Stephanie Wong is sad as his boyfriend dumps her after 12 years of relationship and married another woman he just met...

[Nanodick]

Seems like it's all the guy's fault and she had no part to play in the breakup.

According to her TikTok, she said her ex cheated on her 7 times.

 

[sbfuncle]

I just want to know what you meant by "direct proofs" lah.

And what is so different between your clear minded belief vis-a-vis other religions (other than the religion of peace)

I need to state clearly to support my quotes.
Direct proof can cum in many forms.
Becos some of them can tell me things like.
GOD told me this this..
But it was their own imagination de woh.
Direct proof it mah.

And the thing is, I can worship the same god with them at the same time, no issue about that so far.

 

[Nanodick]

I need to state clearly to support my quotes.
Direct proof can cum in many forms.
Becos some of them can tell me things like.
GOD told me this this..
But it was their own imagination de woh.
Direct proof it mah.

And the thing is, I can worship the same god with them at the same time, no issue about that so far.

Everyone is free to believe and not believe, choose their own religion or beliefs as long as the religion or beliefs doesnt promote terrorism or harm other human beings.

 

[A Singaporean]

Can I help ? Let me take one for the team.

 

[sbfuncle]

Everyone is free to believe and not believe, choose their own religion or beliefs as long as the religion or beliefs doesnt promote terrorism or harm other human beings.

Yes, that's why I never like to question anyone within my worship group.
But at the same time, I doesn't want to believe it blindly, and yet I doesn't want to conflict with the believers, so I always stay at neutral ground.
To them, this would mean lack of faith.
But I doesn't see it this way, i carry the same faith just that I doesn't like to lie to myself and believing it blindly.

 

[True Believer]

Everyone is free to believe and not believe, choose their own religion or beliefs as long as the religion or beliefs doesnt promote terrorism or harm other human beings.

This is a common perspective held by most people. The concept of free will, in the context of religion, suggests that we have the autonomy to choose our own beliefs and religious path. We are also free to reject this faith if we feel that it has not delivered on its promises.

 

[True Believer]

There are misguided followers who believe that God must make them successful in their studies, career, love, marriage and grant them good health and riches. When they discover that some of their prayers have not materialised in these outcomes, they reject their faith, and seek the next religion which may give them all that they prayed for.

 

[NanoSpeed]

Yes, that's why I never like to question anyone within my worship group.
But at the same time, I doesn't want to believe it blindly, and yet I doesn't want to conflict with the believers, so I always stay at neutral ground.
To them, this would mean lack of faith.
But I doesn't see it this way, i carry the same faith just that I doesn't like to lie to myself and believing it blindly.

You sound like ownself check ownself leh.

Your religion is PAP, is it ?

 

[True Believer]

Yes, that's why I never like to question anyone within my worship group.
But at the same time, I doesn't want to believe it blindly, and yet I doesn't want to conflict with the believers, so I always stay at neutral ground.
To them, this would mean lack of faith.
But I doesn't see it this way, i carry the same faith just that I doesn't like to lie to myself and believing it blindly.

To the Muslims, if they do not seek revenge for a perceived insult, they are unfaithful. They see the restraint shown by Jews and Christians in the face of insulting cartoons by Charlie Hebdo as evidence that we do not love our God. Muslims do not advocate forgiving and forgetting, but see violence as an acceptable option.

 

[glockman]

simi hurt by man, emotional deficit, god to fill that emotional void..... no need all these for her lah.... waste time... take her and her bible to attend a swinger party and swapping.... before she knows what's going on, she will be crawling and begging you for more lol...... [B]@glockman, you interested in the task[/B]??? lol....

Of course!! I exist to fulfill every woman's dreams and desires.

 

[Papsmearer]

Stephanie

It has been now slightly more than 7 months since I learn how to heal through the end of my 12 years long relationship that ended with infidelity, to be honest, it was one of the hardest thing I've ever had to go through, but choosing to be intentional with my healing is the bravest decision l've ever made too, no distractions, no escaping it, just focus on God as my center, and allow Him to heal me.

I found out not long ago that the person I use to love tied the knot, and got married on 12th July (notice the number of 7 and 12 popping up yet again), the one whom I thought I would spent the rest of my life with barely just months ago, is the one who destroyed everything we've build together, and he took that dream with him and gave it to someone he barely knew. A huge lesson I've needed to learn how to accept, no matter how hard it is for me to. Of YEAR course, this now marks the end of our cycle, the end of my lesson...

You see, I was with a dismissive avoidant who also has a covert narcissistic tendencies, but I thought if I've loved him enough, protected him enough, forgive him enough, love him unconditionally, dimmed my lights enough, take on everything in the house, and slowly guide him into independence, then I will be able to keep this relationship... I did that for 12 years and more... only to learn that staying this long has destroyed who I am at my core, where I betrayed myself over and over again to keep a love that wasn't love, and allowing him to convince me that I was a problem... I allowed myself to ON accept less than the bare minimum... was the one who licked the love off of the back of a blade, to finally learn that it was all NOT worth it...

This 7 months seems like a lifetime ago, but it also seems short, I've had to learn how to release a lot of that burden and pain, and entrust them to God, my Lord and Savior, I've had to retrain my mind and shift my perception from self blame into seeing what it actually was, and come to terms with what truly happened to me... how I was betrayed, then discarded, lied to, manipulated, blamed and disrespected (by someone I use to hold high regards for), and even so, it is OKAY, and I've properly learned how to grief (for the first time in my life)... ID everything changed in a blink of an eye, but I am grateful now...

Because today, I can finally say I've walked out of it, and I'm ready to head back out into the world to discover what is for me... I rediscover my passion for art, music and life again... I've reconnected with those whom I love, and refocused on what matters, and most importantly I found my way home to God... I finally realized what I deserve and have always wanted, and I will accept nothing less than that... and now I know, that it is possible to actually survive through such pain, I know in a lot of moments, that it gets so painful that all you wanted to do was to end it all... but now I know, it actually passes...

Ironically, it is through the pain, I found the light at the end of the tunnel... if it's not because of this experience, I wouldn't have admitted that I was living in darkness, masked as a rainbow...

PS: To the girl who married my ex and ruined numerous relationships until mine, I'm glad you finally feel chosen A now (through your lies & deceptions), but remember, life always comes full UP circle... ALWAYS... and to my ex, you know what you did, and may you bring that weight with you till the end of your life, forgiveness isn't something I am able to give you both so I surrendered it... I've paid my dues, so may we never ever meet again in this and every other lifetime to come...

no one want to hear about her shitty life