We were married. But there was no sexual attraction

[TerrexLee]

We first sought out a couples therapist when our daughter, now 18, was an infant. We were unhappy, our marriage lacked intimacy and we were worried about our prospects. Of course, many parents of newborns are unhappy – they are sleep-deprived, their futures are filled with inherent uncertainty and they have little time to think about anything.


But we knew something deeper was amiss. We were both postgraduates at the time, so we went to counselling services at our university. Our first therapist was a nice guy and he was clearly determined to keep us together. That is not so unusual, or necessarily a bad thing. We didn’t present with the kinds of problems indicating a need to separate right away. There was no physical or verbal abuse, for example. We didn’t hate one another and we were not yet ready to admit that we were not in love.


But when we talked about what was bothering us, our therapist had the habit of reframing our problems as less serious than we perceived them. In so doing, he committed perhaps the cardinal sin for a therapist – trying to talk us out of our feelings. For example, when we talked about not having any sexual attraction for one another, our therapist said, “Lots of people become less interested in sex as they get older.”


We were in our early 30s and had been married for less than two years. We had not lost interest in sex. But we spent more time trying to explain ourselves and then questioning his agenda than we did dealing with the real problem, which was that we weren’t interested in each other.

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[tobelightlight]

Very strange or a good example to show that if you married to or marry someone whom you are not attracted to, this is what happen. What is their reason of getting hitched to each other? status? job security? money? fear of loneliness? or just plain follow the norm.

I have mentioned in one other thread that feeling attractive to and attracted to another person is your DNA telling you if you are compatible to the other person genetically.
The offspring will be healthy genetically if the married couple are truly attracted to one another.

To be healthy genetically means physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually healthy. ( either one or few of these or all of these 4 conditions to be unhealthy)

if the couple are not attracted to one another, and your offspring witnessed such behaviour at home, how do you think your offspring will handle relationship when he or she grows up?

 

[TerrexLee]

I wonder how they fucked until got baby pop out when there was no attraction

 

[laksaboy]

I wonder how they fucked until got baby pop out when there was no attraction

Curiosity and a sense of duty. Maybe both of them were virgins.

 

[blackmondy]

Pinky Lee and the manly-looking woman of tumor-sick is another good example of such case.

 

[syed putra]

Very strange or a good example to show that if you married to or marry someone whom you are not attracted to, this is what happen. What is their reason of getting hitched to each other? status? job security? money? fear of loneliness? or just plain follow the norm.

I have mentioned in one other thread that feeling attractive to and attracted to another person is your DNA telling you if you are compatible to the other person genetically.
The offspring will be healthy genetically if the married couple are truly attracted to one another.

To be healthy genetically means physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually healthy. ( either one or few of these or all of these 4 conditions to be unhealthy)

if the couple are not attracted to one another, and your offspring witnessed such behaviour at home, how do you think your offspring will handle relationship when he or she grows up?

Yes. Initially the DNA was hyper. But now after two decades......

 

[syed putra]

Pinky Lee and the manly-looking woman of tumor-sick is another good example of such case.

LKY maybe also similar. Looked like he targeted the upper echelon and was well endowed.

 

[laksaboy]

Very strange or a good example to show that if you married to or marry someone whom you are not attracted to, this is what happen. What is their reason of getting hitched to each other? status? job security? money? fear of loneliness? or just plain follow the norm.

I have mentioned in one other thread that feeling attractive to and attracted to another person is your DNA telling you if you are compatible to the other person genetically.
The offspring will be healthy genetically if the married couple are truly attracted to one another.

To be healthy genetically means physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually healthy. ( either one or few of these or all of these 4 conditions to be unhealthy)

if the couple are not attracted to one another, and your offspring witnessed such behaviour at home, how do you think your offspring will handle relationship when he or she grows up?

Marriage is primarily about uniting two families, pooling together resources and connections, with an implicit agreement to produce biological offspring so they may legitimately claim inheritance.

That's why I chuckle when post-menopausal women still want to get married, or the homos keep pushing for their so-called 'equal right to love'. Fools, all of them. They are missing the point.

 

[syed putra]

Marriage is primarily about uniting two families, pooling together resources and connections, with an implicit agreement to produce biological offspring so they may legitimately claim inheritance.

That's why I chuckle when post-menopausal women still want to get married, or the homos keep pushing for their so-called 'equal right to love'. Fools, all of them. They are missing the point.

I went for lust

 

[blackmondy]

I went for lust

Not surprising....

 

[steffychun]

Sounds like Ally McBeal stories.

 

[rushifa666]

Blindfold and then get someone else to fuck her. His skills as a trainer is terrible

 

[TerrexLee]

Sounds like Ally McBeal stories.

How is calista looking these days