When you want to fuck a girl, you tend to use the word "love" and "lust" interchangeably.
When you want to bring her to overseas to pak pao, you bestow the title of "travel mate" to her.
Eventually when you want to pak pao with her on a long term basis, you convert her from "travel mate" to "housemate".
This is not jihong. Don't let some old-fashioned words stop you from doing what you want.
