What actually matters in your 40s

[tobelightlight]

 

[k1976]

Becum more Dua Kee?

 

[sbfuncle]

I don't expect people to turn wiser immediately after 40. But by mid 40s they should be on the way. By the time they reach 50 must be clear minded enough to see things clearly in this world.
Beat people with an unclear mind to puppies when they affect your life.

 

[myfoot123]

I don't expect people to turn wiser immediately after 40. But by mid 40s they should be on the way. By the time they reach 50 must be clear minded enough to see things clearly in this world.
Beat people with an unclear mind to puppies when they affect your life.

Maturity is not about age numbers. You grew from the number of life experiences. My neighbour in her late 70s, still behaved like Xiao Cha Bo and trying to act "cute".

 

[sbfuncle]

Maturity is not about age numbers. You grew from the number of life experiences. My neighbour in her late 70s, still behaved like Xiao Cha Bo and trying to act "cute".

Agreed. As some people might be able to think more properly at a younger age.
My comment was just an estimated age range for people to gain the life experiences enough to be more clear minded.

 

[k1976]

I don't expect people to turn wiser immediately after 40. But by mid 40s they should be on the way. By the time they reach 50 must be clear minded enough to see things clearly in this world.
Beat people with an unclear mind to puppies when they affect your life.

If u are gifted, u are gifted Loh

 

[sbfuncle]

If u are gifted, u are gifted Loh

Initially I learnt through my own mistakes.
Later I never committed anymore mistakes then I started to learn from others mistakes.
I'm probably near perfection now.
But I dare not conlanfirm it becos there will be times when decisions will be hard to make in future eg covid vaccine I couldn't get a answer to it so I would need to place my bet and much later then I could tell I have placed a wrong bet.
Other than this kind of honest mistake, I conlanfirm I am perfect now.

 

[Balls2U]

Once you hit 40, you should be ready to take on the world and can interact with anyone regardless of their age, qualifications, status and experience with confidence and authority. Last time we look upon our school principal with awe and fear. Now, I can talk to my primary school current principal with ease and call him brother or young man. Same with SAF Colonels and BGs. I call them young man. Some of them even call me Sir! And I can easily see through a person and their bill shit in less than 5 mins.

 

[NanoSpeed]

Once you hit 40, you should be ready to take on the world and can interact with anyone regardless of their age, qualifications, status and experience with confidence and authority. Last time we look upon our school principal with awe and fear. Now, I can talk to my primary school current principal with ease and call him brother or young man. Same with SAF Colonels and BGs. I call them young man. Some of them even call me Sir! And I can easily see through a person and their bill shit in less than 5 mins.

Your ultimate test is to be able to interact with my ex-mentor.

 

[sbfuncle]

Once you hit 40, you should be ready to take on the world and can interact with anyone regardless of their age, qualifications, status and experience with confidence and authority. Last time we look upon our school principal with awe and fear. Now, I can talk to my primary school current principal with ease and call him brother or young man. Same with SAF Colonels and BGs. I call them young man. Some of them even call me Sir! And I can easily see through a person and their bill shit in less than 5 mins.

You matured fast.
I could only do that when I hit 50.

Last time I did have some stage fear.
But when I approach 50 into a full blown wise men I no longer has any fear.

 

[sbfuncle]

Your ultimate test is to be able to interact with my ex-mentor.

As I have mentioned, there is no need to interact with your ex mentor.
Only punches or whistlings.

 

[NanoSpeed]

As I have mentioned, there is no need to interact with your ex mentor.
Only punches or whistlings.

My ex-mentor will beat you to puppies.

She disappeared from the forum. She went to 佛山 to learn 詠春．

 

[sbfuncle]

My ex-mentor will beat you to puppies.

She disappeared from the forum. She went to 佛山 to learn 詠春．

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Beat people to puppy is by verbal not by fist lah

 

[Balls2U]

My ex-mentor will beat you to puppies.

She disappeared from the forum. She went to 佛山 to learn 詠春．

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她还在裕廊东苦练思春.

 

[tobelightlight]

Maturity is not about age numbers. You grew from the number of life experiences. My neighbour in her late 70s, still behaved like Xiao Cha Bo and trying to act "cute".

Your neighbour is an IMH patient, is it? you better ask her to find out.