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They purposely show their disgusting figures and obnoxious behaviour to the public as an influencer forcing people to accept their bodies and still have the cheek to question why are people trying to body-shame them? Can see in the video they are giving all kinds of ranjiao excuses to justify their behaviour.
My advice to them is simple: ' Play stupid games, you win stupid prizes..'
https://www.asiaone.com/lifestyle/online-harms-cyberbullying-julie-tan-share-tips?
Content creator, Mathilda Huang and actress, Julie Tan both express a shared sentiment.
Mathilda emphasises that regardless of intent, if it causes harm to the person on the receiving end, it qualifies as online harm.
While Julie concisely states, "Online harm is being unkind."
Simran draws attention to the nuanced nature of online harms, highlighting that they do not fit into a simple black-and-white framework.
She acknowledges the existence of legal harms such as harassment, which are clear offences, while also highlighting a vast spectrum of online behaviour that may not be illegal but are undeniably harmful.
"It's something we call ‘lawful but awful harms’," Simran describes.
Online harms can have serious negative impacts on its victims, which can be exacerbated by the fact that online and offline harms can and do intersect.
As Simran explains, "If someone was going to stalk you, they're not going to purely stalk you online. It will happen in the real world as well." Therefore, she feels that there is a need to approach the issue holistically.
Julie, who has been in the media industry for 13 years, recalls her first brush with online harms, which occurred when she was just 17 and fresh to the acting industry.
Actress Julie Tan shares her brush with online harm. Photo: AsiaOne
A friend had shared a link to a forum where there were inappropriate discussions centred around Julie’s body, personal life and romantic relationship.
"I kind of regret clicking that link. I don't need to know what they're talking about," she mentions in hindsight.
Julie's sense of helplessness was evident at that time.
She explains that there was no one to moderate the chats and people would just piggyback on the comments. "It's a bit like mob mentality."
The experience weighed heavily on the then-17-year-old. "There was actually a short period of time [when] I was self-harming," Julie shares.
"No one really taught [me] how to be a celebrity, or how to even prevent online harms," says Julie adding that as an actress, dealing with online harms comes with the territory.
However, she raises valid questions, such as "Why do they have the right to do that?" and "Do we really need to accept it?"
Content creator Mathilda Huang shared a similar experience with online harm. PHOTO: AsiaOne
Julie's experience struck a chord with Mathilda, who shares a similar encounter. In 2021, Mathilda stumbled upon a 20-page forum where netizens were discussing her body in minute detail, and the comments even exposed her then-residential address.
The situation escalated to a point where Mathilda began to believe some of the things they were saying, even their speculation that she might be suffering from thyroid disease.
"How can the opinion of someone, whom I don't even know, affect how I look and feel about my own body," she ponders. "[I was even] questioning my own general physical health."
In response, Mathilda took a proactive stance by reaching out to the forum's moderator to remove the thread.
She describes the experience as distressing, where she felt compelled to stand up for herself because no one else would. Simran also addresses the issue of whether putting oneself out in the digital world means that one must accept the criticism that comes with it – the answer being ‘no’.
For example, Simran clarifies that posting an image of yourself is your freedom of expression. However, it doesn't entitle other people to be horrid and abusive to you.
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See how farking disgusting is this lady posting all kinds of disgusting videos forcing people to appreciate her puking Dinobu body and yet she claims she don't understand why people body-shame her in the interview above, LOL...
https://www.herworld.com/women/women-now/mathilda-huang-cyber-bullying-weight-looks/
My advice to them is simple: ' Play stupid games, you win stupid prizes..'
https://www.asiaone.com/lifestyle/online-harms-cyberbullying-julie-tan-share-tips?
'Why do they have the right to do that?' Influencers open up about dealing with online harms, and share tips on how to safeguard oneself
Content creator, Mathilda Huang and actress, Julie Tan both express a shared sentiment.
Mathilda emphasises that regardless of intent, if it causes harm to the person on the receiving end, it qualifies as online harm.
While Julie concisely states, "Online harm is being unkind."
Simran draws attention to the nuanced nature of online harms, highlighting that they do not fit into a simple black-and-white framework.
She acknowledges the existence of legal harms such as harassment, which are clear offences, while also highlighting a vast spectrum of online behaviour that may not be illegal but are undeniably harmful.
"It's something we call ‘lawful but awful harms’," Simran describes.
Online harms can have serious negative impacts on its victims, which can be exacerbated by the fact that online and offline harms can and do intersect.
As Simran explains, "If someone was going to stalk you, they're not going to purely stalk you online. It will happen in the real world as well." Therefore, she feels that there is a need to approach the issue holistically.
Julie, who has been in the media industry for 13 years, recalls her first brush with online harms, which occurred when she was just 17 and fresh to the acting industry.
Actress Julie Tan shares her brush with online harm. Photo: AsiaOne
A friend had shared a link to a forum where there were inappropriate discussions centred around Julie’s body, personal life and romantic relationship.
"I kind of regret clicking that link. I don't need to know what they're talking about," she mentions in hindsight.
Julie's sense of helplessness was evident at that time.
She explains that there was no one to moderate the chats and people would just piggyback on the comments. "It's a bit like mob mentality."
The experience weighed heavily on the then-17-year-old. "There was actually a short period of time [when] I was self-harming," Julie shares.
"No one really taught [me] how to be a celebrity, or how to even prevent online harms," says Julie adding that as an actress, dealing with online harms comes with the territory.
However, she raises valid questions, such as "Why do they have the right to do that?" and "Do we really need to accept it?"

Content creator Mathilda Huang shared a similar experience with online harm. PHOTO: AsiaOne
Julie's experience struck a chord with Mathilda, who shares a similar encounter. In 2021, Mathilda stumbled upon a 20-page forum where netizens were discussing her body in minute detail, and the comments even exposed her then-residential address.
The situation escalated to a point where Mathilda began to believe some of the things they were saying, even their speculation that she might be suffering from thyroid disease.
"How can the opinion of someone, whom I don't even know, affect how I look and feel about my own body," she ponders. "[I was even] questioning my own general physical health."
In response, Mathilda took a proactive stance by reaching out to the forum's moderator to remove the thread.
She describes the experience as distressing, where she felt compelled to stand up for herself because no one else would. Simran also addresses the issue of whether putting oneself out in the digital world means that one must accept the criticism that comes with it – the answer being ‘no’.
For example, Simran clarifies that posting an image of yourself is your freedom of expression. However, it doesn't entitle other people to be horrid and abusive to you.
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.
.
.
See how farking disgusting is this lady posting all kinds of disgusting videos forcing people to appreciate her puking Dinobu body and yet she claims she don't understand why people body-shame her in the interview above, LOL...
https://www.herworld.com/women/women-now/mathilda-huang-cyber-bullying-weight-looks/


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