatrist, it means you are mad. That is why a lot of people's case became more serious. If they had sought proper help early on, it could have been different.

 

[exobay]

She has to come to terms with the fact that her son has gay tendencies. One cannot fight and change a person's sexual preference. In this world today, maybe it is better not to marry and bear children looking at so many broken relationships and parents struggling to bring up a child. Of course some parents may be ashamed having a gay offspring, but nowadays it is more acceptable.

 

[hotbot]

ask him to look for me, i can bring him to the fun places...tsk...tsk...

thats the problem my wife faces. One of her friends briefly shared with her that she thinks her son could be a closet gay.

She suspects this because of his mannerisms since after his A Levels, his sms ( she didnt share the contents yet ) and also the fact

that on weekends he is mostly locked up in his room with another guy. When she queried him he got angry and said that they were

playing games on the computer. My wife's friend is a divorcee and this is her only child.

How to help ?....what should my wife say or recommend ?......she said that she will give my wife a call again soon to talk about this again.

 

[geylangchickenloyangduck]

nah beh....bring her son to Geylang, book him a kwey and listen outside the door....that's a sure-fire test.

 

[erection2015]

i dunno if he was restricted but the mother does not appear to be the dominant sort. She is sort of the timid type.

Ya i think he may need counselling.

Did your wife's friend restrict her son to have gfs when he was younger? I knew of parents who did that and their children turned to homesexuality. The fact that he grew up in a single mom family also could play a part in him seeking love from another man to make up for the loss of his father's love.
Bring him to see a psychiatrist, that's the best way. Our Asian culture always think that by going to see the phychiatrist, it means you are mad. That is why a lot of people's case became more serious. If they had sought proper help early on, it could have been different.

 

[Leongsam]

How to help ?....what should my wife say or recommend ?......she said that she will give my wife a call again soon to talk about this again.

He should be exposed for the faggot that he is and then tarred and feathered and driven out of town.

 

[erection2015]

she doesnt know for sure yet...but i think she is worried.

She has to come to terms with the fact that her son has gay tendencies. One cannot fight and change a person's sexual preference. In this world today, maybe it is better not to marry and bear children looking at so many broken relationships and parents struggling to bring up a child. Of course some parents may be ashamed having a gay offspring, but nowadays it is more acceptable.

 

[erection2015]

hahaha the sheriff is in town today.

He should be exposed for the faggot that he is and then tarred and feathered and driven out of town.

 

[erection2015]

you still in bangkok or back already?

ask him to look for me, i can bring him to the fun places...tsk...tsk...

 

[erection2015]

haha...hard for my wife to recommend this la bro

nah beh....bring her son to Geylang, book him a kwey and listen outside the door....that's a sure-fire test.

 

[exobay]

she doesnt know for sure yet...but i think she is worried.

Kids don't lock the room to play computer games.

 

[Leongsam]

hahaha the sheriff is in town today.

If she wants to know whether he's gay, ask her to inspect his brown eye.

 

[Froggy]

whether its true or not and before its too late ask he to pass him some condoms first

 

[erection2015]

haha bloody good idea bro....have to bring up the subject of safe sex...cos the guy about 22 aredi

whether its true or not and before its too late ask he to pass him some condoms first

 

[erection2015]

whats should the dimensions be boss?

If she wants to know whether he's gay, ask her to inspect his brown eye.

 

[erection2015]

ya i guess so...this made her sort of suspect but i guess she was hoping for the best. But after the sms she say its very hard to deny liao.

Kids don't lock the room to play computer games.

 

[Alamaking]

Think she has to learn the hard facts, it's good if the son change, but of not, accept it lor...

 

[erection2015]

ya lor...she is like 90% certain already but i think she still clinging on the the last 10%

Think she has to learn the hard facts, it's good if the son change, but of not, accept it lor...

 

[geylangchickenloyangduck]

nah beh...after A-levels, next step =NS right? A dose of NS will set his 'rudder' in the correct direction...unless he first go declare 3/2